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Old June 17th, 2009, 11:40 AM
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Smallyfry- that is good news that there is positive info I hope that has eased you mind. Isn't the internet amazing for all the info it can give us and that it allows us to support each other the way we do though we may never meet face to face.

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Old June 17th, 2009, 02:43 PM
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Sunbeam re the computer needing therapy hehehhe... I have also heard of a great fertility place on the Gold Coast where a girl from up here went to both times she got pregnant, hope it does the trick for you

Greenslw I hate to be the one to spread your good news but the girls over here have asked about you a couple of times So I'm telling them now that your scan went great! YAY I /we are very happy for you honey xoxoxo

AFM there is no afm, I am a little down today
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Old June 17th, 2009, 03:09 PM
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Hi Ladies

No news yet, no bleeding only niggling pains at the moment. Went and had my second bt today to check my HCG levels and will hopefully have more information tomorrow when I get those results at the doctor. Thanks for your support x
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Old June 17th, 2009, 03:50 PM
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That is great news about Greenslw's scan thanks cherished.

Big hugs for both cherished and superstar .

I think my grief counselling might be doing the trick, actually though about throwing out my old scans and hpt from my other pgs this morning to make a fresh start, didn't actually do it but thought about it at least
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Old June 17th, 2009, 04:09 PM
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I got my previous blood test results from the GP today when i went to get my refferal for the FS and I just thought i would share and see if anyone can enlighten me on whether the numbers are good??
I was in the luteal phae cd22 when this was done and is the chart before last month if you want to look..

In particular i was looking at my oestrodoil, i know its only one point over the reccommended but im wondering if this is why i am having trouble getting pg? I high Oestrogen level??

FSH: 3 (reccommended or expected range 2-12)
LH: 7.1 (reccommended or expected range 2-15)
OEST: 771 (reccommended or expected range 370-770)
PROG: 46 (reccommended or expected range 10.6-89.1)

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Evening all.
coco i have no idea what anyof thoose numbers mean, sorry.

afm, i am now cd 44, and got a bfn with fmu, so i guess that spotting a week and a bit ago was not implantation.
Just wish af would show up now.
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Old June 18th, 2009, 08:07 AM
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I knew my lack of emotion and being OK with it all was too good to be true! Today I have been hit in the face by overwealing feelings of wanting a BABY RIGHT NOW!!!! I can't believe this has happend again
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Cherished - Im sorry that you are having a tough day. It really isnt fair that you are going through this again.
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Old June 18th, 2009, 08:31 AM
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ooh cherished hun, im so sorry, i know there is nothing i can say that will make it all better, but just know that u are loved and supported here from all of us.
Im sending u big squishy cyber hugs.
Please be gentle on your self today and try and relax.
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Hi Ladies,

Cherished - sending you hugs Not sure what else to say, other than I'm thinking of you.

Coco - I have no idea ..... sorry. Though on the estridol - its only 1 point over and the range is up to 770 (its not like its one point over and the range is only to 5 IYKWIM? But then that is only me making a HUGE guess.

AFM - today I am cramming for my exam tomorrow. Wish me luck!! If you see me posting between now and tomorrow evening, tell me to go away and study!!

Cheerio and fingers crossed!!
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Old June 18th, 2009, 09:26 AM
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Still no af, cd 45 today, really wish it would hurry up!

ok so i really thought that i od on cd 17-19, and that spotting doesnt seam like implantation any more, so i have no idea, maybe i didnt o at all, just wish i didnt have this stoopid miscarriage!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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cherished, honey I've hesitated for over an hour posting hugs to you, I'm not sure if it would be ok. It feels so unjust and so ridiculously unfair that things are this way. Until I joined this thread I had no idea how merciless mother nature could be. Big to you and I hope your day improves and that when the sun comes out for you it surrounds you with rainbows.

anila, I'm sorry to hear that you still have no resolution. Perhaps a trip to the doc for that bt now? Surely he'll do one now? Beg, plead, cry, at least to find out if you are in luteal phase or not so that you know if you have ovulated... and while he's at it, to find out if you are pg.

Milly, good luck with the study and don't come back til the exam is done!!

coco - only a couple of days now and you will start to get some answers to what has been happening. I that they lead to happiness very quickly. I'm afraid I can't help with the bt results.

sunbeam, good luck to you and donor daddy. I know it will happen for you both.

For those mentioned and all my other lovely friends in here, thank you. I hope I have been even half the help that you have been to me. I feel I should move on but will keep an eye on you and hope to see you leaving here very soon.
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Hey cherished- I know exactly how you feel one m/c is bad enough but to go through it again feels totally unfair. I can honestly say I felt much worse and much more cheated the second time so I know where you are at. Big hugs babe

Milly- good luck with the exam.
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Anila- cd45 is long but I o'ed and still made it to cd47 hang in there babe, a/f should be just around the corner. Hope she hurries cos given my long cycle we can still be in the TTW together then.
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maddison, Anila, milly & Sunbeam thankyou for your hugs girls they really do help even though you may think they don't

Smallfry don't be a DONKEY up until 10 days ago I was still posting in this thread and the ttc 6+ mth thread because I would have missed everyone! Hugs from you are just as welcome as hugs from everyone else and even better your's are surrounded by Rainbows Thanks beautiful girl and I know this one will be a forever baby for you xoxoxo
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Hi ladies,
just a quick post, because I know I said I was studying...

Someone else I know just told me they were pg. Yay them, boo me.
sorry, just had to do that.
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