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Old June 18th, 2009, 05:11 AM
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For a naive 20-something, sunflowa, you're really spot-on the mark!

Ryn, I've read almost every post you have done in this de-breifing board. And alot on the other boards too, and if it's not to bold to say, even though you might *feel* that you've been ok for the past few months, your birthing experience (in my opinion, please just take me with a grain of salt, I might be sooooo off the mark) has effected you EMENSELY. The flashbacks might be fading, and the nightmares subsiding, but I know that you are affected deeper than that.

I think you do need to do this. I think even if all it does is let people know how disgustingly you were trreated, even if they can't reprimand the staff who treated you that way, I think knowing that you have moved forward, knowing in yourself that the way you were treated was unacceptable and that you didn't deserve that, and even knowing that what you say might help others?

I'm sorry my advice isn't from someone who has complained, I hope someone can come in and give some more specific advice. I just wanted to let you know I am proud of you and I think you are doing the right thing for you.
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