Please do not feel bad or compare yourself to what others have gone through...What your going through is sad and heartbreaking take the time to realise that and ride the grief through xox:
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Please do not feel bad or compare yourself to what others have gone through...What your going through is sad and heartbreaking take the time to realise that and ride the grief through xox:
Everyone else going through their own crap doesn't make your crap okay. You're entitled to do whatever you need to do to get through. Looking after yourself is important.
I don't want the grief... I want my baby back :-( that pregnancy was probably my last one. It just hurts.
I can't get into my gp until next week :-( she's great but she's just soo busy and I don't want to see a stranger, iykwim?
I wish I was back to my normal self. I hate feeling like this. I have no control over these feelings atm.
:hug: makes sense you want to see the GP you know :hug:
grief is a horrible feeling, and it sounds like you are grieving for the loss of a potential future, not just the loss of what was, IYKWIM?? You have lost a part of you that was important and meaningful, and it makes sense that it hurts.
Unfortunaely I guess **** happens, and feelings come and go in waves, no one can make them go away, but, just like the ocean, the tide will go out for a while, eventually..... :comfort:
Sometimes the feelings are overwhelming, and it feels like you have no choice..... your choices come in what you do and what you think about those feelings.... I know its hard, but sometimes it helps to sit and think about what you can control instead... And what you DO, that's where the control comes in.
I found it helpful to say to myself.... Ill think about it later.... and i gave myself time at night to think - i used a journal, and BB... instead of thinking over and over about it, i would just DO those things I needed to do.. Had to do... - in my case it was work, but maybe a list of things that need to get done around the house or something would help too....
Is there anything you would find helpful from us in here??? Xox
I suppose I just need to vent and bb is the only place I can really do that.
keep venting as much as you need xoxox
Absolutely ;) vent away
glad to listen xx
Always glad to listen to you. :)
Thanks ladies.
I'm going to pop the walls up now. Everything will be fine!
I think.
Hugs pp, the support is always here if you need! Xx
To think I should be 12 weeks today... :-(
Makes me sad thinking what could have been.
PP hugs to you. X
Hugs for you PP, you are in my thoughts often and I hope you are doing ok :)
Hug honey I hope you are coping ok xoxoxo
Yeah, doing ok I suppose.
Apart from (tmi) heavy bleeding (1st real period since my surgery) including large tissuey clots :-(
Yet another reminder. Sigh.
Hugs gorgeous xxxxx
Oh dear lovely PP. :hug: x