hi monica,
i only found out last week about my daughters hip dysplasia and i can totally understand where you are coming from,she definitely lost her spark and only seems to be becoming her usual self now...
luckily (i guess) she is only in a brace and didnt need a spica so i can't help with the dirty issues with that but with the sleep she didnt sleep well at all for the first few nights so 3 nights ago i tried folding a quilt into 4 and putting it under her and she is now back to sleeping through the night, if the cast weighs a bit it might be worth propping a pillow or rolled up towel under her legs to support it... i am sure sleeping on a quilt is totally against sids but she is quite comfortable with it and i put it under her sheet so should be ok...
good luck with it over the next few months, i am still trying to come to terms with it as well and it is pretty horrible...
I hope you all go ok at the next check up...
Emma.

