mum1984 - you are exactly right, he has the life of a single guy with the perks of us being here waiting for him all the time
tash - thanks hun. Savings was not a core value I thought to discuss actually! Silly me!
I have just sat down with him, I got on a budget website and made him put in every loan payment and expense he has (plus mine) to show him exactly how much money he is throwing away. Well surprise surprise, all things taken into account, with no money for any sort of entertainment or anything, we are $1900 in the red each year!!!!!!! How fing ridiculous!! He earns $80 000 a year! He was astounded and tried to blame the computer for stuffing the calculations up
LMAO!