Public Tubal Reversal??

Hi Framaine- if you click on onemores name in the above post a thig will drop down. It says send a private message to onemore. Click on that

Thanks so much for that mumof5.
I have been following your journey too. It sounds like things are going well so far. Fingers crossed for you darl.
Keep in touch.
Take care.

Thanks Framaine all the best of luck to you too!!!!
Take care XX

Hi Charmaine, thanks for the support.
Sorry I havnt got back to you earlier wasn`t really upto talking and I was feeling sorry for myself and didn`t want to put a dampner on the whole reversal subject. Unfortunately doesn`t look like this was the way for me, but please don`t let this put you off and doubt yourself to go through with your reversal because let me tell you I would do it all again. It`s weird but now that I have settled I still have that feeling that my dream is still a reality, prehaps not the way I had hoped but none the less still a posibility.
Do you have a mobile? If you do you can text me my # is 0439 581 544. I would love to have a chat if the offer is still open.
Thankyou, Kristy

Hi darl,
Glad to hear from you. I was really worried about you, was even beginning to think that maybe it was all too much for you to come to the site again and i wouldn't hear from you...
You hold on to your dream darl. I am, that's how i got to be here. Financially it is just impossible for us to have it done privately, and i thought that was the end of my dream, i was more heart broken than i can describe, but.... then i found you. And would you believe you are now helping many many women here in sydney. My own gyno didn't even know that the royal women's do it for free. I told him, and now he is telling his other patients that want it done.
If this means as much to you as i think it does, don't let it go darl, actually, i know you won't. It just won't let YOU go, like it did to me. No matter how bad or big the obstacles are that we have with doing this, it all means nothing compared to the thought of holding my husband's baby in my arms. Fight for your dream Kristy, no matter what it takes. You deserve it.
And a very big YES on the offer still be open to chat. I do have a mobile:0433-973-038 your our home e-mail is framaine5@bigpond.com
30 days to go for me, already starting to get nervous. Got my post op report from the first op, didn't say a thing, no length of the tubes and the doc was very vaige on where the clips were put, so i guess i just have to wait until when we get there.
Can i ask you a really personal question please?? Only answer if you chose to. Earlier on you mentioned that you are trying to lose weight. Can i ask just how much weight you want to/have to lose. Was it an issue with having the op?? Did they tell you, you had to lose weight before you could have the op?? That really scares me, you see i am extremely over weight, 108kg although i am working on it, i worry that i won't be able to get enough off.
Anyway, gotta fly for now darl, think i have babbled on enough for now.
Take it easy and take care. Will talk soon, and keep an eye on your mobile....
Charmaine xoxox

Hey Charmaine,
I`m doing a lot better thanks, everyone on here has been great a big help.
The first few days were the worst, my hubby and I have spoken breifly about IVF and although he is not keen to go that way I think later on we may talk a bit more about it, emotionaly and finacialy we are not ready to take that step yet.
Weight was not an issue that was brought up at any of my appointments, I weighed 79kg when I went for the op, I lost 10kg after but sadly coming back to Tassie I put it all back on again, I could`nt eat after getting my results the other week and was 80kg Iv`e lost 3 kg so now am 77kg my healthy weight range is about 55-60kg so I`ve still got a bit to go. I am being really strict with myself only eating 3 meals and having nothing in between, I do get hungry but I really want to get healthy again. I think with the op the healthier you are the quicker you heal and better chance of falling pg.

Oh I sent you a text today but now my phone is flat so I will charge it after work tonight.
Thanks for being here for me
Kristy xxxx

Hey Charmaine, where you at girl ? Great chating with you via text the other day will do it again soon. Cya

Hey Kristy, how are you darl??
And everyone of course....
Sorry i haven't been around, you know how it is. Busy, busy, busy.
I now have a week off, so you'll all see a bit more of me for a while. My boss at work owed me 48 hours in overtime, and he told me to take it all in one hit this week. And the best part is both me and frank are due to have 2 weeks off at the end of this month. So i have a week off, go back to work for a week and then have another 2 off. Good hey.....
Getting close now to appointment day. 15 days to be exact. I'm very excited, yet very very nervous at the same time.
Kristy darl, keep a look out on your phone, i'll send you a text real soon.
Bye for now, take care everyone..
charmaine xoxoxox

Hey Charmaine, sorry I havn`t been around much things have been a bit rough lately.
You must be so excited, I will be thinking of you. I`m sure everything will be fine.
I havn`t been able to send you a text cause my phone is flat, I think the battery is stuffed it wont stay charged for more than a couple of hours.
Any way its nearly bed time, I will catch up before you head to Melb, what day is your appointment?
Have a good night..