Tarkine, for newborns, prefolds/flanellete flats are great. I loved my Motherease Rikki's (still do). Gussets around the legs are great for runny poop.
With washing, I've just started to separate my nappies: pooed in and not pooed in. Pooed in get the long wash with the prerinse, not pooed in just get a standard wash. :) I'll report back if this washing system turns out to be a dud.
WORB: Bamboo Sandaman
WOSB: Tots Bots
ETA: Oh yeah, with cream, sometimes I use Gaia Soothing lotion, with a liner (if I'm not using much, I might go without), and I also use Aromababy Bottom balm, without a liner. Basically, anything that rubs in doesn't need a liner, anything that works as a thick barrier might clog your nappies.

