Nah. It's all good
I just know what it's like when you have to break the news feeling like the whole world is watching.
You're always welcome Joeve xxx
Nah. It's all good
I just know what it's like when you have to break the news feeling like the whole world is watching.
You're always welcome Joeve xxx
I know that's why i didn't tell anyone I had my scan booked so I get it.
It's a fine line between knowing you have lovely support there from people who understand, and feeling like your own crushing disappointment is compounded by the fact that you have somehow failed everyone out there who wants a BFP both for you and themselves.
In my 18months on this thread my experience is that when people are slow to respond it's because they are consoling themselves. Not always but mostly
Talking generally, not specifically about Jane though!!!
I think Jane is waiting to test til after work tonight. Either way, we're here for you Jane sending all the I can your way!!
It is a fine line n2l. For me personally, I get really excited when someone is testing (me included ) . Perhaps I should turn my excitement down a tad and wait for the news instead of stalking...
I've done it too MissB. Dont feel bad. I just started noticing people apologizing for not getting a bfp. (Sorry guys, its a bfn) That's when I thought, why should they feel bad for us in the peanut gallery...
Ya, I know I've become like, the POAS police!!!! What has happened to me???? Where did I go wrong? lol.
There's no hope for you MissB!!
You know what I think it is?? And I am talking generally, not specifically about you or anyone else...
We desperately want people to get a BFP because we want some validation that there are happy endings and that this caper actually works so there's hope for us too. That, and we are all lovely people who want success for everyone.
I agree. I also think the sisterhood is generally happy in here to see anyone who has struggled to get a bfp actually get one.
Hahaha I know there's no hope for me n2l! lol. I do agree with you 100%, we love seeing success because it might just happen to us
Hi ladies, sorry for building so much suspense. Just got home from work and POAS. And well....
ITS A BFP!!!! Faint but there.
WOO HOO!!!!!!!!
CONGRATULATIONS Jane
Nice one, Jane! Congrats! Xx
Congratulations Jane. Its the list, its bought you luck When is your BT?
Its such an amazing time of your life. Enjoy it and get plenty of rest xxx
Congratulations Jane!!!
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How are you going Emma? How is the reflux?
Did you end up with any freezer bubs?
Yaaaaaaaaaahoooooooooooo !!!!!! Congratulations hunni !! And you were worried that you had no symptoms, see???? So happy for you gorgeous xoxoxox