Choices DS gets to make:
- his clothes and shoes (every day and at the shops)
- one evening meal a week whilst food shopping
- to help tidy up or to stop playing entirely (LOL)
- which cake to bake from the recipe book
- bedtime now or in ten minutes
- films on Family Film Night
Choices DS doesn't get to make:
- having manners
- putting dirty dishes by the sink/in the dishwasher
- having his nails cut
- flush loo and wash hands after using the loo (alternative is me nagging until he does so: unpleasant all round!)
