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Old May 12th, 2007, 09:25 PM
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[COLOR="Blue"][CENTER][B]Mothers Day Plea

Please dont avoid my baby's name
for he has one and it should be used

please dont make out like he doesnt exist
because he does, even if he will never give a mothers day kiss

please think of him when you write me out a card from the little three
remember hes still my son so sign it Bailey Ruby and Jesse

please remember im a mum of three
please remember it when your telling people of me

im not ashamed of him i dont want him to be hidden
his time with me was short but at least it was given

please im begging you this mothers day and every other day
to remember that my son does exist talk about him dont be afraid

yes you're right i probably will cry, for i am still grieving
but share my tears with me, lend me a shoulder instead of leaving

i sure would like you to stick around, i'll make us a cup of tea,
i'll use my own hankerchief, is it to much to plea?

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Old May 13th, 2007, 09:38 AM
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To the mothers of children who never were children,
Who died in the womb unnamed and unknown:
You also were mothers, albeit but briefly,
And loved with the love given mothers alone.
Yours was the stirring of life within life,
The being of being all one being knew,
The love of a love that knew only your love,
The world to a world that knew no world but you.

Yours the unspeakable pleasure of giving
Your substance to nurture the creature within;
Yours the inscrutable song of creation,
Bringing to being the dust of the wind.

Death is the end, but never the meaning;
Life is a gift, no matter how long.
You, too, are mothers, the bearers of beauty,
The icons of love to whom this day belongs.

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Old May 20th, 2007, 08:25 AM
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I hope you dont mind, but i wrote this poem today, after suffering an ectopic pregnancy..
Any ways here it is by georgette burgess
A Fallen Angel

Did you trip and fall our way,
Was it accidental,
Were you not meant to stay,

Did you pick yourself up
And fly back to heaven so quickly,
Or was there another reason for you being
Here so very briefly.

You were so small
You were so pure
You needed not a grave,
So how do we say goodbye to you
With nothing left
Except the love that is long overdue.

Was this all you needed from this place
The love of two parents,
We will never forget you
Yet I know that is needless to say

You accidentally tripped and fell our way
And although you were not meant to stay,
You got us and we got you,
Our special baby meant to be born so pure
You will be with us forever more.

An angel tripped and fell my way,
But this one was never meant to stay,
Just to bring me one precious gift
One that was meant for no other
A lifetime of love
For making me a mother

You will always be just ours,
Mummy and Daddy’s fallen angel

Love mummy and daddy
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[FONT=Arial][SIZE=4][COLOR=darkorchid][I][U]No More Tears To Cry [/U][/I][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT]
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[FONT=Arial][COLOR=#000000][I]Why do i try to cry,[/I][/COLOR][/FONT]
[I][FONT=Arial][COLOR=#000000]when i know that there are no-more[/COLOR][/FONT][/I]
[I][FONT=Arial][COLOR=#000000]tears to cry [/COLOR][/FONT][/I]
[I][FONT=Arial][COLOR=#000000]Everyone expects me to cry [/COLOR][/FONT][/I]
[I][FONT=Arial][COLOR=#000000]all the time[/COLOR][/FONT][/I]
[I][FONT=Arial][COLOR=#000000]whenever thay mention their names. [/COLOR][/FONT][/I]
[I][FONT=Arial][COLOR=#000000]Some people say maybe it just wasnt meant to be[/COLOR][/FONT][/I]
[I][FONT=Arial][COLOR=#000000]maybe god thought this life wasnt meant for them[/COLOR][/FONT][/I]
[I][FONT=Arial][COLOR=#000000]but how do thay know,[/COLOR][/FONT][/I]
[I][FONT=Arial][COLOR=#000000]why do i still try to cry[/COLOR][/FONT][/I]
[I][FONT=Arial][COLOR=#000000]can somebody tell me [/COLOR][/FONT][/I]
[I][FONT=Arial][COLOR=#000000]for im falling apart[/COLOR][/FONT][/I]
[I][FONT=Arial][/FONT][/I]
[I][FONT=Arial][COLOR=magenta]In loving memory of my angels [/COLOR][/FONT][/I]
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[CENTER][COLOR="Purple"]Bye,Bye OUR BABY
Its more than ten years on
never thought i would wait this long
but we did it, you were conceived
all my irrational fears relieved
i could feel you within
deep inside of me
could not wait for the day
your face we would finally see
we thought you were safe
buried deep within me
no idea that even you
sadly, were not meant to be
i long to hold you in my arms
and gently rock you to sleep
we wanted to meet you our baby
these feelings cut so deep
when i manage to close my eyes
i see you in my dreams
we could have been so happy
i dont know what this all means.......[/COLOR][/CENTER]
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blatant image
screams from page
eight weeks of life
throws me into rage
nervous twitch
body wont cease shaking
why do i feel
my heart is breaking
ten years have gone
im still asking how
strange all this
should surface now
the tears have come
cant stop the flow
the pain i have hidden
will finally show
a life i created
wasnt meant to be
the hurt wont subside
i want to be free
i made the right choice
ive gotta live with it
i just wish
i didnt feel like *****
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Just wanted to add this one that I found

[B]Wings & Halos
By Suzanne in memory of Joey
Born and lost February 14th 2001

I was so excited when I woke up today
I heard my Mommy was coming to play
I washed my wings and my halo too
Cuz that's what Mommy likes me to do

I went to the place where I knew she'd be
It's where she comes to visit me
She comes for comfort in her despair
Oh Mommy, can't you feel me touching your hair?

I'm by your side all through the night
I never let you out of my sight
I was your baby for only a day
But soon we can be together and play

You know we'll never be apart
You'll never let me leave your heart
Mommy I'm not really in the ground,
lift up your head and look around

The clouds, the birds, the raindrops too
these gifts of life were given to you
Don't cry for me Mommy, I know you're here
Please let me wipe away that tear.

I was sent to you from up above
And you showed me the ultimate love
Instead of giving me all of your years
You freely gave me all of your tears

Remember your relatives, the ones who have died?
They brought me here, I'm by their side
They watch over me and help me to see
just how much you really love me

So don't be unhappy when you come visit me
I'm the angel above you, up in the tree
And when you leave, you'll never be through
You'll always be my Mommy
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Old December 28th, 2007, 04:07 AM
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I wrote this thinking of my Angel Malia who passed away 12/23/2006. She was 5 1/2 months old.
All the things we never got to do..


" I never got to...."

I never got to hold you
and look you in the eyes

I never got to kiss your chubby cheeks

and cuddle you , so you wouldn't cry.


So quietly you left me

gently you stopped trying to breathe

and I felt your last breath

gently caress my cheek

A soft butterfly kiss as I continued

to weep.


I never got to see you crawl

or pull yourself up,

on the nearest wall.

So much happened

and we missed it all


I never got to hear you say my name

call my Mommy, or even

play a game


I never got to hear you laugh

As I tickled you or

you splashed in your bath


So very many things

we never got a chance to do

And all I have left are memories

of you


I never cried as you took

that first step

and I never got to hold you

as you quietly without pain

slept.


I never got to tell you

how much I loved you

I never got to tell you

That I would always miss you.


I never got to hold you

and look you in the eyes

I never got a chance

to even say good-bye.
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[FONT="Comic Sans MS"][COLOR="Magenta"][CENTER]Fingerprints

Your fingerprints are on my heart.
Even though you never held my hand
you touched me.
Even though I never heard you speak
you taught me.
You taught me about love.
You taught me about caring.
You taught me about courage.
You taught me about faith.
You taught me about happiness.
You taught me about sorrow.
You brought me closer to myself.
In the time I cared for you,
how my life changed.
Never to be the same again.
Because of you
I know I will somehow be stronger
Because of you
I know I will be more prepared for life
All this from tiny fingerprints
that touched my heart
Because of this
You will live forever in my soul
never to be forgotten
I will always love you.
You are my child.
Born Still
But Still Born

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Footprints

These are my footprints,
so perfect and so small.
These tiny footprints,
Never touched the ground at all.
Not one tiny footprint,
for now I have my wings.
These tiny footprints were meant,
for other things.
You will hear my tiny footprints,
in the patter of the rain.
Gentle drops like angel's tears,
of joy and not from pain.
You will see my tiny footprints,
in each butterflies' lazy dance.
I'll let you know I'm with you,
if you just give me a chance.
You will see my tiny footprints,
in the rustle of the leaves.
I will whisper names into the wind,
and call each one that grieves.
Most of all,
these tiny footprints,
are found on mommy's heart.
Cause even though I'm gone now,
we'll NEVER truly part.

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thank you so much for sharing these beautiful songs and poems. i miscarried 3 months ago and have struggled to find the words to express how i felt and still feel, and these poems say everything i feel but couldn't say. so thank you so very much.
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A Pair of Shoes

I am wearing a pair of shoes.
They are ugly shoes.
Uncomfortable shoes.
I hate my shoes.
Each day I wear them, and each day I wish I had another pair.
Some days my shoes hurt so bad that I do not think I can take another step.
Yet, I continue to wear them.
I get funny looks wearing these shoes.
I can tell in others eyes that they are glad they are my shoes and not theirs.
They never talk about my shoes.
To learn how awful my shoes are might make them uncomfortable.
To truly understand these shoes you must walk in them.
But, once you put them on, you can never take them off.
I now realize that I am not the only one who wears these shoes.
There are many pairs in this world.
Some woman are like me and ache daily as they try and walk in them.
Some have learned how to walk in them so they dont hurt quite as much.
Some have worn the shoes so long that days will go by before they think about how much they hurt.
No woman deserves to wear these shoes.
Yet, because of these shoes I am a stronger woman.
These shoes have given me the strength to face anything.
They have made me who I am.
I will forever walk in the shoes of a woman who has lost a child.
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Cameron Azrael & Krystal Sariel

We'll never get to hold you,
Or look upon your face.
We'll never get to show you,
Our love through our embrace.

We'll never have the feeling,
Of you calling out to us.
We'll never know the feeling,
Of you looking up to us.

Why you were taken away from us ,
We'll never really know.
We look around for a sign,
As to why you werent to grow.

There is nothing we can do right now
Our minds are an absolute mess.
There is confusion, sadness, sorry,
And anger I must confess.

Our tears can not bring you back,
Back into our world.
You are gone from us on this plain
We'll meet again I know.

So until that time I ll say to you,
And you must listen to your mummy.
Watch out for us when we come one day,
Your mummy and your daddy.
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Why did my babies have to leave?
Why did they have to die?
I'm left down here just wondering,
Why are we left to cry?
What did I do to make them leave?
Why Lord, could they not stay?
You knew I'd love them very much,
Why take them far away?

'My child', said God, 'please understand
I hear you as you pray,
Your children never left you,
For in your heart s they'll stay.
I needed your sweet angels
In my nursery up above,
They learned life's lessons quickly,
My child, you taught them love!

I let them visit often,
As in your bed you sleep,
They come and lay beside you,
And gently strokes your cheek.
When troubles fall upon you,
And you don't understand,
I send your Angel Children
To guide you by the hand.

Please trust in me as on your way
In life you gently tread,
For Babies are right beside you,
I tell you, they're not dead'
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Remembering

Go ahead and mention them,
the ones that died you know.

Don't worry about hurting me further,
the depth of my pain doesn't show.

Don't worry about making me cry,
I'm already crying inside.

Help me to heal by releasing,
the tears that I try to hide.

I'm hurting when you just keep silent,
pretending they didn't exist.

I'd rather you mention them,
knowing they will be missed.

You asked me how I was doing,
I say "Pretty Good" or "Fine"

But healing is something ongoing,
I feel it will take a lifetime.
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DO YOU REMEMBER?
Do you remember all the days, the hours, the moments
That you shared your life with me, nestled in my womb?
The feelings of joy, the happiness I felt knowing you were there?
I do. Do you remember the day I lost you, that day filled with gloom?
When I felt my world collapse around me, my heart filling with regret
At the thought of you just dying inside of me? Yes, I do.
Can you remember me talking softly to you whilst you were growing
Inside of me? Telling you all of our plans, even your name?
I can. Do you remember hearing my voice singing softly to you?
Can you still feel all my love for you even though you have left?
I feel it still. Do you feel it baby, do you remember me, your mummy?
I hope so , for you are still locked in my heart, locked so
Tightly, and I'll never let you go 'til it stops beating and I see you
In Heaven, and you say, 'Mummy, I remember you, yes,
I remember it all.'
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AngelBabies- Thank you for sharing those poems. They are amazing. So true and so real.
It could have been written for anyone of us. Thanks again
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DEAR MOTHER
Dear mother, dry your tears today, you know I love you so.
It hurts me much to see you cry, oh mother, don't you know?
I'll never leave you all alone, I never left your heart,
God took me by the hand that day but said we'd never part.
He kept His promise to me, I visit all the time,
You are the sweetest mother an Angel here could find.
If I could write a letter, I'm sure you know I would
To let you know I'm safe from harm and Heaven is so good!
I'm here with many Angels, so many that you know!
Our family sends all their love to you on earth below.
We know one day we'll meet again when one day you come home,
We've saved a place for you dear mum, it's near our Father's throne.
We'll wrap our arms around you mum and lead you up God's stairs,
'Til then dear mum, please carry on and dry those streaming tears.
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WHY?
Why did you have to leave me?
Why did you have to fly?
Was I not meant to keep you?
Why do I have to cry?
I want you back here with us,
Things will never be the same.
How can I carry on just now
And play life's awful game?
I hope one day we meet again
In Heaven up above,
I hope you all can feel
That I'm sending you my love.
Just play on precious Angels,
But will you promise me?
The day I'm called to Heaven
You'll be at the gates for me?
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Angel - they are just beautiful. For a long time I just couldn't look at your web site. Thank you for sharing.
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Dear God,
Please love my Angels that dwell with you above,
Please hug them for me tightly with your precious, tender love,
Dear God,
Please sing them lullabys as they lay down to sleep,
Please comfort them and just be there if they should ever weep.
Please let them know I love them both and wish I understood
The reason they're in Heaven, please tell them to be good.
Are fluffy clouds their pillows, to lay their heads at night?
And do the stars just twinkle to give them little light?
Will you watch them all so carefully and always hold their hand?
And answer all the questions that a child can't understand?
Do you tell them all about me, do they know just who I am?
Are they with my family, my Nana and Grandma?
God,
do you ever pick them up and sit them on your knee?
And rock them oh so gently if they ever cry for me?
God,
do they play with children's toys in Heaven up above?
And have they met your precious son that died for us in love?
I have so many questions Lord, I want to understand
Just why my little Angels are up there, was their life planned?
I dwell down here and feel like we're a thousand miles apart,
Please help me God, please hear my plea,
Just mend this broken heart!
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A MOTHER'S GRIEF
She carries such a heavy heart, her tears will often flow,
Seems everyone's avoiding her, seems no-one wants to know!
Her grief she carries all alone, nobody seems to care,
Or help her ease this burden, this burden she must bear.
Her baby has just left her, but where, where did he go?
Why did he have to leave so soon, and will she ever know?
A mother's grief's a lonely path, she only wants her child,
For other's understanding, their love, if only mild!
To talk of her lost baby, acknowledge her real pain,
To tell her life will soon be bright, she'll see her child again,
For he has gone to Heaven, an Angel up above,
Where there's no tears or dying, just great eternal love.
Try understand this mother's grief, praise God it was not you
That lost your precious, wanted child, for he was wanted too!
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These are two songs I listen to when I want to feel close to my 's
Celine Dion - Fly
Avril Lavine- Slipped Away
Maybe you would like to listen to them tonight while your candles are burning
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Think Before you speak

Dear friend, today you broke my heart,
In a place that was unbroken.
You did it with your thoughtless words
That should not have been spoken.

You know that I am grieving
That my pain is deep and real
Your hurtful words pierced like a knife
How do you think I feel

You may not suffer my loss
Or share this lonely grief
But I m mourning my baby,
Who s life was much too brief

I m sure you dont know how I feel
I dont expect you to
dont ask me to get over it
thats something I cant do

Without grief there is no healing
Its a journey I must make
Its not the path I would choose
But one I m forced to take

No matter how you choose to see
What I am going through
I need compassion and support
I d do the same for you
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Just Say ?Im Sorry?

You dont know how I feel
Please dont tell me that you do
There is just one way to know - have you lost a child too?
You'll have another child!? - must I hear this each day?
Can I get another Father , too, if mine should pass away?

Dont say it was gods will
That s not the god I know.
Would god on purpose break my heart,
Then watch as my tears flow?

arent you better yet??
Is that what I heard you say?
NO! A part of my heat aches -
I ll always feel some pain.
You think that silence is kind,
But it hurts me even more.
I want to talk about my child
Who has gone through deaths door.

Dont say these things to me,
Although you do mean well.
They dont take the pain away;
I must go through this hell.
I will get better slow but sure -
And it helps to have you near.
But a simple 'I m sorry you lost your child?'
Is all I need to hear.
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mummy of 3...... I listen to those 2 but also

My Name
Performed by George Canyon

To Where You Are By Josh Groban

The first one is "sung" by the unborn child.

I ll put the words in for the 4 songs for everyone... they are beautiful..... you can actually watch them on utube....... or if you dont want to find the utube link s then on my web site i have links to them all..... they are beautiful watched.
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To Where You Are By Josh Groban
To Where You Are

Who can say for certain
Maybe youre still here
I feel you all around me
Your memories so clear

Deep in the stillness
I can hear you speak
Youre still an inspiration
Can it be (? )
That you are mine
Forever love
And you are watching over me from up above

Fly me up to where you are
Beyond the distant star
I wish upon tonight
To see you smile
If only for awhile to know youre there
A breath aways not far
To where you are

Are you gently sleeping
Here inside my dream
And isnt faith believing
All power cant be seen

As my heart holds you
Just one beat away
I cherish all you gave me everyday
cause you are mine
Forever love
Watching me from up above

And I believe
That angels breathe
And that love will live on and never leave

Fly me up
To where you are
Beyond the distant star
I wish upon tonight
To see you smile
If only for awhile
To know youre there
A breath aways not far
To where you are

I know you?re there
A breath aways not far
To where you are
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My Name By George Canyon
The words to this song are from the unborn baby. This one still brings tears to my eyes every time i listen to it.... it is so beautiful and exactly how I see it.... They are still up there our little angels.... waiting.


Its cold in here feels like everythings upside down
I can feel you talking but I can barely make out the sound
I been kicking around these parts, feels like a year
Im gonna change this world if I ever get out of here
She wants to dress me in pink, paints my bedroom blue
And I just laugh to myself, because only I know the truth
This love is my only emotion
Havent learned any fear any pain
Its kind of funny with all this commotion
I guess theyve got me to blame
And they dont even know my name
And they dont even know my name

Well Ive never felt so ready, think its finally time
Cause that big old world is waiting, and its mine all mine
Just then everything got real quiet, it got real bright
And a man took my hand said dont worry, your momma's gonna be all right
Then he opened the gate, & I followed him in
Said you can wait right here till its your turn again
And his love is the one true emotion
Heaven knows no fear no pain
I never got to set my wheels in motion
But they loved me just the same
And they never even knew name
Didnt even know my name
You loved me just the same
And you didnt even know my name
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Fly
Fly
Fly, fly little wing
Fly beyond imagining
The softest cloud, the whitest dove
Upon the wing of Heaven's love
Past the planets and the stars
Leave this lonely world of ours
Escape the sorrow and the pain
And fly again

Fly, fly precious one
Your endless journey has begun
Take your gentle happiness
Far too beautiful for this
Cross over to the other shore
There is peace forevermore
But hold this memory bittersweet
Until we meet

Fly, fly do not fear
Don't waste a breath, don't shed a tear
Your heart is pure, your soul is free
Be on your way, don't wait for me
Above the universe you'll climb
On beyond the hands of time
The moon will rise, the sun will set
But I won't forget

Fly, fly little wing
Fly where only angels sing
Fly away, the time is right
Go now, find the light.
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Na na, na na na, na na
I miss you, miss you so bad
I don't forget you, oh it's so sad
I hope you can hear me
I remember it clearly

The day you slipped away
Was the day I found it won't be the same
Ooooh

Na na la la la na na

I didn't get around to kiss you
Goodbye on the hand
I wish that I could see you again
I know that I can't

Oooooh
I hope you can hear me cause I remember it clearly

The day you slipped away
Was the day I found it won't be the same
Ooooh

I had my wake up
Won't you wake up
I keep asking why
And I can't take it
It wasn't fake
It happened, you passed by

Now your gone, now your gone
There you go, there you go
Somewhere I can't bring you back
Now your gone, now your gone
There you go, there you go,
Somewhere your not coming back

The day you slipped away
Was the day i found it won't be the same noo..
The day you slipped away
Was the day that i found it won't be the same oooh...

Nah nah, nah nah nah, nah nah
I miss you
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Angel- Thankyou for sharing those poems with us they are beautiful and reflect exactly how we feel. I will be thinking of you all today and lighting my candles.( It is nearly 6am here i the uk )
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If tears could build a stairway
And memories were a lane
We would walk right
up to Heaven
And bring you back again.....
No farewell words were spoken
No time to say goodbye
You were gone
before we knew it
And only God knows why......
Our hearts still ache in sadness
And secret tears still flow
What it meant to lose you
No one will ever know.....

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A poem called What makes a mother (mentioned above) and also this poem were read out at Taite and Seth's funeral..

Too Soon

This was a life that hardly begun
no time to find your place in the sun
no time to do all you could have done
but we loved you enough for a lifetime

No time to enjoy the world and its wealth
No time to take life down off the shelf
no time to sing the song of yourself
though you had enough love for a lifetime

Those who live long endure sadness and tears
but you'll never suffer the sorrowing years
no betrayel, no anger
no hatred, no fears
Just love, only love in your lifetime..
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Not sure if anyone has heard of Teddy Love club.. They have bereavement bears.. I recieved 2 and am proud to say I just bought 8 in Taite and Seth's memory.. Anyway a beautiful verse they have written in the card attached is: An angel in the book of life wrote down your babies birth.. And whispered as he closed the book, too beautiful for this Earth..
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Little Snowdrop

The world may never notice
If a Snowdrop doesn't bloom,
Or even pause to wonder
If the petals fall too soon.
But every life that ever forms
Or ever comes to be,
Touches the world in some small way
For all eternity.
The little one we long for
Was swiftly here and gone.
But the love that was then planted
Is a light that still shines on.
And though our arms are empty
Our hearts know what to do.
Every beating of our hearts
Says that we love you.

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Default poem for Nicholas

We lost our son Nicholas nearly 7 months ago. He was diagnosed with cancer just after his 1st birthday but it ended up too big a fight. Here is a poem that we had at his funeral on a keepsake bookmark.

You can shed a tear that he is gone
Or you can smile because he has lived
You can close your eyes and pray that he'll come back
Or you can open your eyes and see the joy he's given

Your heart can be empty because you cant see him
Or you can be full of the love you shared
You can turn your back on tomorrow, and live yesterday
Or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday

You can remember him and only that he's gone
Or you can cherish his memory and let it live on
You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back
Or you can want what he'd want;
Smile, open your eyes, love and go on.

Obviously people who have had a miscarriage will be saying i didnt get to do any of that, but having had 2 myself before i fell pregnant with Nicholas its nice to just think of what may have been with those children...
RIP Nicholas 08/03/07 - 07/12/08
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