I think women are choosing c-sections because they are misinformed about them. There is no way, after having a durg free vaginal birth, that I would ever even believe for a second that csections are easy and enjoyable. A csection should only be performed when a vaginal birth is out of the question medically or if the baby and mother are at risk of injury or death. I think there are more women than is let on that have csections with their (first in particular) babies because they see it as easier than a vaginal birth, and various other mythical reasons they hear through the ill informed grapevine. I have come across quite a few who've felt this way and it makes me very sad that they are gipping themselves out of the possibility of a beautiful natural birth experience. I didnt realise that at the moment you conceive you have the option of choosing a vaginal or csection birth, I was always under the impression that csections were a "if neccesary" procedure.
I was in a position where a csection was a very real possibility for my birth after suffering with pre eclampsia and having a sudden spike in BP which resulted in my being induced early. I am extremely lucky that my OBGYN took into account that I wanted to avoid csection if possible and let me try for a vaginal birth. If it came down to "the baby needs out NOW, no ifs not buts" then I would have had one no qualms and done everything in my power to have a VBAC the second time around. Instead I was monitored religiously by the nursing staff and my OBGYN and ended up with a beautiful 3hour vaginal birth. I am extremely thankful that I didnt just insist on a csection OR be bullied into one like alot of women would in that position. Now Im facing the same issue again, I may be pidgeon-holed into a csection because of medical issues. I am praying and hoping it doesnt come to that but again if its life or death I'll do what I have to.
Whats got me thinking is, its ok for a woman to spread a horrifying vaginal birth story around and have poor first timers thinking "OMG why would I want to labour vaginally?" and possibly entertain the idea of an elective csection but a woman is made to feel bad for trying to encourage women to aim for a vaginal birth because they feel their csection delivery was upsetting and unneccesary?

