Wow, thanks Kelly and Julie. Theyre really helpful to help me make some decisions, and thanks Kelly for the article (the link didnt work by the way, but I found the article on the articles page it is
here if anyone else wants it.). I think it will be good if I have an idea of what I want during labour and birth so i can actually make some informed decisions if they offer me pain relief or whatever else, so I am definately going to put something together and talk to a midwife about it. I think they said I will get to discuss it with a midwife at around 36 wks.