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mum-of-five - i'm sorry you're feeling crappy today. You still have three more days until your were supposed to test so :pray: that the result will be positive. And as you say you got BFN with kainne.
I know how you're feeling - i have a million different moods every day. I wake thinking i'm not utd and then i feel a lil sick then i think i am utd.
I'm crossing my fingers for you and hoping that you get a positive result!! Try to stay positive (i know it's easier said than done)!!!
Thanks amanda, im trying to be positive, as my friend said to me at least you already have kids, some are still trying for there first. Each pregnancy is different and like a first.
Mum-of-five - Doesn't matter if you have kids or not - i'm trying for my first and you're just as anxious as I am.
I honestly didn't realise how hard this ttw was going to be.
Well i started spotting last night, just a little pink, then this morning a little brown, so i suppose it still can go either way really, i bled for 12 weeks when i was pregnant with kainne, i do have some cramps, that remind me of my periods, so im not holding much hope.
I do hope everyone else is having better luck than me, i still have 2 days till testing or af.
or it could be implant bleed, remember last night we were saying the pain/cramps you were having could be implanting??? implantation can take up to 12DPO to happen... your only on day 12 now...
im crossing everything for you darls! :hug:
just keep positive.
what ever it will be ok.
but i agree teh tww sucks and so does the 5 hour wait for BT results.
Im throwing hugs all round :grouphug::hug::grouphug:
I forgot to mention that i had a bleeding gum this morning, i get quite a lot of bleeding gums during pregnancy but it could just be a coinky dink.:rolleyes:
Wow, this thread is going crazy at the moment, it is hard to keep up so I apologise if I lose track!
MissyMooMoo, your symptoms are sounding really positive, fingers crossed for you but I have a really good feeling that this could be it for you!
Mumoffive, I really hope that it is just implantation bleeding and if it is then a BFP wouldn't show up yet anyway, right? Try and stay positive.
Amanda, I had an appointment with an asthma specialist when I was ttc DD and I was told to keep taking my seretide as the risks of not taking and suffering an asthma attack outweighed the risks to pregnancy. I took it whilst pregnant with DD but cut down to a lower dose. Also I am hoping that your symptoms are because you will be getting a BFP soon.
Hi Rach, am very sorry for your loss, I can't even begin to imagine what you have been through and I really hope that you get your BFP!!!
Sorry for the girls I have missed I am in a hurry but will hopefully jump back on later, crossed fingers for all of you!
AFM I am 10dpo today and have no symptoms to speak of unfortuantely so am not feeling too good. Am determine not to test until next mon if AF doesn't arrive but am not confident!
Take care everyone!
i am hoping my results come back soon, i keep checking teh holding file wishing my results to appear and eb positive.
still no sign of Af at all and every cervix test i do is high soft with hardish center not low and open like af is coming, its actually the highest its been all week. soryy TMI ?
Hi Guys...
I'm joining the TTW party- better late than never!
I'm actually due to ovulate in a couple of days (according to my last cycle) but have been getting busy DTD in an attempt to catch a pink one..... Already have a beautiful blueboy!
Still breastfeeding a couple of times a day so worried this may decrease my chances.
Only time will tell........
Gosh- I'll be so happy to be UTD this time of year- its my dream to conceive in summer, carry over winter- getting bigger as the weather gets colder, then have bub in spring when the animals do- (lol), leaving a few months to drop some weight before the hot summer starts again.... Perfect!!
Although, I'm a bit scared to get my hopes up - life has a funny way of not going the way you plan!!
Fingers crossed that we all get BIG FAT Positives!!!!! Lol....:D
All of a sudden im feeling a little low and depressed and unmotivated, my kids wont listen to me and im not in a mood to argue with them and my house is a mess, i have just invested far to much energy into this tww, i really feel like its af on its way.
Well time will tell either way i suppose.
results are in BFN hcg <5
so no idea why i ahevnt got AF yet.
wait and see a bit longer i guess
Are they going to retest in a few days?
i havent seen the doc i juts got the results myself from the holding bay.
think ill leave it till next monday and resist POAS till 2 weeks post AF due if she dont rear her ugly head.
the only otehr thing im worried about is my endo and PCOS coming back, i was cleared of it 6 months ago and dont ahev any other signs so doubt its that
I will keep my fingers crossed for you. :crossfingers:
same for you...
we will both get our BFP one day.. :)
You would think it should be easy to get pregnant, i just cant believe the luck some women have had, i met up with an old school friend, i last saw her when she was 16 and she was trying to get pregnant, so when i saw her, i just assumed that she would have a few kids, she married her highschool bf and it took them 12 yrs to concieve eventually doing it by ivf.
There should be a test you can take straight after you dtd that will say if the sperm met the egg, then you can be in the tww, waiting for it to fertalise,if not ,then u wont waste time in the tww. iykwim.
totally agree
just saw the doc, he said if no period in a week retest and that it could of been a cycle without ovulating but i swore i got a positive OPK.
hmm ohwell
atleast TTC is fun this TWW is teh sucky bit
Kel, sorry about the results... but give it a little more time. :hug:
Sorry this is just a quick one... feeling really nauseas and need to put on a roast so trying to build up the anti-sickness to do it... good sign? possibly lol... I know my girls were very tender this morning, with a few twinge's but they seem to be ok now.
Ok going to put this roast on... but before i go
Lisa :grouphug: you are doing a fantastic job.... the messy house DOES NOT MATTER, your kids are proberly being a little more resistant than normal because they can feel how your feeling, but dont understand why. Maybe get them all together and go for a walk?? get some much needed fresh air and vit D!!!! It may help... either way :hug: :hug: :hug:
ok so im sitting here feeling sick and getting hot flushes, and really tired, and i did it i poas, even though i promised hubby i would save it.
Bfn,bfn,bfn, i thought if i am implanting today then it should be safe to test, but no, it was bfn.
oh well, just waiting on af now......
its ok lisa, we can wait for AF together,
maybe we should start a waiting for AF thread lol.
got more bloods back and everything is normal, so atleast im not aneamic anymore like i was 7 months ago post having taylah.
so there is a big lift for me, as it was a big issue, so no more iron tablets for me lol
Oh Lisa, :hug: lol no sweets if you implanted yesterday it will take approx 2 days for the HCG to rise high enough for a test to show up.... give it a few more days now hun and if AF doesnt show, then get Dan to buy another test or 3 :p p.s has the bleeding/spotting gone?
Kel, congrats on some good news coming back, thats awesome!
AFM- well roast is in the oven, man i am taking full advantage of this cold weather and have done roast carrotts, pumpkin, potato, onion & garlic all with a yummy roast beef mmmmmmmm... add some pea's, corn and broccoli with some yummy gravy and i am having a feast tonight!!!!!!! :rofl:
Whats everyone doing for NYE?
sleeping lol, well im working all day and then ill cook and watch the fireworks but mainly sleep lol
im so exciting.
im actually on Night duty the next day so im gonna sleep while i can as we ahev a big party on the 3rd.
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Hi ladies, back again, well dan has confiscated my last hpt, he said i cant be trusted, i just descovered that grace has nits, prob from the same friend that gave her the virus and bailea just rode hunters skateboard in to the window, and you guessed it, cracked it! (that now makes 3 windows that bailea has broken).
This day just has not been for me, on the up side i ordered some clothes on line and they turned up today and look really good and fit really well.
Also kainne has the runs and emmerson just drew every where, gee the kids certainly know how to keep my mind off the tww.
Rebecca, yes the spotting has gone for now, forgot to add that bit before and now my head feels itchy, ohhh yuck.
Oh man.... i HATE the bloody little bastards! Nits drive us nuts. It went through DD's child care earlier this year, took over 5 months to get rid of cause some parents refused to treat their kids BUT yet the child care kepy letting them go there...grrr made me so mad!
Anywho, good that it stopped sweety, good sign ;)
OMG at the kids, hunni and you want another one???? lol sounds like they are keeping you real busy! and lol @ dan taking that last hpt....sounds like he did a good thing though babe. You need to give it and yourself a few days break. Least the kids are keeping you busy ey :) lol
Well, my good news for the day... I GOT THE JOB AT WORK!!! WOOHOOO
I am wrappt, and now freaking about what IF i do get a BFP this month??? lol I mean, the job opportunity came up last minute last week, and we had already basically started TTC.... and my job is the kind i can be UTD while doing just hopefully they will be understanding. I mean i have been working with them for nearly 3 years. Anyways, next week i am doing a huge week of 8-5 Mon, Tues, Wed and Thurs.... why cant it be this week? lmao it would make my whole TWW SOOOOOOO easy hahahaha....
WOW, im stoked.... the new role is an admin/accounts role which will just be awesome!
Plus, the roast was DELICIOUS! hmmmm but im so full now! lol
Im feeling so bloated and a bit crampy/gassy.... i so wanna know NOW if i am! lol Gonna be a fun few months if i am hahahahahha
WOOHOO, WOOHOO, congratulations on the new job!
Grace is not even at school and she still got them and i know exactly who gave them to her, grrr.
Grace found my hpt and asked what it was so i told her, she asked how the seed gets in your tummy to turn into a baby, and in seed she is talking like apple etc... lol
All she talks about now is can she come to the birth again.
This has to be the funniest tww ever, at least we are all here to help each other out, i think i would go nuts if i was doing it on my own, man how did i survive the last 5 tww.
R u on day 7 or 8 and when r u testing, im keen to find out ur results.
me hun??
im on 7DPO argh.. so early in my TWW :( lol
I did a hpt this morning, was BFN.. i knew it would be.... im so stupid. lol but you know EXACTLY what and why i did it so i know i dont have to explain to you or anyone here ha ha ha.
I honestly dont know if i should bother tomorrow morning now??!! i was gonna start on 8DPO but i dunno now......
And whats even more frustrating, that i O'd alot earlier than normal, and i think i O'd twice so, i really dont know when AF would be due. SHould i just follow the normal time frame of 14days after O? (the first one im presuming)... that has me at the 6th of Jan that AF would be due.. and thats if i count 14 days from the day after O???!!
oh how confusing! lol
You know what, i think i honestly preferred our DD's surprise pregnancy!!! I knew nothing until i realised my AF wasnt here, and then BAM we were UTD! none of this, am i arent i!
well the spanner has been trhown into teh wroks with me, updated my Ff info after readings oem more info on how to do it from everyone here and it says i didnt even ovulate till chrissy day. so im confused lol...
but im not gonna count 2 weeks well ill try not to
and on monday if no af ill test and then wait till monday after that lol
ohhh adn congrats on the way it all happens though when it rains it pours
I hear YA!:wall:
MissyMooMoo - Congrats on the job!!!!
I've had cramping/stabbing pain all day today and I'm not sure if it's AF coming or not. Someone told me it could be implantation pains... does anyone know what that is? Today I am 10 dpo and 7dp my FET and I did a hpt this morning and obviously it was a BFN. I think we are all suffering from the same lack and will power.
Implantation pain is when the little embie borrowing into the lining of your womb. It isnt until it has done this that the HCG start to rise enough to be detected by a HPT... This is why you can sometimes get implant spotting/light bleeding, as when it is borrowing in, it can cause a bleed...hence implantation bleeding.
As i said at some stage yest, it can take up to 12days PAST ovulation to implant, so you just never know!!!!!
But, we are all having the same type of symptoms.... will be so interesting to see us all come this time next week....
Hay any you girls checking your own cervix????
Mine is slightly tilted, so nope, not cheaking mine out.
Hmmmm, no i not. What does it do at what stages???
like say i check it now, what do i feel for? and what is the best posy to do it?
Well mines titled and really really low, i can feel it, just sitting on the loo. When having Lilli the midwife got me to check myself, so i know what im feeling now, LOL, sorry probley TMI.
if its easy to reach then its low, if you got to get in a bit further its middle and if its hard to reach or cant reach it its high.
the cervix is Soft High Open Wide when ovulating. soft high closed when pregnant and low hard and open when af is coming for teh basics and goes to every position inbetween
mine is soft high and slightly open, and tilted back. due to have a baby before.
if you haev had a pregnancy prior to TTC your cervix may not close fully and will feel like a little slit and when it is open you should eb able to get the tip of your finger just inside.
sorry if TMI