LOL....it's not! I suggested to DH one day 'lets have another baby' and the immediate response was 'No way, we can't afford it!'. So that idea was shot down in flames!! But then last weekend we were at a bbq and he was gooing and gushing all over his friends baby, and again at the shops he was playing with a little bub in a pram, some strangers baby. No if that's not clucky tell me what is!! I am pretty sure that I woul have another if I were 'allowed' to. Actually no I would not hesitate in having another. But I have to be realistic and try to convince myself other wise. Because if DH is really adamant and we don't have another then I am the one who is...losing out (for lack of a better term). I will be the one who has to deal with my feelings. Because he will be getting what he wants. There is no compromising in this, it's either one way or another. And for me to have a child and he doesn't want to, then thats not fair on the child or him, and he might resent one or both of us....its a tough one!!:
