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Oh oneday!! I am so so sorry! I wish it didn't have to be this way, but please, whatever you do, do NOT blame yourself. It is most likely a case of a non-viable embryo that stopped growing. So hard to accept, but just about always it's not anything you did wrong. You are not a failure by any means, and your body will someday (hopefully before long) prove this to you, when your forever baby snuggles in tight . Be kind to yourself right now. If you feel like crawling into bed and not talking to anyone then DO IT!!! I am here if you need to chat ok. Feel free to pm me.
AFM - I am still in the dark. Would you believe the clinic can't find my results!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am beside myself!!!! When does this EVER happen? They have said I will hopefully have results in the morning, but they cannot guarantee it as there's a remote chance the courier took the blood to the wrong pathology lab, and it has gone missing. Grrrrrrrr!!!!!! I have opted to re-test again in the morning, so am STILL waiting til tomorrow arvo.
I will let you know then. Still no bleeding and HPT line got darker again today, so I am a tiny bit more hopeful, but still not able to let myself get too hopeful.
Shall be in touch tomorrow.
Ari
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Thanks Arielle, yeah i know its prob not my fault i just dont understand why it wont work. I used to think when we first started IVF i wont have a miscarriage, god wouldnt do that to me iv already been through enough. but i guess we never know how the world is going to work and obvioulsly for some reason we have to go through this.
I cant believe they lost your results! thats horrible, i hope ur ok i know how much you wait and wait for those results and then to have to wait another day is horrible. Well im glad there is no more bleeding thats a gr8 sign, i have everything crossed for you and will look forward to hearing your results 2mo xxxx
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Low beta
Hi.i transfer 2 blasts at 16/6.at 28/6 my beta was 20.do you think that will change?i am very scared.
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Hi,
Oneday - that sucks. :comfort: This whole thing is so unfair. Wish I could boost you up but am feeling like crap myself right now too. You're not alone :hug: Don't stay down in that lonely dark hole for long - here if you need to vent/chat/anything
Arielle - how frustrating!! Things are at least looking very promising for you. What a tease this is for you!! Good luck
Dinaki - I don't know enough about hcg levels to say much, it does sound pretty low though. Sorry hun :shakehead:
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Oh one day I'm so so sorry to hear that, such horrible timing too with your b'day tomorrow. Sending you lots of hugs! Take care of yourself.
Arielle, how frustrating, hope everything is ok tomorrow.
Dinaki, will you be having a repeat bloodtest, my nurses often tell me to focus on the doubling time rather than the initial level, hope that helps.
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Thinking of you today oneday. Hope you're ok and being super kind to yourself.
Yesterdays results came through, and so have todays
yesterday: P4 = 27 hCG = 318
today: P4 = 31 hCG = 542
The clinic is happy with this, and of course, so am I. I was SO sure it was all over after mondays results, this is going to take a while to sink in. P4 is still on the low side, but they are happy now that it's over 30, and I am just to continue on with the triple dose Crinone, and have another BT next week.
Oneday - I look forward to the day when you will be announcing your sticky BFP!! Don't lose faith hun. You WILL get there ok
Look after yourself, and thanks for your support.
Ari
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Thanks Arielle, i am so so happy for you and glad they found your results! good luck with the rest of your pregnancy and i too look forward to joining you in the pregnancy forums one day xxxxxx
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Hi oneday! just wanted to give you an update and let you know you're not alone yet again.
Yesterday I started bleeding. It eased off today, but a scan and BT have confirmed our worst fears. Our little one has grown wings.
Looks like it's back to the drawing board for both of us.
How are you going with it all? I have been thinking of you and hoping you're ok.
Hope you've got something nice planned this weekend to help you feel good.
Take care ok
Arielle
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Arielle, I'm so so sorry. Can't imagine how you must be feeling. Look after yourself during this awful time :hug:
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Arielle, i dont know what to say :( it is such a horrible time but you know what with everyday that comes i do feel a bit better iv stopped crying everyday i now just think about things like i was supposed to be having my 7 week scan on wed and how special that would have been but i have been trying to not focus on it to make the time go quicker as i now have to wait till my next period comes to start again. I truly hope your okay and just know that your not alone and im always here to chat if you need it, and also i have been thinking about you and wondering how you are :) Are you now having a break or starting straight up? My best advice is do what you feel is best, we have had everyone tell us to have a break thats why we have decided not to tell anyone this round because only we know whats best for us and we dont need the extra pressure of family and friends telling us to change our minds. I believe trying to have a baby is my whole life, its the only thing that makes me feel complete at the moment and i will never give up untill we get our dream.
Im sending many hugs your way and hoping your doing ok xxxxxxxxxxx
Me 24 & DH 25
ICSI
STIM #1 BFN
FET #2 BFN
FET #3 BFP- Lost our angel at 5 weeks
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HCG Progesterone levels
I have just fallen pregnant after 2 attemts of IVF and my Hcg levels are at 4000 however my progesterone levels were at 30 and that is considered very low as they should be at 100, the Dr has put me on Pessaries twice a day and a crione two time a day as well as provera tabs.
Has anyone else experienced this. I did have a small bleed however it now has stopped. The nurses have said that we are in a very grey area as we are only 5 weeks pregnant (with IVF you find out super early)
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Wishing you the very best of luck Samurai! Your hcg levels look pretty good to me. From my understanding they like progesterone to be atleast 30, so yes, your levels are on the low end of ok, but still ok as far as I know. I have seen people have lower levels than this, and go on to have a live birth (with some progesterone support early on). It's a tense time, I know. Just do your best to hang in there hun, and take things a day at a time. Be kind to yourself!
Ari
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I have had two bleeds since finding out that levels are low so a bit concerned.
Has anyone else experienced this. The nurses said not to put all my eggs in the provera bucket. it is just nerve racking.
The bleeding freaks me out. There is no cramping just bleeding.