For us we were always going to have two, we started discussing a 3rd and both decided that we were happy with the two healthy boys we had (25 months apart). I thought i was ok with this but at the same time a little hesitant about accpeting the finality of it. In the end the decision was made for us as i fell pregnant with a surprise bub when DS2 was 13 months old. I was in shock and it was a little tricky for a bit there dealing with some unexpected emotional feelings but we embraced the fact that we'd be having another little one in our lives fairly quickly.
DS1 & DS2 were pretty good mates by the time DD arrived (DS1 3.11 & DS2 20months) there were lots of challenges with regards to DD being quite a difficult baby at times, with pretty cr@ppy sleep happening and then on top of that we had kinder runs and a couple of activities a week. Lots of guilt on my part at not being able to provide DD with a little less chaos. But fast forward to now and it's actually really pretty good, things are getting easier :shhh: and DS2 and DD are the best of mates and play together so well. DS1 and DS2 still play well also and there are times when all three of them have a great time toghether
Life is full of interesting moments and challenges but it's what keeps me going. I love my kids with all my heart and every day i look at DD and think how could we have not thought we didin't need another precious little one in our lives.
