I can honestly say I was always confident with what I was doing with my kids until
DD got to about 2 1/2 and wasn't toilet trained.
All of a sudden I had grandparents on both sides, friends, daycare - everyone - on my case about it and I honestly didn't have a clue what to do. We had tried and failed a few times and I knew in my gut that she wasn't ready, yet everyone else thought she should be.
A couple of weeks ago she got up one day and decided she wasn't wearing nappies anymore and was using the toilet so PFFT to them.
Oh and I also got a lot of "are you sure you have enough milk" and "maybe your milk isn't strong enough" when my breastfed
DS wasn't sleeping