bamboo fitteds are brilliant - i, and most people, find that it's the only thing that will last for a night nappy, esp if you add bamboo boosters.
essential
imo.
i like to use a fleece liner for stay-dry feel, and easy poo squirt-off (same as peapods inner)
covers - any pul or wool cover will be good. pul is easier and trimmer, but wool is more breathable and adds absorbency.
motherease airflow has the most breathable cover (allowing air flow, hence the name..), but baby beehinds has v strong/heavy elastic.
(compared with pocket styles/aio):
downside - they take v long to dry, up to 3 days on the line indoors. and they're bulkier. so i only choose them for night.
and it's abit more fiddly with the 3 things to put on - liner, nappy, cover (unless you use wool pants/longies)
upside: easily a 12-14hr nappy. all natural (if you don't use a liner). best poo-retention due to dbl line of elastic defence (one of nappy, 1 of cover).
i've had no probs w my baby beehinds, but other popular brands should be just as good.
u need 3 washes to get them at max absorbency. if u avoid the dryer the elastic lives longer, but you can get someone to replace the elastic when it eventually happens.
they're less soft after washing, but same as any fabric. short dryer spins soften them up.
no falling apart - very sturdy fabric!
there're lots of nappy sites w info/reviews if u need
hth=)