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I can so feel your struggle :hug:. You really have done everything to get your bub to move, well done :). If you decide to go for the c/s on Friday then you have made a very well thought-out choice and you know the outcome will be great (your beautiful bub will be here and you'll have lots of help and support).
I hope that by talking it through with your DH you will find peace whichever decision you make. Whichever one you decide on will be right :)
After another day sitting with this I am getting more comfortable with the decision to go forward tomorrow. And truth be told, a I am a little excited too... I get to meet this wiggly little man, and to get know him... And that is a good feeling...
Logically I can rationalise it all out, and I know in time I will find peace with the decision in myself. It may be some time before I can read all the happy birth stories threads, but I will get back there one day.
The one thing that is making it easier to work through is knowing that I am not the only one that feels like this, and I truly appreciate that you have all shared with me and helped me work through this. No matter what your circumstances or outcomes. Thank you :grouphug:
Awww Rufalina :hug:, ... that exciting feeling is telling you that you have made the best decision for you & bub (and lets not forget DH, LOL ;)), and more to the point if you are feeling at peace within yourself about it all right now then that's an even bigger confirmation it truly is the BESTEST decision ever :D
.... All my most warmest heartfelt wishes coming you way for now and especially tomorrow :loveshower:
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Good luck tomorrow honey xxxx
Don't forget - if you need it - the debriefing section will always be there for you - I've used it just a couple of times myself ;)
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:hug: Ruf I wanted to post last night but I didn't have time... and I didn't know what to say! I had Dr M too, and he is certainly a low intervention kind of guy so you know he is not just trying to hustle you into a section. I'm glad you're feeling comfortable about it, and how exciting, you get to meet your new little guy tomorrow!
All the best babe, looking forward to reading that BA xxx
Aww Ruf :hug: I'm glad you are feeling more comfortable with your decision. I know you have put a lot of thought in to it. I'll be thinking of you tomorrow and looking forward to reading the BA for your little man. Big huggles hun xox
I'm so glad you came to a decision you are happy with :)
Woohoo, you get to meet your little man today!!! Although you won't read this beforehand, I'm wishing you an awesome experience and I look forward to reading your BA!!! :D
Ruf, I can imagine the struggle you went through to come to your decision, hun. I know you'll be reading this after your beautiful little man has come into the world, but I just wanted to say that you're a beautiful, strong woman and I admire you so much for being able to make your decision :hug: I'm sorry I haven't known what you've been contending with earlier, hun :hug:
I can't wait to read your BA as you welcome your new little man into the world, and I am thinking of you today, and hope you recover quickly and enjoy many wonderful cuddles with your precious baby and with your DH and DS.
Big hugs xo
I hope you have a wonderful day today hun. Enjoy this very special day.
Oh Ruf, you're going to have your baby TODAY!!!! This is so very exciting!
Good luck honey, it's going to be awesome :D
I am so glad you are feeling happier with your decision :)
And how exciting! you get to meet your little guy today... :dance: I can't wait to read your BA!!
Wishing you all the best today, will be thinking of you :hug:
All the best for today!
I am so happy for you that you have made a decision you are happy with xo Can't wait to read your ba!!
Good luck with everything today, can't wait to see your BA :D