Hi girls, looks like i'll be back in here soon, had a scan today which didn't go well, measuring a week behind with a slow heartbeat, the FS thinks its inevitable, having a scan in a week to check, I'm shattered of course.
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Hi girls, looks like i'll be back in here soon, had a scan today which didn't go well, measuring a week behind with a slow heartbeat, the FS thinks its inevitable, having a scan in a week to check, I'm shattered of course.
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No Saffy! That's not fair. GBH!:hug: That really does just suck. My thoughts are with you.
saffy: :hug: for you, im sorry your scan didn't go better, as you are aware i know exactly how you feel, you know where i am if you want to talk :hug:
sunbeam: :hug: for you too, how frustrating DD is stuffing you around, why is he being a bit skittish this cycle do you think ? sounds like your party is going to be great
porsche: welcome back
craftymum: how are you ?
matthewsmum: fingers crossed for your 2ww
afm: i have had my miscarriage earlier this week, to make matters worse i also had gastro a few days before the bleeding started so i have had a miserable horrible few weeks. im seeing my specialist next month, mostly because i booked the appointment 4 months ago as a kind of come back then if you aren't pregnant, i was hoping i wouldn't need it. we will talk over options then but im not sure i want to even go on at this point
Hi lovely ladies
I am feeling very sad for us all - really this just isn't fair. This better make us very strong people or be for some reason.
Saffy ~ I am gutted for you - :hug: and Minnie ~ still feeling for you 2. I hope you both start feeling better again soon and can get on with trying again xoxo
AFM ~ I'm at that point again - lots of significant PG type symptoms - quite sore BB's, strong lower tummy cramps, fairly high temps, constipation but really I'm scared to get too hopeful. Oh well FX'd I guess. Trying not to test just yet as I dont want to get a BFP then stress over it.
Hope everyone else is well and I'm always sending out :stickyvibesboy::stickyvibesgirl::bluedust::pink-babydust: for everyone!
Hi Lovelies,
Saffy- Oh sweetie that is devastating babe. I was so sure this was the one for you. I was just driving home thinking 'I wonder how Saffy is going she'll be 7 weeks tomorrow I have to look in on her in PAML'. Just can't believe it. There is no logic in this unfair world :shakehead:. We are all here for you. :comfort:
Minnie - I'm so sorry you have had such a awful time of it life just throws so much at us sometimes its a wonder we survive at all. :comfort: I do hope the FS appointment can give you some answers.
Loops - Oh goodness it is sounding promising. When will you hold out to test till?
AFM- It occurred to me this morning that maybe I am not getting pregnant because in my heart I don't want to in case I miscarry again. I wonder if subconsciously I am protecting myself from the hurt, I find it harder and harder to imagine myself heavily pregnant or with a baby. Just a thought.:rolleyes:
So sorry for you MinnieMouse.
So sad to see you here Saffy. I don't know what to say because I certainly don't want to be the type that says "Don't give up hope" or "Think positive" when there is nothing to be done, that's right up there with "Just relax" and "it was / wasn't meant to be". But I have this instinct to be positive because at this stage we can't know anything for certain, time can change things and specialists can be proven wrong. :hug:
Sunbeam I was having some similar thoughts and I had a few conversations about feelings and thinking and how they can affect getting pregnant or staying pregnant. My sister and I came up with this: It doesn't matter what I think or feel; flip it around, no matter how much a pregnant teenager thinks about and wishes for an unwanted pregnancy to disappear, it ain't going any where. No matter how much a pregnant woman who doesn't want to be pregnant hopes and wishes to not be, unless something physical happens the pregnancy won't magically stop. And like wise however I feel and think about hoping to fall pregnant, unless everything works out physically there's not much that I can do. That helped me feel better because I like facts and science and realising that I was doing what I call "magical thinking" made me stop blaming myself for these "thoughts" but everyone is different, lots of people find comfort in lots of different types of thinking. :)
Saffy I am so sorry to come on here and read your post life just isn't fair I do hope they are wrong!
sunbeam the thoughts you have are similar to my own I think it's a safety thingy.
Loops fx keep us informed.
Afm af turned turned up last weekend after 46 day's very light but still af so fx I get opk results this time.
Big hugs to all and welcome rae
Saffy honey I am sorry hope that things go the right way next week and you get a nice surprise.
MM sweet I have been thinking of you and keep popping in here just to check on you. My time out from here has done wonders for my head but still thinking of everyone who goes through this stuff. Hugs xxx
loops: thanks for the thoughts :hug: any update from you ?
sunbeam: thanks to you also :hug: i think the mind can affect us a lot more than we realise and its possible that can be a barrier to you getting pregnant, i don't know how to avoid it though after you have been through multiple loses
saffy: thinking of you :hug: hoping things work out well for you
Rae: i don't think we have "met" so :hello: and thanks
craftymum: sorry your cycle is mucking you around, hopefully this time you get a strong positive opt
joeve: thanks for your pm, i meant to reply but haven't (obviously), how are things with you ?
Hi Lovely Ladies
Thanks for all your support and fingers crossed, really luv you guys!!
Well another NATURAL BFP :)
This time tests have been a lot stronger incl a clear blue 1-2 weeks pregnant (which means 3-4)
So needing lots of :stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy: and I am trying not to stress.
Having blood test today.
GL ladies
Minnie ~ you welcome hun, hope you're ok - giant hugs
Saff ~ hope you are ok sweetie - big hugs to you.
Rae ~ I love what you and your sister came up with :) GL to you
xoxo
omg loops, what is going on you are on fire!!!!
:happyforyou: WOOHOO for a :bfp: sending heaps of :stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy: but doesn't sound like you'll need them, I thought your symptoms sounded good :dance::dance:
oh Loops congrats on your :bfp: :stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy::happyforyou: you clever thing !
saffy: more :hug: from here
LOL - thank you ladies.
Yep we do seem to be on fire - im so thankful at least we are getting closer :) Thanks for the stickyvibes. I'm a little worried today because I've had bit of a headache and usually that's not a good sign for me. Then again I could be just tired from being PG - hope so!! For now I am going to enjoy all your
lovely smilies - thanks xoxo
:grouphug:
**sneaking in **
CONGRATS LOOPS so so happy for you hun absolutely fabulous news. And I am sending you every ounce of sticky vibes I can spare darl. Be stalking you hope you get some great results from your BT darl.
Congrats Loops!!!! Lots of sticky vibes x
Thanks Joeve and Clairesmuumy ~ really appreciate your support xoxo hugs. Thanks for popping in Clairesmuumy and I'm very happy that things sem to be going along well for you, all the best hun! Joeve ~ hope you are going well and with a bit of timeout from BB. GL hun
Not getting too excited yet - as Ive had a lot of negative signs the last couple of days - bad headaches, cramps, temp dropping and now I have a lot of mucous. Hoping its not AF mucous and AF symptoms.
BT result just came in - BHCG was 140 which is pretty low but I do have long cycles so she said dont panic. Find out in a day or so about P4.
loops- chin up- thats a great BHCG, anything over 20 is considered pos, lots of mucous is a classic pregnancy sign too, also cramping and headaches, I have had all of thoses signs for my whole pregnancy, so please don't get too stressed xxxx
Loops - Congratulations! Wonderful news, praying for a happy & healthy 9 mths xx
Saffy - oh darlin :( I have been thinking about you so much, shattered to read your post. Your in my prayers xx