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December 12th, 2008, 07:07 AM
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Oh Honey...i just want to wrap you up in my arms and take away the pain thats in your heart.
I hope that you dont have to wait long for your test results to come back to make everything a bit clearer for yourselves.
Might I suggest something I did when things were really bad. I couldnt tell anyone without crying so we wrote everyone a letter and sent it to them explaining what was going on. It was alot easier to get the emotions out without having to repeat the process over and over to each person.
Another thing...start googling babe...get as much info into your brain about this...educate yourself and see what the out comes off others who have gone through this have been. Seeing and hearing positive stuff is one way to boost your confidence.
I sit here with baited breath waiting for your results...Ive got everything crossed for you
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December 12th, 2008, 07:30 AM
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got no words...i can only imagine what you are going through...don't give up hope huni...i was born at 24 weeks and spent a year in special care baby unit..i had a brain hemmorage (sp?) and hydrochepholis (sp?) and mum got told id be permantly brain damaged..im perfectly ok no probs...not the same situation but wanted to give you hope.
we are all here to support you huni.
you are in my thoughts and prayers.
love rach xxxxx
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December 12th, 2008, 09:23 AM
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oh honey
my fingers and toes are crossed for you
i really hope you get some good news soon xoxox
enjoy your ds's party on sunday
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December 22nd, 2008, 07:24 PM
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hi all sorry its been so long since i've been in contact, so say its been a trumatic week would be an understatement.
I'm not really in the right state to type a big long post at the moment but thought i should let u all know that our beautiful angel was born sleeping yesterday 21/12/08 at 9.26am 16wks & 5days.
We named him James Michael and he will be layed to rest at a burial tomorrow after noon.
post more when i'm up to it.
xxx
__________________ WannaBMum Me(26)DH(27) DS Mr B(22/12/06) 8pd 11oz
: angel: 24/6/08 (5wks) My sweet Angel James 21/12/08 (16wks+5days)
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December 22nd, 2008, 07:27 PM
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i'm so so sorry honey
my thoughts are with you and your family xoxox
please know we're here whenever you need us
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December 22nd, 2008, 07:37 PM
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Oh NO. I'm so so sorry.
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December 22nd, 2008, 07:44 PM
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I too wanted to just say how sorry I am for your loss.
Rest in Peace little James
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December 22nd, 2008, 07:50 PM
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Oh WannaBMum I am so sorry. It is hard to know what to say but know that we are all here for you in any way that you need us. Best wishes for tomorrow for all of your family. Will be thinking of you.
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December 22nd, 2008, 08:38 PM
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Oh Hun
Give yourself time to grieve hun. Many BB women have been through loss and you know that whenever you need to talk we are all here for you.
RIP James Michael
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December 22nd, 2008, 09:57 PM
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My thoughts are with you during this trying time!!
Hope tomorrow is a sunny day and your bubba will be lookng down on you smiling!!
We are all here for you..
xoxxoxooxxoox
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January 7th, 2009, 09:32 PM
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Hi WannaBmum,
I just read your story, which made my heart break, I am so terribly sorry for the loss of your beautiful son. I know that he is now in a place of peace. I went through a similar type of thing recently with losing my daughter Jasmine in Oct 08. I was told there were problems at 12-wks and cutting a long story short she had a fatal heart condition and a DNA problem. I lost her at 19 wks. It is such a heartbreaking thing to go through, but I can say that things start to get easier as times goes on. You'll never forget your little son, but the pain will start to ease. Just take your time with it, we all heal differently.
If you ever what to chat you can PM me.
Take care of yourself
Berry
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January 30th, 2009, 10:55 PM
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Thank you everyone for ur beautiful words and messages...
It means so much to me.. its been 6 very long weeks for us since we lost our beautiful little boy.
Not a day goes by that I don't think about him and miss him, and wonder what life would have been like, I miss feeling him growing in my tummy.
It's still so hard for me to understand exactly why this has happened to us... but I thank god that i have another beautiful son here with me & if it wasn't for our 2yr old i don't think I would be where I am now...
Thanks again all.
Take care xxx
__________________ WannaBMum Me(26)DH(27) DS Mr B(22/12/06) 8pd 11oz
: angel: 24/6/08 (5wks) My sweet Angel James 21/12/08 (16wks+5days)
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