[Sal79]

Hi Bianeczka. Sorry that you're so upset and confused. It sounds like you've been through a lot and are having trouble making sense of it all. After TTC for 12+ months, and years of painful periods that were treated with BCP, I was diagnosed with endo via a lap earlier this year, during which the endo was burnt.

The first FS we saw said, before we even knew about the endo and without any real investigations, that we should go straight to IVF. We weren't happy with this and wanted investigations as to cause of infertility and other treatment options. We changed FS and subsequently clinics and it was the third FS we spoke to (and continue to see) who suggested investigation for endo. She said we could try naturally for six months after it was removed and then we might like to look into other options. She said we could go at the pace we decided upon and we have done that. We TTC naturally for six months before moving onto IUI, which we tried 3 cycles of. We are now back in the planning stage and will meet with our FS next week. I know she would prefer us to try IVF next because of the success rates, but because she supports our concerns she has looked into doing GIFT at their clinic.

I don't know about Zoladex. I was never prescribed it. But I do want to encourage you that you are in control of the pace and type of treatment you receive. Doctors can advise you, but remember that it is only advice, you don't have to take it. If you can, try to find a FS who you have a good fit with and understands your concerns. IVF isn't necessary your only option, but you need to know about all your options before you can make a good decision.

BB really is a great place to get support from women going through similar things. I hope you find the support you need.

-Sal