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Hi Beibei
just before my EPU my 21 year old sister told me she was pregnant, unplanned. She is having problems with her husband and was threatening leaving him, she got pregnant while they made up. I congratulated her and apologised for my lack of happiness. I walked out and started to hyperventilate and than broke down in tears. I cried for 2 whole days. I emailed her the next day on how I felt and how sad I was. She really upset me as she knew what my husband and I were going through and that it was my only dream being the eldest to have the first born in the family. I also told her that I knew it was not an accident as she apparently has been begging her husband for a baby but he was not ready. I am only 25 and I was not asking her to hold for too long, I had a lot of anger and was very disappointment with her. Over the week though I got over it, It has happened, she was blessed with a bubz and I have to respect the precious thing in her. I called her last night and requested to have a coffee and to mend our broken hearts.
Its very hard for us TTC buddies, but I think its harder for then to give us what is suppose to be their happiest news. Beibei, I am sure as your conversations progress, you will want to know everything that she is experiencing, it will give you positive vibes.
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Thanks BW and Ltl Panda to offer your advice and experience...I am the only child in the family, so I guess I don't have that kind of pressure, but there is definately pressure in different form, you can guess what...oh, well, sometimes we just have to deal with what life throw at us...I never have thought that I would have problem of conceving...
I am glad you are taking the initiative to make up with your sister...hope soon you will be catching up and be pregnant together...and this month could be it!
I will sort this out in the meantime I think...I guess I just like to vent to your guys and thanks for listening...:)
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Hi girls,
Hope you don't mind me joining in but was just reading about your issues with others who you are close to falling pregnant around u. I too have this difficulty. Only two days ago a good friend of mine from work told me that she is now 9 weeks pregnant. She has been trying to fall pregnant with her 2nd for approximately 7 months and I was just hoping...just hoping...that for once someone that I know who is TTC would also have difficulties. That sounds really awful doesn't it? Anyways...when I found out I was so very very happy for her and was jumping around with her in the girls toilet but then every time I thought about it afterwards I felt sick to the pit of my stomach. I hate the fact that my experience is tainting the way I feel about other people and this miracle that has just happened for them. Am I making sense?
What I'm really trying to say BeiBei and as Ltl Panda has also given an example of also is that there is NOTHING wrong with the way you are feeling...it is only natural when you are going through something like this.
Take care
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Hi Rara and welcome
It is hard, it is very hard. But we need to think that it will happen to us to.
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Hi Ladies, I have been away for a couple of days so just catching up on news.
Big congrats to Kimberley! That is fantastic news!!!
Not sure if I've missed a post from Karena? Any update from BT today?
Wishing you all the best - looking forward to reading about some more BFP's soon!
Nat
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Hi Girls
just seeing how everyone is going.
Not sore if its the gel, but my (.)(.) are so sore, it hurts to touch, for those using the gel, are you experiencing the same thing?
I have to other syptoms though, other than mild constant AF feeling, but I had that the moment I started the gel.
well, I hope everyone is ok.
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I have painfully sore boobs, but I'm not on crinone.
I'm having a natural FET cycle, so no luteal phase support for me. But my boobs - ouch! They were so bad last night I just wanted to sit and cry. I wake up not feeling too bad and they get worse and worse during the day.
Sorry I'm not much help, Ltl Panda!
BW
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the sore boobies sounds promising BW!!!!!!!!
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Oh guys, the sore boobs is the symptoms I wish I had...but none...still not feeling a thing...I am a little depressed now...don't know what I should think about this cycle...
Maybe because of the weather...:rolleyes:
Hope everyone else is doing better than me...
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BeiBei, the sore boobs come and go... as does the nausea, the intense hunger, the peeing constantly, the abdominal cramps... I'm really not sure what to think! The one thing that doesn't go is being tired all the time - so incredibly tired!
When it comes to the sore boobs... it's an ache - an intense ache that reminds me of the arthritis aches I get in my bones... considering the weather, I'm starting to wonder whether my boobs want in on the arthritis act or something! Only thing that tells me it's not all in my head is if I press on them it gets so much worse!
BW
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hi everyone - just wanted to let you all know that im out of the tww.
i didnt have a very good feeling about this cycle - so i wasnt surprised when AF arrived (a day before my BT unfortunately!). Start my next round of injections for a second cycle of IUI tonight... fingers crossed for this time!!
hope you are all well... wishing everyone of you in the tww lots of luck!! x
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Karena - i was thinking of you the other day and wondering how things had gone - so sorry it wasn't a BFP this cycle hun - but at least you're able to get going again straight away! good luck this time hun!
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Hi All
I have been feeling so not positive for the past few days as AF pains are more stronger, no more sore boobies, and no more discharge. So this morning I wanted to go for a run seeing as it didn’t work and thought I would test once hubby left to do his exam. Well I did 2 different tests and both came up positive within 30-45 secs, visible at arms length. I am excited but also worried as I could just get AF regardless. So unfair, you think the HPT test would relief some pressure.
I am currently 8 days post 5 day blast.
How is everyone else, BW I read your journal and I believe that we are both on the same boat with HPT..... Hope we get BFP with blood tests.
Well I hope everyone is doing well, looking forward to catching up with everyone tomorrow.
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:shhh: It's still a secret!
I'm not getting too excited just yet, and I'm not letting anyone else get too excited yet. Still a couple of days to go, and the cramps are scary some times...
I'm so happy to hear that you have a clear positive, Ltl Panda! Gives me some more hope that mine will get darker too.
BW
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Good luck girls I hope you get your BFP!!!
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Hi Girls,
Just thought I'd pop in here because I'm officially in the TWW now, 2 days DPO......
It's my first cycle of clomid on 50mg....Fingers crossed this is the cycle...:stickyvibesgirl:
Good luck to everyone here....
Kazz
http://t2.lilypie.com/xW8op10/.png:goodluck::pray:
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Good luck mum2jaden
Well still feeling pretty positive about the HPT results, and cannot wait for Thursday to confirm via BT, so had to see if I can get it done tomorrow morning, so feeling a little nervous but I so need to find out now......Wed cannot come soon enough.
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Ltl Panda,
oooo I hope you get to have your BT tomoorow, hun! Tomorrow will be an exciting day indeed!
