Sill a BFN for me. Saffy?
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Sill a BFN for me. Saffy?
Oops! Just looked at my chart again! Think I miscalculated and I might sill only be 10dpo today!
:bfn: for me on poas devastated to say the least.
Saffy: oh Hun :hug: does that mean you are out for sure ?
BT tomorrow, will do another poas with fmu but 9dp5dt today (14dpo) so not looking good.
Saffy: :-( :hug:
:( hugs and fingers crossed for double lines tomorrow x
Saffy - I know that is what you suspected but still its heart breaking :comfort: I'm sure I will be in the BFN boat with you in a few days. Sucks!!:wall:
hugs all round,afm-cd4
Saffy :( I am so so so sorry hun. I was really hoping Santa would bring you an amazing gift :(.
:hug:
Sorry saffy :(
Saffy: just checking in on you & hoping you got a different result on this morning's hpt :hug:
Sunbeam: any update from you ?
Nope, still a one-liner, just putting off going to BT, been crying this morning but need to pick myself up and get into the christmas spirit I suppose. Af hasn't arrived but isn't due until tomorrow or Sunday ( bit confused cos I triggered early) I guess she will come if I stop progesterone tonight.
Hopefully Sunbeam has better news, or else she is happily drowning her sorrows!
At least I can eat all the seafood I ordered for tomorrow night, thanks for the hugs everyone, you're the best :grouphug:
saffy: hun you are allowed to be upset, you don't have to pretend all is fine just because its christmas time :hug: this sucks and isn't fair at all :hug:
Saffy honey I am sorry. I agree with mini x
I know what you're saying, I'm just sick of feeling sorry for myself. thanks chicks xx
Can related totally. Sucks balls :(
Hi all,
Sorry to all those who just got BFNs - it's torture!
I'm new here and hope you don't mind me jumping in - am I doing this right? I've been TTC #1 for 2 years now :wall:
For some reason I took the last BFN really really hard. The girl at work who got pregnant her 1st month of trying and is complaining about every aspect of her pregnancy probably didn’t help! I’ve been getting teary at everything and have felt so lonely! I have to admit I’ve been stalking this forum a bit and I think it’s really helped. Made me cry, but helped. So THANK YOU! Although I wouldn’t wish this torture on anyone, it was comforting to see that every feeling, challenge and loss of sanity I’ve experienced throughout this process, someone else has felt too... and understands.
Fingers crossed 2012 will be the year for all of you. I’d love to share your ups and downs and hear all the yukky details (all the fun procedures that have become standard for us but gross our “normal” friends out!! Ha ha). I’m scheduled for my second IUI between xmas and new year as long as my body behaves and doesn’t ovulate on a public holiday!
Bring on the New Year and bring on the baby luck!
Hello Mich8 and welcome to our little thread :hello: I hope you will find the support you need here. Yes we will make you cry but hopefully we can help you to laugh sometime too. It is a horrible hard journey and it has helped me beyond words to have these amazing women to turn to.
Thank you so much for the welcome Sunbeam :D
Merry Christmas to all!
mich: hi and welcome, we are small little group but really supportive of each other. i hope your body co operates and you get to do your iui :-)
saffy: :hug:
sunbeam: still crossing my fingers for you
tasha: how are you going now after the hycosy ?
joeve: are you near ovulation do you think ?
matthewsmum: :hug:
afm: no news from me really, still undecided if we will try on this natural cycle but reality is i won't be able to try when i know im ovulating (assuming i do)
Hi all,
BFN again today so Santa did not fill my wish list, i'm glad I went to the bottle shop already! I'll see how I go with this AF as to whether I try in Jan or take the month off till IUI. I wouldn't mind a break.
I will be away from my computer for the next 2 days so
I want to wish all my beautiful BB friends a very, very happy Christmas and
I hope that for all of us 2012 is filled with peace, love and baby joy:baby:. XXX
Hi,
Sunbeam, so sorry to hear :( Hopefully a drink or many will help you muster up some Christmas cheer - difficult I know!
minniemouse - thank you for the welcome :) I see you're scheduled for a lap and d&c in March. I had that in July - no pregnancies since but it improved my cycle lots. Hopefully "putting the car in for a full service" as my FS called it will be just what you need...
Merry christmas!!
Mich- welcome, glad you decided to join us, I hope we will all get bfps together and evacuate this forum soon! Good luck with ovulating outside of a public holiday x
sunbeam- bl00dy bfns! I've been offered to start a cycle immediately but might take January off too, want to prepare physically for a stim to make sure its my last one!! Have a great christmas my friend and 2012 WILL be our year x
minnie-thanks, why can't you try when you are ovulating? Sorry if I"m missing something...I'm just doing a quick post
everyone else- have a great christmas tomorrow!!, (will be on night shift for a few nights so might be off air for a bit)
Merry Christmas girls thank you for your support and I am sorry we are not out of here yet.
Mini - positive opk today so getting busy tomorrow AM!
Saffy - hope your night shifts go by fast
Sunbeam sorry you got a BFN, and enjoy your bottle shop treats!
hi girls,
:hug: for all, i hope you have all managed to get through christmas ok
joeve: yay on the positive opt, hope you got lots of bding in !
sunbeam and saffy: im still sending you 2 :hugs:
Mich: yep scheduled for a lap, I don't really think I need it but I have had 2 9 week miscarriages and no d&c so I guess there is the possibility that has caused a problem. How are you going ?
hi to everyone else
afm: i am so confused as to what my body is doing, im day 10 and yet my body is giving me signs that it is going to ovulate soon ! im on a natural cycle so im not sure what is going on ?! im thinking we should bd tonight to at least have one in the bank just in case my opt turns positive tomorrow, at the moment its negative but kinda getting some colour to it so confusing ! i started vitex last week but surely that isn't doing anything yet, from what i understand of it it takes a few months to work well (in the people it actually works well in). why can't things be the same each month so i know whats going to happen and when gggrrr
Mini - hope you got one in. Better to get more just in case!
Hi ladies, hope you all had a fantastic Christmas :)
Welcome Mich8 :hello: hope your stay isn't long.
Minnie, I know how you feel with crappy inconsistency with cycles! Hope you got all the BDing in you could. I'm doing well after the HyCoSy, hope it does the trick.
AFM: I'm feeling kinda down today, the year is almost over. 2012 will be our third year TTC. I have sent away for the child protection checks, booked with the counsellor, had the HyCoSy and now I just need to get police checks done. We should be ready to start IUI early February (although the thought of another catheter scares the sh*t out of me) I think I might start OPK's next week because I could ovulate anywhere between CD20 to CD45. It's ridiculous! I think I only have about 15 OPK's left so I will need to order more from eBay.
Hi,
Thanks everyone for making me feel so welcome :hug: I hope xmas was good for you all.
Minnie - Did that line on the OPK get any darker? Vitex didn't do much for me but I've heard good things :crossfingers:
Sunbeam - I really hope you enjoyed your Christmas drinkies. Have you made any decisions about trying in Jan?
Saffy - Hi, thanks for the welcome!
Tasha - Hi! So sorry you're feeling down. A milestone, Christmas and waiting for Feb to come around must be really hard :( I'm so glad Christmas is over! I've only had 1 IUI and had heard they were a breeze but apparently I have a "difficult" cervix too. So it was a little painful and there was some bleeding BUT it was over really quickly and definitely wasn't terrible. So hopefully it will be tolerable for you too!
AFM i'm on day 11 and according to BT today, nothing is happening, which is strange cos recently I've been ovulating day 12 or 13. Just when things were getting predictable...
joeve: we did get one in last night just in case. did you notice any difference in ovulation on clomid ?
tasha: the end of the year and no further along with this journey is upsetting i find :hug: to you. in regards to your other thread, are you on metformin for the pcos ? when you say you have CM issue do you mean lack there of ? what are using to treat the BV (have you actually had it confirmed as BV with a swab ?).
mich: im with you on the weird cycles, hopefully yours cooperates soon
afm: my opt this morning seemed on its way to positive but this afternoons was fainter so i have no idea what is going on, my right side is really sore so i think i will ovulate from that side, wish i had an ultrasound machine at home so i could see what was going on in there ! its so early for ovulation yet for me, so strange !
Mini I actually think I o the same but my opk went missing in the post so by the time I got them they were aost positive anyway. My nipples are really sore today I have read it can be a clomid side effect. Just keep dtd and hopefully there will be lots of swimmers waiting for that egg!!!
joeve: i get sore nipples post ovulation on clomid, for some strange reason i also have them now & haven't ovulated, maybe its the vitex ?
last night opt was so close to positive, hopefully it will be today
Hi Lovelies,
Tasha - I can understand the fear of another catheter so I'd suggest you ask your FS about a valium before hand. Mine gives them before a FET so that uterus is nice and relaxed and does not spasm i don't see why the same wouldn't work for IUI and it might relax your cervix a bit more and make it less painful.
Saffy - I hope the night shifts weren't too tough. Have you decided what to do about your next EPU cycle?
Minnie - I think you will O on a decent day now and the spermies will be waiting. No idea if it is the vitex but maybe.
Mich - Seems we are all all over the place at the moment! Maybe the planets are affecting all our cycles! It is so confusing. I hope things start moving and you get your IUI soon.
Joeve - Are you in the TWW now? Will you be the first BFP we are looking for in 2012?
AFM - I had a nice Christmas. I have not totally decided about this cycle though my brother and I have started on a weight loss challenge with each other. I though AF was going to go completely awol but I started cramping and spotting this morning. I'm not expecting anything different to the last 5 months so I'll see how it goes as to whether I try this month or wait for IUI in Feb. My FS is away till the 9th so I won't be able to discuss it with him till then. Quick question, does anyone else do cervix checking? I don't usually but I did this morning and according to the book it should be low, dry and hard and it was the complete opposite! Any ideas?
Ooh Minnie, it sounds promising that you'll O soon! Yay
Sunbeam, sorry I can't help re the cervix position but I'm definitely with you on the weight loss challenge! I started about a month ago but am getting serious now. I hope this enthusiasm lasts :lol:
Mich8- damn difficult cervix's! :lol: Good luck with the weight loss challenge.
Minnie- I am not on metformin for the pcos, but I don't think I am insulin resistant either. Is that why metformin is prescribed? And yes I have a lack on EWCM, I have plenty of the lotion stuff, just no EW stuff, ever. I have had metronizadole prescribed 4 times in the past year for BV. It makes me feel so nauseas I hate it, but every time DH and I BD it seems to come back :( I haven't had a swab, but 2 different GP's say that's what it is and I get the symptoms of it too. Keep a close eye on those OPK's, you don't want to miss it! How cool if we had home x-rays so we could see exactly what is happening in there :lol:
Joeve- I always get really sore nipples the day before ovulation and about 5 days after too. I hope you caught the egg this time, FX :)
Sunbeam- I have a little phobia of valium or diazepam or any of those kind of pills. Maybe I can ask what he can do for me, it's a good idea though. Can't help you with the cervix checking, I haven't actually done it. Good luck with the weight loss challenge! :)
Sunbeam yay on the weight loss challenge I think I need to jump on board! No idea about cervix position although I have read that it can change throughout the day.
Tasha I think they must be able to give you something as the anxiety wouldn't be good for you x
Mini hope you o today and join me in the tww!
Hello everyone else x
Well there is no doubt if I have ovulated this cycle, I have been in so much pain the last 3.5 hours, I swear my whole ovary feels like it is imploding (or should that be exploding, either way it's REALLY bad) !!
Well out of nowhere my OPK is positive tonight! Hopefully the IUI will be able to be organised in time and then I can join you - Joeve and Minnie in the tww.
Hopefully your unpleasant ovulation means you've produced a great egg Minnie :)
Hi girls, sorry for my absence but been having a bad week :doh:
mich- get busy in the bedroom!! Hope you catch the eggy
minnie- you too, get busy! Its annoying when opks aren't definate- its confusing enough.
joeve - hope your tww has a happy outcome!
tasha- we've been going for exactly 3years now- If I knew then what I know now...... urggh doesn't bear thinking about, lets just say I NEVER thought I would be in this position. So naive, we got utd the second month of trying but m/c, and the rest is history unfortunately. Lets hope we're not here in another year. Wow your Oing is all over the place, you poor thing.
sunbeam- no cervix checking here, I've got enough to do lol. I have decided to do a cycle which will happen start of Feb, I SOOO need a few weeks off.Goodluck w weight, I am going to eat ***** this week and be good as of next week. My EPU will be around 6th Feb, so hope we can be in tww together again with a better outcome.
afm-been feeling sad and stressed- depressed about failed cycles, working over xmas while everyone has fun, tired from night shift, family issues, etc, etc, so have been teary a lot. I need a few weeks off and spoke to clinic nurse today- can do an antagonist cycle for Feb and start the OCP today ( didn't do that at last clinic so was surprised) at least that will give me a few weeks of getting healthy and going to the beach, as well as working. i want to take a few weeks off for my next cycle, so will be able to in Feb but couldn't this month. really want to throw everything at this next stim and get a good result. Feeling a bit better that i have a plan.
Hi girls
Saffy - I'm sorry you have been feeling down sweetie, it is such an exhausting and emotional time of year :hug: I think it is a great idea to take a few weeks off. I found IVF the hardest part of all of this so I think preparing physically and mentally is really important. I hope we will still be TWW buddies too with the perfect outcome. :crossfingers:
Mich - When is your IUI? Good luck :goodluck:
Minnie - Sending good vibes for your :fertilise: I hope your poor little ovary is feeling better.
Tasha - Feb will be 4 years of TTC for me, doesn't bear thinking about! Not sure what I would have changed I just hope the journey is worth it in the end. I saw a lady on 'One Born Every Minute' last week she'd been trying for 4 years with failed IVFs etc then with IVF she got pg and had triplets.
Joeve - I hope your TWW flies by and you start our New Year run of BFPs.
AFM - Well AF did arrive but it is nearly over so maybe 36-48 hours. It was still not normal, it was at least red this month but still no flow (TMI *alert* more like red CM all slippery and still no clots). How can I bleed with no lining shedding? I'm bemused. I will see FS on the 10th hopefully and see what he says. If he can give me something for a proper period then I'll take that and not try till IUI in Feb if he can't then I guess we've got nothing to lose! I just wish I understood what was going on, how my cycle can now be so spot on and regular and my period is now so different! :dunno: On a positive note I've lost 1.3kg in my first 2 diet days :D