Tubal Reversals

Uh I am all by myself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I didn't get af this morning \:D/
but not testing just incase

Sorry STorm. Ive been in and out of hospital since the weekend. Stupid doctor told me I had the beginnings of MS because i had a really sore eye, blured vision and headache. ****head didnt realise that due to pregnancy I cant take my migraine medication. He did no bloods or urine. If he had, he would have found out that im enimic and have high blood pressure. Also have protien in urin (already!!!!). MIdwives clinic checked my out on Monday and tuesday. They were bloody fantastic.
Sorry Iv been Awal.
Hope yourve been good. Great to hear that your trip to your mum's was lovely. HOpefully this is the month for you. I did a bit of Fegu Sui (Not right I know). I read somewere if you put up a baby's romper or outfit above the bed head on the wall (I put mine behind our wedding pic) and 9 grains of rice at the entrence to your bedroom, you wil fall pregnant. I tried it and look were I am now. Give it a go. You probably will do it and you'll be pregnant already ;) . I also got told to plant some parsley in my gardern, but only parsley that yourve had given to you.
Ive reached the 21 week mark and I honestly can say, I'll be glad when its over. (had a bad week, can you tell)
So I promise I will try harder to get on
Until later
xxmaz

Oh Maz, you poor chook! Hope you are feeling better.Stupid doctor.
I was going to do the 9 grains of rice thing, but no need.
I'm pregnant!! Did a test
on Thrus, it was stark white, did another one just then & it's got a feint 2nd line, hoping it gets darker, though it was a pretty good line for late in the arvo & heaps to drink today. Very Happy & scared too.


Yippee for 21 weeks, another u/s soon then hey?
Zac will be 9 months on Tuesday where does the time go? He will be a whole pregnancy old!
Have a great weekendxxxx

Oh my gosh Jess!!! I can't beleive that they won't do it for you after 6 kids! I have had 3 c sections in 3 years and my ob was more than happy to clip my tubes and I am only 22. A few midwives had something to say but I went through hell with my last pregnancy and all the c secs so close together. My 1st was an emergency and I was still having trouble with my scar (after an infection) when I fell with DS#2, 10 months later. I fell with DS#3 only 3 1/2 months after the 2nd. Maybe you should go to Taree and see Dr. Walkom, he is terrific.

Yay!!!!!!!!!Storm!!!!!!!!!
I got goosebumps cause that's exactly how my pg test were with this one.
Im so happy for you mate. Yay I cant stop grinning!!!
So when will you be due? End of January? I'll wet myself if its the beginning of Feb (my birthday is the 3rd). THis is so exciting!!!!
I had another u/s last monday and baby is fine. Still couldn't tell what flavour but s/he is Very active. Jed and I were doing the matress dance yesterday morning and Mr WOnka was going nuts and kicking the crap out of me. Jed felt it and we couldn't stop laughing. IM having a 4D scan in just over 2 weeks. Its on Tuesday the 20 something? Mind is like cheese, holey.
See, I said if you go to do the rice thing that you'll probably be pregnant already. hehehe. Im still grinnning.
take care mate and now that I know were we are I'll be on more often.
xxmaz

Thanks Maz, from what we can work out I'm due Jan 17, hope to hold out til Feb though, DH is feb too,
Wow at the 4d scan, that's gonna be awsome!! Lmao at Mr Wonka kicking ya, must of been disturbing her sleep ;)

Still worried about this preg, I know a line is a line, but I tested on thrus & it was stark white, yesterday a feint line so I so hope tomorrow will be dark, I've never had that happen before it's either been - or + & if it was inbetween a few days later af would come.AF well, something else to worry about ....
Zac had his 3rd rotten night in a row, zzzzzzzzzzzz, I think he must be getting his next lot of teeth, god, what a nightmare.
Have a great day, talk soon.
NUmber 5 is coming!!!!!!!!!!!!! woohoo

Go Storm, go Storm
I still cant keep the smile of my face.
This bugger has jammed a foot or something into my ribs cause they've been killing me for the past 2 hours. ahhhhhhh

Norty, norty Mr Wonka, move your foot!!
I tested again this morning, the line is slightly darker, not as dark as I expected though, :rolleyes: considering it was fmu & 15 dpo. I guess I will have to test again in a few days. I really hate this part of TTC.
Hope Mr Wonka has moved for ya! Have a great day.

My turn for the crap night of sleep.
Mr Wonka must have thought my tummy was a mosh pit cause that's what it felt like to me, then Wilhelm decides at 4.30am that he's had enough sleep and get's up.
IKWYM with this part. I was like, just hurry up and give me a dark line dame it!
I fell pregnant around the same time as you, with Wilhelm. He's birthday is the 16th of January.
I just hope you dont get bad morning sickness.
Fingers and flaps crossed that its right!
xxmaz

Roflmao Maz, I'll cross my fingers, but I aint crossing my flaps hahahahahaha !!!!
I did have bad ms with Zac, I dont know why it is called morning sickness cos it was all freaking day!

Maz, yoohoo, are you well?
I tested again & it was dark!!!!!
Going to the dr today.****ting myself, over here.

Go Storm, go Storm!!!!!!
I hope to hell the doctor's visit goes well. YOu have to keep your flaps crossed so that bub stays put until 12 weeks.

s$$$ about the morning sickness lasting all day. Mine has been here since day one and hasn't p**sed off yet. My mum's adament that its a girl and Ive got a funny feeling it's another boy.

Good luck today anyway, im all goosebumpy again
xxmaz

Icky morning sickness still being around Maz. I'd say a girl too, :babygirl: !!
Dr went well it's confirmed, having an u/s on the 19th.
phew I've just gotta wait now.
Were you nervous waiting to find out if Mr Wonka was in the right spot? I know I was a wreck with Zaccie! & now again.
Ah well I must stress less.
Congratulations on 22 weeks!!!

i was sent for an u/s straight away but because I was only about 4 - 5 weeks the u/s chicky couldn't see anyhting and questioned me about being pregnant. She made me feel like s**t I went at around 6 weeks and bub was fine. I was worried and we didn't tell anyone until the scan that cleared bub.
dont stress, you'll be fine mate
thinking of you with happiness
xxmaz

Yeah, we're not telling either, simply because we dont want to have to deal with the comments. You know,
again, so soon you've just had one ra ra ra who cares .
Have a great night

YO MAZ:hello:

I get worried when you dont post.

Sorry mate. I just cant sit still today. Ive spent all afternoon outside in the gardern prunning back my hedges and daisy bushes. I cleaned the house from top to bottom this morning too. I get like this when I know Im going to have a lot of dust and crap everywere. This weekend is the weekend that the old veranda is coming down and the walls to our extension are going up. I'll have to post some pics somehow.
Other than that Im fine. Mr Wonka has been beating his/her drum steadaly all day. I swear the little so and so has been kicking my arse all day!

There you are you busy little bee.
I have no motivation.
DH has been doing madmans work on the yards after work too. They have nbeen left to get feral. All spunky now though.
Maz, I have no confidence in this preg:( I feel terrible, but I dont have that connection yet. Hopefully soon I will.
Had another awful night with Zac lastnight & I am so tired today.
I've been tired everyday this week, so that must be a good sign.
F*&^% I am such a sook!!!!!!!!!!!

Ah mate I wish I could give you a big hug cause I know exactly how you feel. **** Im 22 weeks and I still dont 'feel' pregnant. People look at me like im weird when I say it but Im finding it harder to 'bond' already this time round. Maybe its because we have tried so hard to have our 'special' babies and thought we'd never have more again. My gf who had her tubes reversed said the same thing.

Maz, I got the results back today, my levels were only 50. Have to have my u/s this arvo. Wish me luck, I knew it.
I've had such a ****ty day anyway. Took the dog to the vet, it crapped in the van, then the van broke down. My pc had a skitzo & sent me 377 emails, that I already had & wouldn't load any pages til I deleted them. Now this.
I knew there was a reason for me feeling so negative. I just hope it isn't a tubal. They are worth $6000 I cant have anything happen to them!!!

You're probably only a few weeks pg. Don't stress mate. This one's a sticker!!!!
Happy thoughts f*** it!

I didn't go to the u/s * ducks for cover*
Have made another apt for Monday, I just cant be in 3 places as once!!

I have my chin up, I am strong ( cough, cough)
But I do know one thing, I will be fine!
Have a nice Mother's day Maz, if I dont speak to you before.:hug:

You'll be fine then mate. I reackon as a mum, we know what is going on insdie of us and if you feel everything is fine, then it will be. I'll be looking forward to coming and checking on monday to see how you went but.
Take care of you and bub and have a wonderful mothers day mate.

xxmaz

Hi Maz, how are things?
Hope you had a lovley mummies day!
Zac has got 7 teeth now! Explains my horror week with him!
U/S is at 11.30, Dh is home today yippee I dont ave to go by myself! I am ****ting my self.
Will let you know as soon as I get back!!!!!!!!!!

Have a great day, in the mean time.

No baby yet. Just a cyst on my ovary & 15mm thick lining *sigh*.Either too small to see or tubal, another u/s in 7-10 days.:doh:
Back to DR tomorrow for more blood.

Oh Storm, this is the time were I absolutely s**t my self too. This bub didn't show up on ultra sound until I was almost 7 weeks. How far would you be? If they can pick up a cyst on your ovary then they would be able to see a 'baby' bulge in your tube. You watch, this bub is already in place mate. :pray: Im gonna pray for ya. here's one of these but :hug: cause I remember how scarey this is. Just keep them flaps crossed mate....
xxmaz

Storm,

just came in to see how you girls were going, and read the last few posts. I agree with maz, this one's a sticker, i know it. Will be thinking of you until your next u/s.

Maz, I'm a bit late but thanks for your lovely PM when Charlie was born. I too found it hard to bond with my belly bulge while pg, and while I constantly dreamt of babies while pg to my first 3 children, I never did while pg with Charlie. I think my brain wouldn't wrap itself round the idea that there was definitely a baby in there until he was born and i saw him for myself...

love
sushee

How wonderful to hear from you sushee. My god, you just wrote down exactly how I feel at the moment. I dont even consider myself pregnant and feel like Im constantly lying about it. I have been worrying about bonding when the baby is born. I try and talk myslef into it but it still feels like Im lying. Maybe its one of the sideeffects we get with what we all went through. Storm, did you feel like that as well? I have days were Im so worn out at the end of the day and I think, 'im so tired what the hell have I been doing?' then I remember 'thats right im pregnant, remember child in tummy'
Charlie is so beautiful. I cant believe that in around 16 weeks im going to have one of those bundles too.
take care and dont be a stranger mate
xxmaz

Maz,

I too worried about bonding, but it happened all on it's own, as I know it will for you too. I so identify with you saying 'that's right, I'm pregnant', coz most mornings I used to wake up and it would take a couple of seconds to realise I was pg! And many times during the day when I would look down and think OMG I'm pg! Lol!

In 16 weeks time, though, you're going to wonder how you could have doubted bonding with your little'un. It'll be wonderful. I think it's the pg part that is different for us.

love
sushee

Hi Sushee, great to hear from you! Charlie is just georgous! Well done!

Um, when I found out I was preg with Zac I was estatic & couldn't wait for him to be born. So I cant say I agree with you on that one , guys.
But with this one, I'd agree, dunno if it's because I dont know what's going on or what. I feel detatched, but with Zaccie I wasn't.

Stupid dr told me today that WHEN the bleeding starts to go straight to the hospital, he is 100% convinced it's ectopic, if I last a week to go back for the u/s. ****er!!Not impressed at all.:angry:
so I sit hear, wondering wtf is going to happen to me.Plus my modem is freaking out & doesn't work all the time, sometimes I have to hold the power button on, & risk getting Zapped!! But BB is so worth it :) If you dont hear from me for a while Maz, dont panic, it's prob just the modem.

Well that's about it.:rolleyes:

storm,

if he thinks it's an ectopic, he should be doing something about it now, not waiting! He can't be that convinced then if he's telling you to wait!

Ectopics can rupture your tube, and you don't have to bleed for it to happen. If you get any pain at all, go back to get a 2nd opinion.

I hope he's wrong, silly man, and all is well with you.

I agree with Sushee Storm. What an arse hole! Its like the u/s lady with me questioning me wether or not I was pregnant cause nothing came up on the scan.
Who do these doctor's think they are? God? Bloody *****!:angry:

Woo hoo, I have an internet conection! About feaking time!!!!!!

Thanks for your support ladies, I'm hanging in there, nothing has been happening.
My u/s is for 1pm on monday.Dildo cam again, not happy!!
I think my DR was just being cautious, he did the same with Zac, but he could have worded it abit better, am not going back to him after this u/s , I reckon if one was going to be ectopic it would have been the one before Zac, that was a m/c, I am sick of worring about it, every little twinge I get, I start to panic I am over it.:rolleyes:

Have a nice day Ladies.

Not long now girls and its 4D scan time. Tuesday is the day.
I hope that your taking care and not worrying Storm (ha ha ha) bring on the dildo cam! I think that the worse thing with that cam is, that the chick's get down there and look to where they have to go. Ah:( get away from my pinkies!!!!!!!
Hope new found mother hood is going great guns Sushee. You helped me feel less freaky and ****ful as a mum with your feeling whilst pg as I can so relate. Thank you. Jed is relieved aswell cause he was starting to think that I might get pnatal this time by the way I was reating but allas you have shed the light for me. Thanks again mate.
Busy weekend for us. Its supppose to rain tomorrow so we're trying to get our new roof on the extension up asap. Jed's out there now pulling all the old tiles off before the plumber comes. Not long and I can start Mr/s Wonka's room.
You know what guys I don't know what I'd do without this forum anymore. I love going on to the september one, but most of the girls are first timers and they haven't gone through what we have. Its nice knowing that we have all rowed the same boat and we can help each other (im a bit soppy today, sorry). Thanks guys
have a wonderful weekend
xxmaz

Maz, it's actually a guy doing the u/s:eek: but he got me to insert it:help:

Hope the weather holds out for you too, nothing worse than planning something as important as a new roof & it rains! Hope it all gets done!!
Zac is sick again. I need sleep.& not to hear crying. Where has my good little baby gone? Iwant him back, NOW!!!!!!!!! Is it Ok to do the vicks & vaso thing on his chest & back, or is he still too young?

Oh 4d, I wanna come!!How exciting. I will be waiting for the results, make sure you post a picci for me!! I'm busting to see mr/s Wonka.

Have my boys footy game soon, last week he scored right in front of me & as usual I cried.

Have a great week end mate.

I used Eucky bear rub from the chemist. Its for babies and I still use it now. Try it mate, I love it.
As for the 4D scan, yeah f**k it, come along mate. Im going by myself. Ive got a g/f that wants to come but I told her I wasn't going to worry about one because she bought her 15 month old last time. I dont want to be a ***** but If Im not taking my kids I don't really want to have someone elses there. I want to be able to relax. So Ive got to tell her (afterwards) without hurting her feelings. The only prob is Im very black and white and I know It will hurt a bit. But then on the other hand, I was never invited to hers and she didn't want me coming in to see her until the day after she had her bub. Stuff it, I'll tell her straight! thanks for being ears mate
xxmaz

That's fair enough Maz,if you don't want kids there, then so be it.Dont't feel bad.

Will get some of that stuff today.Thanks. I have the eucky bear steamer going , love that smell!!!!!
Oh I was a bad girl at the footy yesterday. My son made a break was running the whole lenght of the field, with no back up, I was yelling GO Dylan Go!! 1/2 the other team was after him, & they smashed him :crying: I was still yelling really loud & screamed out YA ****ing ****s. Oppsies I never use the C word. Shame on me! But he got hurt.Wouldn't have looked too good as I upset Zac too. The only game DH couldn't make, umma I have selfcontrol when he is there:rolleyes:
Norty norty. I have become one of those mothers.
Dont feel so bad today, coz, hey, I didn't know anybody.hahahaha.
How is the roof coming along?

I probably would have been there yelling with ya mate. Nikolaus is waiting until next year to play football or Auskick. He's only a preppy and I asked him if he could wait until next year cause we're so flat out on weekends. He was pretty cool about it.
Fingers crossed for tomorrow, ah you wont need it. Bub is fine. Plumber is here now putting the sheets up. I cant believe its happening. Will post more pics on web site tonight after its up.
take care mate
xxmaz

Maz, I have a sac woo hoo!!!!
No HB yet , I am 5w3d, I am soooooooo relieved!!
Have to go back in a week or 2 to check viability.
Ahhh I feel so much better now.
Thanks for your support.
Best of luck for your 4d scan tomorrow, please, please , please make sure you post a pic on your website for me.

Woo hoo, can't wait to see the DR tomorrow, I'm gunna say, "see, ****er! Stressed me out for nothing!" ****er.

Have a nice night!!

:confetti: Yay Storm!