Tubal Reversals #15

Haha Waggers, it's easy really. They all just seem to blend in LOL. Although I do have older kids & younger ones, I guess that helps some.
It's really about being organised, to an extent.
We drive a hyundai Trajet, wont be big enough when bubby comes though :rolleyes: but Dylan wont be coming everywhere with us & DH wants to buy an 8 seated "thing" lol not sure what it is, but that will fit us all in.

I would love to have one more after this one, but I don't think I would be able to push my luck now I'm getting on :D................

Hi Kiya!!! I've had a broken PC, & I dont really get much time to myself atm.:shhh:I do sneek alot.

Hi Storm & Maz welcome back its good to have you both on here im always up for a chat hehe.Well Ladies today i finally had a D&C yeh it seems i still had after birth still stuck in me so now its OVER :dance:i feel so happy that i can now move on.So my next plan is getting rid of this bleed asap and hoping my next AF will come super soon so i can start a new IVF cycle.

Hi Mumof6.....Babe just take it slow,im here if you want to talk about anything.

Sorry to hear of all your troubles Dearmum, I'm so glad they have worked ou why you were still bleeding.Here's hoping AF comes soon for you darl.

Dearmum so glad things are finaly moving along for you and you can start the next chapter...

Waggers - because I live in Tassie I organised to have DH test the same day as the app for the reversal. By the time of my app DH results were in so that saved a bit of time for us and we were put on the list that day so as soon as your DH gets his results a think you will go onto the list. Did they ask you about going in at short notice if someone has to cancel ? If not just mention it to them when your there next. All the best and :pray: your wait is a short one.

Hey Maz, my Mum`s and my nephew`s b`days is the 3rd aswell. I have to have another scan between 32 and 36 weeks to check size as DS#2 was 10lb11oz, I had been booked in for a c/s but he decided to come before my op date... I was so scared, it was hard but we finaly got there and all was ok.... but truth be told if I have a choice I will chose c/s rather than bad labour = emergency c/s.. time will tell I guess.
Great pics Maz, they just grow up too fast dont they.

Em good to hear Robert is getting some help, not many guys would do that. Hope it all turns out the way you want. Take care of yourself.

Hi Kiya, how are you going ?

Luv where are you hun ?

Well I went to the Dr yesterday as I`ve been sick for about a week and I was just getting so run down. And as I already knew it was viral so antibiotics would not clear it up any quicker... so there was nothing she could do. She said "you look exhausted, you need to get more rest" I`m feeling a bit better today so hopefuly Im on the mend.

Well I guess I should go to bed and get that rest she was talking about.:)

Hey Dearmum......glad this is now in the past and you can now move on......can't wait to hear the happy baby dance.....you know where i am, and i am always happy to talk and to listen :-)....cheers kiya

Hey girls.....just wanted to let you know that i have changed my email addy because of DH ex being such a b*tch that she was sending hideous emails.....if you want my new email addy just pm and i will give it to you......i'm still on facebook as it is my new addiction....LOL, so just pm and i will give you my details....so come on over and add me as a friend :-) there is no such thing as having to many friends...LOL cheers kiya

I gotta lot of catching up to do...lol

Dear MUM...**** are you alright woman? (All the swear words under the sun)

I SOOOOOOO want another baby :( but I had my tubes taken out when I had Mateauz cause the last 2months of my pg were the worst of my life. I dont think I could go down the track of having another baby and being scared the whole time that id end up with another special needs kid. 2's enough for me thanks...so Jo you need to have another.....just for me :ROFL:

As for me...yep I know been slack but I felt like a traiter coming in here after having my tubes removed this time round. Ive also been busy with Mateauz and his pyhsio and appointments plus having Wilhelm at school this year has been a bit nervy for him...very unsettled first 6 months of him trying to cope.

Hi Ladies;)Well i have figured out that im going to be pregnant in Jan yep Jan is a new year and i will have my frozen bub put in on Jan so yep i cant wait.I have been to hell and back this year and now i have put my foot down that nothing else is going to go wrong and i WILL get my baby in 2009.HEHE

Hope you all had a great day.;)

What an ispirational woman you are...to think of the positives instead of the sadness in your heart.

I'll be roaring a chant for ya babe.....September born babies are beautiful :)

Dearmum......that is awesome news......time to look forward and ten things will all start to fall into place.....kiya

Hi everybody

The count down to christmas is on(So i keep getting reminded every morning!)
Onemore i dont have anymore appointments with them, they just said to get DH test done but he told me not to rush just make sure its done before the operation as its just a formality. But then when i call to get his appointment and ur number the nurse told me i go on waiting list once his results are back, so i really not to sure what is happening, wheather im being put straight on or not?

The Doctor told me he was going to book me himself then the next day in the mail i got the forms from the booking office at RWH and told to send them back within 5 days. He told me that due to having kids already with same husband and being 28,fit and healthy i wouldnt be waiting too long. He said worst case would be 12months but that's if a heap of emergency cases come in which he said unlikely.

I left there pretty confident, He wasnt interested in any test on myself or anything like that, which i thought was a bit weird. Did you have to have tests? Now im a bit confused because i dont have any follow up consultations. Oh who knows i think im stressing over nothing!!

Wow Waggers......i'm startign to think i should go down there, but realistically it is a waste of time for me because of the damaged tubes hence having to have IVF.... Us up here in Qld are not so lucky at having a reversal done on the public system as the only hospital that DID, is no longer accepting patients and i found that out personally after waiting 6 months for my appointment. It sounds like things could be happening for you darl.....grab the moment when it comes. cheers kiya

Waggers, I had no tests done, neither did DH, even though we'd never had kids together before. But I went private & I only met the dr the day before the op.
Glad he was nice LOL.

Hope you're able to get in quick for your op, I wish I had know about getting it done for free when i had it done though.

Dearmum, you go girl:dance::dance: glad your looking forward, you are such a strong woman.

Waggers I had to have a full blood test and DH had to have his test which we had done all on the same day. I was 28 when I went for that first appoinment too and with the same partner with which we already had 2 children but he still had to have the test because if his swimmers wer`nt up to scratch then the reversal would prob not be worth doing. I did`nt have any other appointments after that first one so dont stress about that.
If I were you I would get those papers done and get DH test done and take it from there. Don`t worry about yourself not having the bloods done but maybe ask them at the reproductive department... they seem to know more about things than the Dr`s do.
I think you will have had the op before 12 months, If you havn`t heard anything after 6 give them a call and see how your progresing up the line...
Hopefully you wont have to wait too long. Try not to stress !!!! it will happen, all the best.

Had my 28 week check yesterday, was a bit rushed as there was only one midwife and 5 patients, she had to run through the hep b vac and vitamin k shot which now you have to give consent for and the birth plan and breastfeeding etc etc then she said so if you have any questions you`l have to ask them at your next appointment:doh: I didn`t mind and she was nice. She refered me to physio for the pain I`ve been getting in my hips, they have a hydrotherepy pool which sounds good so might look at having a go at that.

Hi everyone else. Have a good weekend.
xxx

Hi Every one

i read my letter again properly and in says that i have been placed on the list and once they recieve the paper work back they sent me i will be booked in for surgery according to the category the doctor assigned me.

So i supose not to bad, im just a worry wart and have no patience!!, now i just wait.

Thanks for all the advice and support makes me feel heaps better!!

Jodi

From memory i think Luv told me having the reversal is on medicare now or you can claim it all back!!??
Waggers- People ask me the same thing nearly everyday when they hear i have 6 kids "how do you do it". Rules roster and routeen and its really not that hard but you have to know when to switch off and when to chill out. We dont get alot of us time and i probably only get time to shave my legs every six week :lol:but its all good. I love my kids and i love my family. We have a 2002 Pajero(7seats) and a 2004 Ford falcon wagon(8seats) we had the 3 seater ****y seat fitted into the back of the ford. We so want to buy the new Grand Carnival

Oh i forgot to tell you all my little miss is now crawling. She thinks its great that she can get to the back glass sliding door now cause she lays there and licks it :lol:

MMMmmmmm yummy, glass sliding door......that is sooooo cute Em....Breah certainly is growing up fast.....i wont be long and she will be walking

LOl Em, that is so cute!!

Hi Ladies;)Gosh is time going slow....or is it just me that thinks that.

:lol: dearmum, I think it's just you.
I'm scared, in one month my baby will be 2, I can't believe where the time has gone .
And it has been just over 5 years since I had my reversal done.:o

Good Morning Ladies

I think times going slow but thats cause i have a few excititng things to look forward to. Xmas, And then of course the TL reversal. I think now that i know i have to wait its going to seem like forever. I rang yesterday to see if they had recieved my paper work they have and im on the list and im Catergory three so can be any time up to 12 months so lucky impatient me.

Is everyone one prepared for xmas!! I still have a few little nick naks to get and what they liked at the start of the year has changed a bit or they just want 500 million things. that's kids isnt it.

Now that mine are getting older they are starting to want the more expensive thing next year i think im going to have a different approach. Well I hope you all have a great day i have babysitting duties for a friend today. Luck me a house full of noisy kids, music to my ears....:rolleyes:

P.S how do i get the signature at the bottom of the page like you guys?

Waggers

Time is flying by.Ive finished all my christmas stuff is done and hiding under sheets in the garage:pray:they dont find it all. To date it has cost $5200 and thats without the bits and bobs ive grabbed thru out the year. My kids only get one present from santa which is there major present cause im sick of that fat b@stard getting all the credit so the rest we put from us!!!!!

WAG... Go up the top and click on user profile on the left then once the page has opened scroll down on the left hand side to edit signture.....

time is going way to quick!! shiat mateauz is almost 11 months old!!!

I held a 3 hour NB yesterday and didnt even feel clucky like I thought I would...:(

Ive got all my pressies hidden too..in my gardern shed lol but ive got 2 birthdays straight after in January!

Asd for the wait - Jodie - I waited 6 months to get mine down...Jed had to have a toss and throw test ;) and I had to have bloods there and when I Ovulated to see if it was visable to go through with the reversal. We are classed as Highly fertile and the doc's werent surprised that I had fallen pg 3 times with my tubes done.

BBL school run

Hi Ladies;)Well S**T when things go wrong they just keep going,yesterday i came home drove into my garage and ran over my poor cat,farout i was made out to be the killer in the house yeh that was there words OH MUM GOSH YOUR JUST A KILLER YOU KILL EVERYTHING hmm nice hey!then hubby turns around and says yeh.WHF so now i killed my baby?it was a accident,my gosh i felt bad.Anyway she is alive thank goodness but i think she has a broken leg,but if i take her to the vet i know the bill will be 1000s so im hoping it will heal on its own.Ok i have a few weeks left of B*****Y 2008 i cant wait for a new year.

Oh dearmum you have had a rough go:hug: First of all you did not kill your baby so I dont ever want to hear you say that again, although we never understand why, there is a reason we are put through these things. I know how you feel about just wanting the year to end and a new one to begin. 2007 was just the crapiest year of my life after being told my tubes were blocked and I would not get pg then to finaly get that so wanted pregnacy only to loose it. It was a very dark few months for me.
Hang in there, all your dreams and wishes will come true when the time is right and I truly hope it is soon.xxx

Maz they just grow up too fast don`t they.. he is such a cutie.

Yay waggers, great that you are on the list. Hopefuly your wait isnt too long.... the way time flies it will be here before you know it.

How is everyone else ?

Dearmum there kids they have no idea and can be very heartless sometime. My cat cost me 1400 to have him fixed up when he got hit by a car. I payed them half and they let me pay the rest off

Good Morning ladies

Dearmum i really feel for you!! I blamed myself for a long time after having the three kids, that it was my fault that they all came early. I Knew deep down i didnt do anything wrong but i think its human nature to be able to blame someone or something even if it is yourself!!
My DH even went through a stage there after having DD Blamimg himself that maybe was karma comming back to bite him in the but for being a rat bag as a kid. It actually took me this to relise WTF was he thinking thats stupid, then relised i was playing the same blame game.
I Believe we are all given obsticles in life because we are strong enough to cope and handle them. It helps makes us who we are and become better people. I know its not nice what happened but i really hope that you are able to heal and move on as a family and start off a fantastic and wonderfull 2009!! POSITIVE THINKING!!

Well My liitle devil in a dress got three of her christmas presents early due to a really crappy hiding spot i thought was undectecable hahahaha yeah right, she got three carebears in one day for being a lttle **** go figure!! Now i need to get something else for her lucky me. I hate the shops at christmas

Well enough dordleing i better go do some house work, WOOHOO, Not

Have a great day

Waggers:dance:

oh dearmum.....i can so totally relate right now.....i'm sitting here in absolute tears......i left to do the school run this morning and had my 2 PB Collies inside with my eldest son's bitzer dog because someone cut through their chains, so i can't put them on until i get some new chains.....well as the story goes, i get home to find my house totally open and the dogs gone......spent a while whistling and calling them, to go bugger it will start door hopping and in the country it car, to door, to car and so on....well my neighbours said when he got home the local pound was there loading my dogs on the truck......so i headed off down to town in search of my dogs....then while i was waiting to get hold of the pound guy thought i would go next door tot he police station, to report about my house being broken into, to find out that is is now an unmanned station because it no longers has an admin officer.....and that i have to go back home and call the whoop-whoop police (Toowoomba) to tell them that due to my hosue being broken into, my dogs got picked up by the pound......then when i was in town getting milk, a friend of mine came up to me, and said word going around is that you are being set tup....i went WTF.....apparently by getting rid of my dogs, hence the barking, someone can come in a steal my horse....he is worth $10k, but the thing is even if he did get knicked i will find him again easy......we have the livestock squad 10 mins down the road, and my horse is DNA and microchipped.....case solved if that happened.....so now i'm sitting here thinking how the hell am i going to come up with the money to get 3 dogs out, pay for the update on the rego on the 2 collies, and also pay for feeding of all 3 dogs until i can get them out.......i just want to curl up and die right now......so dearmum i am right there beside ya babe.....we will get through this together......kiya

update on dogs and house.....i have been in contact with our solicitor and he said that since someone broke into my house to let my dogs out, to get to my horse, the dogs have in effect been picked up by the pound, i am to get my dogs back without any money being handed over because the intention was to steal the horse....the police are coming out some time today to talk to us, even they said on the phone that they will try to get the dogs back because by the dogs being picked up, they in a sense have left my horse for easy pickings....they also said in a technical way the guy from the pound has removed something from a crime scene being the dogs because my house was broken into to let the dogs out and that is an offense and if proven to be the case he can be charged....even though the dogs were on the other side of my front property gate he came onto my driveway which is still part of my property and removed the dogs....we have our gate set back on our property because of water run off and turning onto the main road.....to turn into my driveway you have to do a really sharp left turn and drive up, hence why we moved the gate up further so you aren't on the road itself while you open the gate......it is all a waiting game now...so here's hoping

Thanks you guys i was having a real bad day,im doing ok now i just want this year to be over so i can look forward to a better year.
I have been thinking about babies and although i can go on without anymore i think i would proberly get down the track and regret not having another one.Did i tell you guys about my oldest son left home?yeh well he is happy now that he is in his own home so now i have a spare room im going to do that up as a nursary,once im pregnant again that is.

Hi Kiya....Babe people are so cheeky hey.I hope you get everything sorted out,this year has been S**T for alot of us.

Hi Waggers....Yeh thanks,i dont blame myself actually but my oldest daughter was saying that i have been killing everything this year and i know her she was meaning that i also killed my baby her brother,i dont think she meant it but it really hurt and i cant believe my hubby agreed with her the idiot.I love my family but they dont hold anything back when they want to say something.

Oh did i tell you guys about my holiday has been cancelled?yeh i have family coming to stay with us on the new year so shoot im going to miss out on Kl and Bali i even payed it off because i booked it myself on the net so i cant get my money back the only thing i could do was change the date so im going in July now.God i needed that holiday.I keep thinking it has to be just a bad luck year for me because nothing is going right.

COME ON 2009:pray:

Glad your feeling better Dearmum but sorry your holiday has been put back...

Kiya mate that just sounds too much over the top... what are people thinking these days? :wall:do you have any idea who is involved ? Man I`d be so ****ed of, I only payed a grand for my horse but if that happened to me lookout... let alone 10 grand and then senimental reasons on top of that...

Hi waggers, my boys are a bit older now so they know better but it does`nt stop them snooping... we have a few prezzies under the tree and they always know if extras have been put there, I dont think they have peeked but they have a look to see who they are for.

My sister rang a couple of weeks ago to tell me she is pg ( she had a miscariage in July)
was so excited and happy for her... but just found out she had a scan last week, she is 6weeks 5days but bubs heartbeat is only 70 which is a bit low... she has to go back to Dr next week then have another scan so I:pray: everything is ok...

Im doing good, getting tired again though.. back to having nanna naps during the day..

take care and chat soon

onemore......we have a pretty good idea who is behind it, as several people have said that this person wants our horse.....heck i don;t even know why she wants it, yes she can ride, but it is a competition horse which my daughter uses, so no use to this other person.

dearmum.....well looks like both our big boys are out on their own.....my soon to be 18 ds is living back in brisbane, and he loves it.....he now has a job, so his independence has grown even more.....start planning the nursery babe, it will be a way for not just you, but the rest of the family to think positive about having another baby.

as far as the cops etc.....when hubby got home today before it poured with rain, he went down and took photos of the 4wd tracks that led up to our house.....he is heading over to the other police station tomorrow with the camera to show him and to also tell them that the dogs were taken at the same time my house was being broken into.

time for me to have a glass of wine, and if i was still smoking (7 years today that i quit - cold turkey) i would have one of those too.....might have to sneak one of dh...blah, bugger that it tastes aweful

hugs everyone.....kiya

well i have had a very eventful day......i had to go to another police station to get a case started for last friday.....they couldn't believe that not only my local police didn't respond neither did the whoop-whoop police.....hence going to the next police station in the next town....they also believe that i have been set-up....they will be coming over today to do fingerprinting and take my official statement.....i had to keep my girls home because everything happened over a 2 day period.....my solicitor has now been informed and believes that an injustice has been done by the local council, so thinks i should get restitution for pain and anguish for the dogs being taken the way they did.....myself and the girls have been crying ever since they were taken.....now because of the dogs gone i'm not on panic alert for fear my horse is goign to be taken next....how would i explain that one to my daughter ??? i personally want to move away now and start again new elsewhere.....come on lotto so i can start a new life.....well better head off and finish my kitchen....can;t have the police turn up and have a messy kitchen

kiya, its seems to be all around... i have had a rough time too... hope things get better for you..
dearmum, sorry to hear about the terrible happenings.. i hear you about babies.. i get tied up in knots sometimes when i am in the shops... there is an overflow of pregnant women up here and sometimes i really dislike shopping and seeing them...
maz,...... i thought you dropped off the face of the earth...lololololol glad to see you have returned.. i hope you and your family are good
storm, glad to hear from you as well....
em, sad to hear too.....
waggers, glad to see that things are progressing for you... hope you TR works out
one more,.... excited for you......
well for me... just with the kids.. not much of a chance of another baby atm. messed up cars, and life stuff.. it can drag on for what seems like forever.... if i don't make it back .... A VERY MERRY HAPPY EXCITED RELAXING ENJOYING HOPEFUL PEACEFUL CHRISTMAS FOR ALL MY TTC BUDDIES...... AND A HOPEFUL NEW YEAR.!!!!!!!:p

WOW!!! this is bullsh*t.....the police never showed, all they did was call me in the carpark of the shopping centre which is 2 mins away from them, to tell me that they are doing NOTHING!!!!.....then i get a letter from council telling me that if i don't do anything by this Thursday my 2 purebred collies are going to be "dealt with".... now i want them to come and tell my young 8 year old daughter that to her face and my 13 year old daughter, as they are now crying themselves to sleep at night because the dogs slept on their beds at night.....the world is so full of cruel heartless bureaucrats who if you don't earn a certain level of money you are nothing more than a pimple on the bum to them and will treat you as such...sorry for venting girls

Hi Kiya.....Babe i :pray:that things get better for you and your family,i hate all this bad luck we are having.When you think it cant get worse then it does,funny coz on the 1st of Jan i had this feeling that this year was going to be a bad year and dam it was.Thankgod 2009 is not far away hey!


Take care im thinking of you!

OMG Kiya, that is so wrong.
Contact your local MP.Kick up a big stink about it all, it's not right mate.

Hi to everybody, will be back sometime soon to catch up with you all, just flat out atm.

well it appears things are starting to look good and promising.....they guy who picked up my dogs and took them to the pound has been put onto early leave as he admitted to a work mate how he got the dogs.....YIPPEE....finally something is getting done.....we are hoping all goes well to have the dogs home tomorrow....we still have to pay to get them out, but we just want them home......dh has now hit rock bottom over it all as they were his dogs.....we have had them since puppies and they were an anniversary present to him from me, so it has hit him hard......hopefully soon i can have my bed back, as my girls are now in it cuddling because they don;t have the dogs......the lounge has lost its comfy appeal now

Well my 2 collies are now home again a little worse for wear, but they are home none the less. The pound they were in was horrific, just a steel shed with cages and 1 roller door and a personal door. The stench was beyond belief. The dogs came out covered in their own poop and urine, so my son is giving them a bath today. My Subaru Liberty has this foal stench all through it now as dh won't let me use the commodore wagon at the moment as something is wrong with the steering.....so go figure, use the expensive smaller car to get the stinky dogs.....well everyone is happy now.....still a bit sad i couldn't get my son's dog, but she is going to get a new home......well better get the kids ready for school