What keeps you going?

Hope keeps me going... I sometimes feel a sense of hopelessness.. but I feel in my heart that hope will find a way.

I have been ttc for 2 years. When I first started I had that same enthusiasm as you.. lately it has fizzled out a little too. I guess I must be coming to terms with my secondary infertility a little better.. I sometimes think it will never happen to me. Then I read posts like yours, meet people who are dealing with the same things as me, some even have a slimmer chance than me of conceiving. I feel like in so many ways good things come to good people and we really want it. So we may feel somewhat discouraged at times but don't lose sight of the bigger picture and the reward will outweigh any hardships that we have endured.

I'm so sorry for you loss and in time you will cry more about it and grieve properly. It's just a terrible experience to go through. I should know. In fact i do know. My heart goes out to you.

Don't feel worried, we all feel things differently, and are all entitled to deal with what life deals us in our own special way.

You hang in there, and remember you are among friends here and together we have more hope and support than anyone! XoX