Yep, that sounds like a snappi.
I'm sorry to hear that your baby's dad seems not to be too interested to be a part of his child's life.
I do love the pull-up style knitted wool soakers for summer as they are like a pair of pants and there's nothing on them to scratch bare skin. All that is needed is a singlet on top and DS is dressed. But yes, initially the wrap covers are way more convenient. That is also something to consider when buying swimming nappies. Although there I would stay away from hook and loop (get snaps instead) due to the scratch issue and your bare skin...
Sasa

