Maybe try a Nuby cup instead of a bottle? You're probably going to want to get the bottle off her soon so a cup for milk? The nuby brand ones have a completely silicone top and are grippy shaped. Most woolies and Targets sell them. They are still soft topped like a bottle but not a bottle ITMS. Just speaking from experience that bottles can be a PITA! At the end of the day do whatever feels right hun!
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