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speaking of blood test......
negative..... but the arrival of AF had already confirmed it for me.... so that's all folks....
Vic - CD 2 on the list for me..... having a break for a couple of months at least - possibly till the end of the year depending on how much weight I can lose, but I'd like to stay on the list if no one minds.... at least for now.
Myturn, big hugs darling girl xoxoxox
thanks Miss B :( :( :(
Im So sorry Myturn, I hope the short break helps your body prepare for you future BFP. Hugs.
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thanks Mrs Mac - it really does feel better knowing that all you lovelies DO get it...
Unfortunately too many of us on here know exactly how you feel :(
Take special care of yourself and stay with us. Will keep you in the list.
Hugs myturn :(
Hi girls
Not sure if I'm in the right thread as I never know if this one is for AC in general or just those who've been TTC with AC for over 12 mths?!
Anyway, we are TTC #2 with IVF and haven't told anyone IRL (except my direct manager at work, who is TTC #1 with AC). So, I just wanted to 'chat' with some girls who understand :) It's hard to keep it all to yourself.
Do feel free to point me elsewhere though if this is the wrong thread!!
We are doing a HRT FET at the moment and transfer is Wednesday. It's so strange this time around, as it seems like the world's 'easiest' FET - at my first US my lining was 7.2mm, which was waaay better than it had ever been before, even on the FET where we got pg with DD. The clinic was very excited! Last time I also needed HRT patches, as well as progynova, and it took about 2 weeks of scans before I was finally ready for transfer. This time I had just the one US and they said "Ok, transfer is on Wednesday next week!". It was a nice surprise. But, I shall try not to get too excited as we all know that these things rarely go to plan. And I don't want to set myself up for disappointment.
My turn - Im so sorry honey :( Big :hug:
Mrs P - Welcome to the thread! I am having an FET transfer on Wed as well so we will be TWW buddies :)
I cant remember how was asking about success rates??? But my FS told me last month that the stats are:
10% for bonking (his words not mine!)
16% for an FET and 36% for a fresh transfer. He said that the stats are calculated every 3 months.
xxx
I'm guessing they would be averages Amy because the stats vary so much depending on your age and the nature of your infertility problems.
My FS told me last Monday that 20% for a normal healthy youngish couple natural and with IVF 45-50%. My clinic seem to believe that they have almost the same success rates with stims and FET's. Anything to get my money, I think! How anyone gets pregnant natually is beyond me...
Clexane stings like s*** that is all.
Yes it does :(:
Myturn I'm really sorry you were right. Definately stick around as you work on your health.
Welcome to the thread Miss P. Hopefully you can join another more cheerful one soon but we are a great bunch to hang out with if you have to be here ;)
Vic I like you fs odds best ;)
I've just entered the tww so will see what the month of May brings. Feeling positive this far for two reasons. A) this is the furtherest we have gotten in a while and b) Dh has finally come to the party!!!!! That's right he's finally gettin over his ivf phobia. I can't believe it. I think my nag free approach worked and he suddenly came out with 'If this doesn't work maybe we should just spend the extra money and do the full thing' his code for let's do ivf apparently. Hopefully we won't need it but nice to know the option is there. I think we would have a month off and then jump in. My poor body is a bit tired of nonstop jabbing since January.
Welcome Mrs P, the ladies here are wonderful and provide me with sanity and a place to talk about all my infertility struggles without feeling judged, I am sure they will do the same for you.
Thanks Miss B, Amy, N2L & Vic for the info, I guess it really is an individual thing and I will just have to wait and see what the FS has to say. I think i was just hoping for some positive stats, but really when we have been given a 2-3% chance of falling naturally anything is a positive.
Keta that is wonderful news hun, I hope you don't end up needing it but its fantastic that your DH has come around.
woo hoo Keta! I was reading one of your posts in the vent thread earlier today (apparently I missed it earlier this year!) and am SOOOO glad he got there! (good old reverse psychology perhaps??? ;) -- shhh... we won't tell him!)
Of course it's going to work because we are going to be in TWW together and instead of just doing lunch every few weeks we will be shopping together for baby clothes!!!:
N2L - Yes very much just an average. He said that every 3 months the doc's in WA have to send through their stats to get a state average or something :shrug:
Today has been mental here, I have been trying to get the house clean and everything done before my transfer on Wed so I can relax on my 5 days off. So fare I have:
Painted the Laundry, bathroom and toilet (well DH did and I supervised :rolleyes: )
Mopped the floors
Cleaned out the fridge
Got a casserole ready in the slow cooker for tomorrow night
Prepared a roast
Cleaned the bathroom
Went shopping for 2 birthday presents
And now im sitting here sipping on the last glass of wine i'll be able to have waiting for my roast to cook. Start the pessaries tonight, not sure what to expect as i've always been on the Crinone before.
xxx
Pessaries are better than crinone IMO. Still some waxy residue, but not cottage cheese clumps like crinone.
N2L I love your descriptions :)
;) :p mmmmm cottage cheese....
Mmmm waxy residue fanny????
Like a teeny tiny candle has melted inside your vajayay :lol:
You could just slip right off a seat with that kind of action....
Hi Ladies
Sorry I have been AWOL again trying to keep my head together but getting really impatient now. Been waiting for AF to arrive since stopping Provera 21/4 its now Day 9 and no sign! Im so sick of waiting to get things started :( Finally the money is ready and now my body isnt playing the game. If AF isnt here tomorrow I have to call my clinic to arrange a bloodtest....all i want is my name on the list.
I apologise for the me post I am reading your posts too I promise. For those using Eostrogen pessaries I found it better to administer them rectally. Granted its not pleasant but I hate that constant gooey feeling down there :redface: IYKWIM, I was on them for 12 weeks with DH.
Be back to talk when something interesting happens.
Hahaha gee I cant wait!!! NOT!!!!!!!!!
:o
I recommend rubber undies with extra grip.
Oh my God those pessaries are REVOLTING! Apart from the waxy vajajay, they SMELT!! I felt like I had a putrid small emanating from my nether regions while I was on them. And they burnt holes in my knickers!! What's that about?? I requested pregnyl last cycle they were so gross. Not sure what this cycle will be..
Myturn- sorry for your BFN. Such a disappointment. Sucks. Big time. Good luck for moving forward in your journey.
Bee27- I hope your AF comes tonight!
Night night peeps. Love and strength to all x
Sneaking in...
Myturn I'm so sorry - good luck with the getting fit and before you know it you'll be back TTC.
AmyJb you gorgeous thing - I found the pessaries easy as - put them in (I couldnt even think about rectally but maybe that's just me) lie down for 30 - put tissues in my undies before standing up - run to the toilet and let the wax drip out (TMI sorry:)) and then get on with my normal day. No leaking, no smells - def no undue holes - that is freaky!!
Keta I'm absolutely thrilled for you:) you go girl and good luck!
X
Hahaha wish I has read this earlier! My bathroom floor got a nice wax this morning! :)
:) oops! Yep the lay for half an hour is vital. I also use a panty liner or my knickers end up waxy, no holes so far though.
Anyone on metformin, do you keep taking it during the tww? I have assumed yes but forgot to ask the nurse the other day.
Amy maybe you could polish the car next.... Hee hee
Bahahaha ladies on the wxyy girly parts and the rubber undies. I've had a good chuckle.
Keta - I'm on metformin and yes you keep taking it in your TWW. I was told when I was pregnant with DD2 I was to stay on them the entire pregnancy. But because my IVF Dr wasn't my OB I had to stop when I ran out of scrips because she wouldn't write me another one.
1 May April 2012
Got Their BFP's :leap:
(Just getting it ready for the run of them :) )
Waiting for EPU/O/IUI/FET or just something to happen!
Bee27 -
myturn - CD3
Mrs Mac - CD9
Planetsasha - CD12 FET Cycle
lyra stardust - CD15
Waiting for Transfer
Amy_jellybean - CD21 FET Cycle Trans 02.05.12
Mrs P - CD? FET Cycle Trans 02.05.12
Hanging out in the TWW (stalk them here: https://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums...178259-16.html
Porche - CD34 8 dpt 2 x day 5 embryo BT 05.05.12
Saffy - CD28 8 dpt 2 x day 3 embryo BT 05.05.12
Vic261 - CD28 8 dpt 2 x day 5 embryo BT 08.05.12
Nothing2Lose - CD32
Joeve - CD27 3 dpt 2 x day 5 embryo BT
Keta - CD24 2 dpt BT 15.05.12
me4ever
me4ever - I really want to move you up to the top of our list :) You should bask in the glory of your BFP!
Bee - I have added you to the list since you want to join us. And technically you are waiting for something to happen :)
Welcome Mrs P. I have added you also. Good luck for your transfer tomorrow.
Amy - We will all be stalking you tomorrow. All the very best hunni x
Thanks Vic :hug:
Joeve - I could do both your car and mine :o
Miss P - Best of luck for your transfer tomorrow xxx
Transfer is all booked for 11am WA time tomorrow (so 1pm eastern states time for those of you playing at home!). I called the clinic at 4pm and they said that they have decided to thaw my embie in the morning as i'm not first on the list.
I've got a beef and red wine casserole boiling away in the slow cooker. Cant wait to finish work and head home. I've got my night all planned - Shower, PJ's, dinner and curl up on the couch with a cup of tea and Packed to the Rafters (Nanna much?).
xxx
Amy jellybean- good luck for tomorrow. I hope all goes smoothly for you.
ps that night you have planned sounds like bliss! I'm a nanna couch potato and proud!
Keta- sorry meant to say yesterday... yay for you being in tww, I know how frsutrated you were for the cancellations. Hoping for your BFP!!
Good luck for tomorrow Amy jb & mrs p!
I hope everyone else is traveling along ok;) I have to say I'm still chuckling at the pessary comments! :)
Good luck Amy and while embie is thawing you can wax all our cars lol. Will be sending positive vibes!
Amy GL hun, lets hope
Its a lucky day for both of us!
Thanks for the wishes girls - My transfer is 1240, got some acupuncture in the morning. Planning on having a nice lunch in between, and maybe morning tea before acupuncture ha ha!
Does anyone else take the full day off for transfer? I found it hard enough to concentrate today at work, let alone thinking about it tomorrow!
Vic - I'm not sure, officially it's a BFP. But nobody seems too optimistic as the HCG is still so low. Had a scan today and there was nothing much to see... The nurse and the dr today told me where to go if I start bleeding or having really bad pain (ectopic) and told me to have DP or telephone close to me at all times... They freak me out... I reallly was hoping this would be it, but am not too hopeful.