Thanks all for sharing - I feel fine down there so will definitely be going for a VB next time (although not for a couple of years - managing two is bonkers at the minute - think I need a break!)
What made it worse for me was the the
OB said it to me straight after I'd given birth and was euphoric at actually having a VB and having my new born having his first feed - you'd think that in the "caring" profession they'd have a little more empathy wouldn't you!