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Old September 16th, 2009, 07:26 PM
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My dads PA (male) is the nicest guy in the world. Hes the kinda family man that would do anything for you....anyway, his wife, 39wks pg, went into hospital yesterday to birth their 4th child - a baby boy. It was a water birth, as were the other births - no complications, happy healthy kids. Anyway, baby was stillborn - came out all blue. They (docs etc) have no explanation. They are naturally devastated....no prior warnings...everything was going along smoothly. I cannot even comprehend what that family are going thru. What do you tell the other siblings (all young)?, how do you keep going?....what keeps you going? ....i just look at my little boy tonight and thank the Lord once again that he is here...happy and healthy.....

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Old September 16th, 2009, 07:29 PM
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My heart goes out to the family, how devastating. I will be lighting a candle and saying a very special prayer.

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I am so very utterly sorry for what this family are going through. It is a pain no parent or sibling should ever have to feel.

I didn't have other children when I lost DS1 so I didn't have to explain how unfair it was to other children. I only hope that their precious little children can get through this grief.

My love, understanding and support to the family.

RIP precious little boy.

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Old September 16th, 2009, 07:31 PM
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I am so sorry for your friedns loss I cannot begin to imagine the pain they must be feeling now :hug May your family give them strength in their time of need My heart breaks for you all xxx
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Old September 16th, 2009, 07:31 PM
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Oh no, that's just horrific. I will keep them in my prayers.
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Old September 16th, 2009, 08:10 PM
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Old September 16th, 2009, 08:13 PM
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Oh how very sad for them, thinking of them at this hard time.

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Old September 16th, 2009, 08:18 PM
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Iwill be thinking of them, and you.
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Old September 18th, 2009, 07:37 PM
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Thats so awful, that poor family. I just cant imagine what they're going through

Saying a prayer for them & sending lots of love & strength.

It's terrible when people have to go through this.... I just wish it never had to happen

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Old September 18th, 2009, 07:45 PM
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Thinking of you lovely family. Your devastation is so raw. I wish so much that your little boy could have stayed here with you. Sending you all my warmth and love.

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Old September 18th, 2009, 08:56 PM
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That is awful, it's heartbreaking to think what they must be going through.

Sending love & prayers to them.
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Old September 18th, 2009, 10:10 PM
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my thoughts and prayers are with your family. xx
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