Hugs Hun!
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I totally agree with Lenny - it's your birth (or non-birth, as the case may be) and only you can define it in this subjective way because only you experienced it.
In answer to your original question, I think that the Dr got DS out of my tummy - I gave him life and a hell of a lot of other things, but I don't think I gave birth to him. Nor do I think that that is a problem or an easy way out - just the way it was.
But if you feel you have given birth to Amelia I wouldn't be arguing with you - what you perceive as "giving birth" is a personal thing. And you have certainly given Amelia an enormous amount before and since as well!