LT TTC after Miscarriage or Loss #9

Hi Ladies
sorry I have MIA for a while but I have been trying to just get on with life and not stress about TTC seemed to work for a while and it was so nice not knowing what day of my cycle I was on.
I have just realized I am now day 32 and no sign of AF atm I did have a 28 day cycle last month but had a 40 day cycle a month or so ago so I am not rushing off to buy any pee sticks as I have none in the house.
Thailand has been put on the back burner for a while as we have family over from the UK the whole of Jan and with christmas coming and kids to buy gifts for you know how it is.
Plus my GP has insisted I give it a full 6 mnths with her tracking my cycles with Bts. I didn't have a BT on day 10 this cycle as it was a sunday and I was feeling **** with sickness bug anyway so although we still DTD several times who knows if it was the right day or not.
Sunbeam your cycles do change all the time mine sometimes are so light I hardly call it AF and then other times a real heavy AF. I would just like to add I have fallen pg after having a whole yr of hardly any bleeding with my last bub and I was 43 when I fell pg with him so don't give up as long as you have some kind of loss I wouldn't worry !
to all other girls I know its hard for all of us especially when so many of us have seen sooo many success stories on here with people we shared sorrow with your turn will come just beleive it !

Maruschke: so when do you take the dostinex then ? if im not on it my prolactin goes up so quickly and i don't ovulate

crafty: nice to see you back, fingers crossed you get a surprise bfp !

Only for the first half of my cycle (CD1, 8, 15) really that means I only miss one week (CD22) and I'd stop if I got a BFP, take it again CD1 if I got AF.

Hi Crafty - Really good to see you sweetie, I had been wondering how you are going. Thanks for the AF advice I still feel I'd like it looked into further though I think it might be all the prog. messing me around.

Minnnie - Yes we are going to keep trying this cycle again. FS scanned me cd3 after my last very light AF and said it all looked normal. He also scanned on cd14 and my lining was a "perfect" 8.5mm so who knows were the old lining is going but it sure isn't coming out!! Heheh when I first read your post I thought you meant you really DTD in a bank :lol: I was like what the???!! Would have been a good story!

AFM - I called my FS but he is at a conference this week so I spoke to his midwife and explained things to her and she was suggesting that we'd need to do more bt to see what is going on but that it did not sound quite right. I was thinking why is she suggesting this and he's being slack and doing nothing so I called Mindhugs and got the details for her FS and I have an appointment next wednesday :D I'm going to type him up a history now so I don't forget anythings plus so he can see the whole picture.

Just wrote a long post and internet connection dropped out and lost it again, I started crying :redface: so will do a short one quickly-
sunbeam- good plan, AF does sound weird, mines getting heavier so have some of mine if you want lol
minnie- good one about dtd
joeve- hi hun, hope the cycle going well
maruschke- saw you got 5 fert, thats a great number, I have got 5 ferts both my cycles, well done. sorry you are feeling down, its hard seeing everyone conceive and keep babies so easily xx
crafty- fingers crossed for a surprise in the xmas rush
matthewsmum-:hug:
tasha- how are you hun?
afm- AF arrived yesterday in time for nightshift, lovely combination! Spoke to ivf nurse today so officially starting a new FET cycle today, letrazole starts wednesday, on with the show. Shaping up for a BT due around xmas day- great! Was shedding a few tears over the weekend for my last bubba that miscarried, poor little thing.

OMG, omg! I have just got a positive OPK on CD31! It's still ridiculously long, but it's short for me!! Wasn't expecting it for at least another 15 days or so. But DH and I haven't dtd in about 6 weeks :redface: I had an infection so I wouldn't let him anywhere near me. Then he just stopped asking for it and I stopped giving it. So his swimmers are probably 'stale' so to speak. I hope if we dtd tonight and again tomorrow night, they will be 'refreshed' :lol:

Maruschke, I could have written your post from yesterday myself. It really does suck, big time :( :hug:

Saffy, boo to AF at work! Sorry :hug:

Minnie, are you due to O too?

Hi to everyone else :)

saffy: its good you are able to get straight back into another cycle, it isn't fair we have to go through this over and over

tasha: yay for a positive opt :-) i got one too today so looks like we are going to be 2ww buddies !

Maruschke - 5 fertilised that is awesome, grow embies grow!:dance:

Tasha - I really hope you catch that eggie, they do appear at the oddest times don't they!. Hopefully DH has been "entertaining himself" and his swimmers will be good and ready ;)

Saffy - When I used to have trouble with my computer I got so sick of losing posts that i used to write them in word then cut and paste, never lost one again, see you just have to out smart them!:wall: Sorry AF arrived at work, yes I'd love some more, mine has gone now and really I could have got away without even using a pad (sorry TMI)! If my next cycle goes to plan I will be about ready to test on Christmas Day too, lets hope we get the best pressie ever. Hugs for missing your bubba. :hug:

Minnie - Good luck on your eggie hunt too.

Best of luck tasha and minnie :)

I am now in tww as well come on tww buddies one of us has to get out of here!!!

Joeve, how about BOTH of us get out of here! How awesome would that be? In fact, how bout we ALL get out of here!! FX

OPK was slightly darker this morning (darker than the control) and then the same tonight. We dtd last night and we will again tonight and again tomorrow night ;) we were going to do it again this morning, but I figure DH needs time to 'replenish' his swimmers.

Ohhhhh, FX FX FX FX FX!

All of us out of here sounds great!
Tasha go you it's making me tired just thinking about all that dtd! If I was you I would be star fishing it by tomorrow night lol!

hi girls,

Maruschke: how are the little ones going ? when will transfer be ?

joeve: hope the 2ww goes quick for you !

tasha: have you ovulated now ?

hi to everyone :-)

afm: im very confused, monday & tuesday i got positive opt's & it was fainter yesterday so was negative but i haven't felt ovulation pain yet :dunno: i have had it every cycle really badly for the last 12 months ! so i don't know whether to stop the bding & start the progesterone or not yet gggrrr

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hi girls,

Maruschke: how are the little ones going ? when will transfer be ?

joeve: hope the 2ww goes quick for you !

tasha: have you ovulated now ?

hi to everyone :-)

afm: im very confused, monday & tuesday i got positive opt's & it was fainter yesterday so was negative but i haven't felt ovulation pain yet :dunno: i have had it every cycle really badly for the last 12 months ! so i don't know whether to stop the bding & start the progesterone or not yet gggrrr

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Minnie, if it helps, some IVF women don't start the prog until 3 or even 5 DPO. Hope you just had a painless O :). We had one blast put in yesterday and I'm still waiting to hear if the others are suitable to freeze.

Minnie, yes i had +opk's Mon, Tues and Wed. But I always have a couple of days +. Although I usually get a small amount of pain, this time I hardly had any at all as well.:dunno: Lets hope the eggs just slipped right out and that's why there wasn't much pain! :)

hi everyone,

minnie- hope you got some clarity about your Oing? Have you had ewcm?

tasha- you have lots of energy lol, hope you catch that eggy, sounds like you will!

joeve-how are you?

maruschke- congrats on being PUPO- woohoo, I have good feelings about your hatching blasty, should be snuggling in nice and comfy about now!!

sunbeam-cna't believe we both will be testing on xmas day! that has the potential to be either very good or very bad!

crafty- did af turn up? Hope not x

afm- yay i had a normal Af 4 days long- phew! on CD 5 here so scan next tuesday, just got to get through the next few wks, I have a lot of work and social life coming up!! I put up our xmas tree yesterday, I love christmas :)

Hi ladies :)

Saffy, yay for normal AF! I am the same, it's usually super light, which worries me. We are putting up our tree today, ahh can't wait. Good luck with your scan next week.

Joeve & minnie, hope the TWW goes fast for all of us :D

Maruschke, how are you doing?


AFM: Nothing much, just keeping busy. Wondering if I should postpone the dye test till after Christmas if we don't have any luck this cycle. I just can't afford it right now. But then I will have to wait for another cycle, and I will have no idea how long it will be. :(
But we are putting our tree up tonight. Just waiting for DH to get home with it, i have all the decorations laid out already!

hi girls,

we have all been quiet, busy time of year i guess !

joeve: have you tested yet ? fingers crossed for you

Saffy: how is the medication treating you so far ? good luck for your scan

tasha: how is my cycle buddy going ? i hope the 2ww goes quick for us

Maruschke: how are you going ? any symptoms ?

sunbeam, matthewsmum and crafty :hello:

afm: i have no idea if or when i ovulated, im on the progesterone now so will have to test at some point but i don't know when i should ! my dh suggested waiting until we get back from our trip (2 weeks time) but i said no because i don't want to be doing the progesterone while im away if i don't have to