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Jen, he's almost 15 months. Both the other two were night weaned by now so this is new.
I could go a new bonds singlet, that's not a bad idea. I just hate how they are all caving in, they look terrible. Even from the outside.
You've done well to get to 38 weeks!! Prepared for tandem feeding? ;)
It's a notoriously tough time for sleep, anxiety, etc. If they're feeding, they feed a lot! The flipside is that if you weren't feeding, you'd probably be doing something much more labour intensive to get him through it. Hope it's not too much longer for you.
OP, have no idea what tandem feeding will be like. DD2 has three bfs a day - morning, nap and night. So I don't think it'll be too hard to juggle. I am talking to her about how the baby will have boo boo. Let's wait and see what reality brings!
15 mths - it is a tricky stage. Because DD2 would never feed to sleep, the alternative was sitting by her and patting for aaaaaaaaaagggges. MadB is right, that's labour intensive! And annoying. Thank goodness for iPad. ;) DD1 was night weaned then too, but reverted to trying night time bfs for a little while before I cut them out with a water cup instead. Hope he settles better soon.
Hey ladies, have any of your toddlers started biting or grazing on your nipples?
My dd2 has been leaving teeth marks on mine and worse its when she is drifting off to sleep.
She knows not to bite when shes awake but i dont know what to do when she is falling asleep because i dont want to pull it out and wake her but its getting worse and worse.
Any one else in the same boat?
That has happened to me. I found that making sure they were really well positioned helped, going back to the basics with tucking body in nice and close etc, so they were latched well.
Thanks madb will give that a try.
Dd2 is so funny when shes bfing during her wake times. She doesnt stay still and full on does handstands with legs and arms up and all different contortionist positions. Lucky my nipples are mega long!
Gonna miss laughing at that thats for sure.
going back to basics helped here too. also reminding her when she was still awake about having a 'big mouth' lion style. it was quite cute when I was also feeding ds that dd would tell him 'big mouth baby, like a lion!'.
Hahaha picture twin tandem feeding with those sorts of acrobatics. Reckon my nipples will end up at waist level by the time they wean;)
Hi everyone. I have had an interesting week with feeding. DD (who is almost 2 years, 8 months) fell over on the trampoline and ended up with a small fracture above her right elbow. Her arm is in a cast and sling, which has made for some difficult feeds. When it first happened and she was in so much pain, I was so happy to still be feeding her and able to provide her that comfort. It made feeding in bed difficult when switching sides though. And feeding her on the left side when I'm sitting on the couch has been a bit awkward. She's at the age where she can adapt pretty well on her own though, so she and I have made it work.
After cutting back her feeds a fair bit just recently, she's been feeding heaps the past few days - which would usually be fine... but pair that with morning sickness, fatigue and sore nipples because she has been feeding so much... it hasn't been much fun for me. Feeding a wriggly, heavy toddler when you feel you might spew at any moment is just not nice :sick:.
I have been kind of hoping DD will wean of her own accord while I'm pregnant, but so far (I'm 9 weeks today) she has not slowed down at all. I guess we will see.
oh you poor thing, sterla. hopefully your LO starts to feel better soon, and can cut down on feeds again.
my ds weaned a few months back, quite suddenly(pregnancy influenced), and wanted nothing to do with my chest area. lately, he has wanted to rest his hand at top of my cleavage, particularly when he is tired. I don't mind, he is not fiddling just resting. just wondering if others experienced this. also wondering how he will feel when baby is born, and is feeding.
Oh no, hope your DD is doing ok. My DD fractured her leg on the trampoline too! She's been sick lately, too, so feeding more and more.
Oh no hope her arm heals quickly Sterla.
Mine fed more when pregnant, no slowing down here...guess that's why I'm feeding all 3. I use counting so count to ten then off so gave her warning and usually she'd come off before I finish counting. Make it easier if you need to run off to spew.
Thanks for your replies :). DD is coping pretty well with her arm. We had an appointment today though (which she was not happy about - she's terrified of the hospital now), and she will have her cast on for another three weeks. So, another three weeks of awkward feeding haha. Oh well. She has started cutting back feeds again now that the initial pain from the fracture has passed and she's caught up on sleep. She asks plenty still, but I am able to suggest other things and she'll often go for that instead.
I am not sure, but I *think* my milk may have changed or supply started dropping, as she is not feeding properly. Very quick feeds (she usually takes her time) and it's starting to feel a bit weird on my end too. It's like she's not taking those big, deep sucks to actually drink the milk, and is just sort of half heartedly doing these weak little sucks that don't feel nice. Feeding is not a pleasant thing for me at the moment, and I am definitely going to encourage her to wean, but I don't think I have the heart to force it either.
:leap: Amelia just had a massive breastfeed :D She hasn't been able to latch properly for well over a month, maybe two, but since Elisabeth's been born she's been asking for boob. And she just latched perfectly! It even got to the point where I asked her to stop because she'd been on for so long :lol:
Toddlers are awesome for postnatal engorgement!
Sterla i hope your DDs arm gets better soon.
Good news ladies. I had a talking to my 15 month old and told her she will not get any day feeds. Its been a week and she has not complained lol.
I do have to distract her and putting her to sleep during the day is really hard. On wed she skipped her nap. Other days she slept in the car. I need to find another way to get her to nap.
Still has night feeds. Im happy with that except her leaving teeth marks in my nipples!! Im cringing most the time but just happy her day feeds are gone (although bf is so much easier than finding ways of distraction lol)
I have that issue m2c. Spock only naps if it is in the car and its now too hot to leave her in it when we get home, so she is getting too short broken sleep. Or bf to sleep, which is getting harder because she just refuses brcause she knows what it means. I think it might be confusing her to because ahe doesn't feed to sleep in the evening. Only at her nap and that is only cause I can't get her to sleep any other way
Dd2 outright refuses to let me put her to sleep during the day. Tried scratching her back rocking her patting.
Argh!!!