Great suggestion Leasha!
Just another though to weigh in on the 'to tell or not tell' decision.. do whichever is going t o be most conducive to getting your successful VBAC. If telling them that this is what you're doing no matter what anyone says will empower you and strengthen your resolve, there's no reason not to tell them. But if you think their comments/reactions etc will stress you out and distract you from preparing for the birth you want, then it might be worth *not* telling them.
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