My Miracle Baby is gone....

I'm so so so sorry, Diamond. :hug: :hug:

xoxoxoxoxox

Im doing ok at the moment. But its still hard of course.

Thankyou Yas and Mizqtue for sharing your experiences. Its not something any of us should have to go through :(. I think going for a natural m/c would be too hard on me emotionally. I dont know if I could handle seeing it all...so a D&C it must be.

Friday will be so difficult, but afterwards I suppose the healing can begin, somehow.

i hope Friday passes quickly for you, and i'm so very sorry for the loss of your baby xoxo

Oh no honey I am so sorry!! I saw your post about my advice to avoid misoprostol, but didn't realise you were in that situation. Isn't it awful? So unfair :(


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I'm so sorry you are going through this :hug: no one should ever need to experience this :comfort:

Oh Hunny

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oh gosh darling, i am so so sorry. please be kind to yourself but deal with it how you need.
I have too suffered a loss and found absolute comfort in the beautiful words from the gorgeous gals on bb.
look after yourself. Be kind to yourself. cry. smile at the possibilities and hope for the future
x madame x

I am so very sorry :comfort:

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Hi DG,
How are you feeling today? Is the bleeding still light? Can you have the D&C any earlier than friday hun?
Thinking of you and :pray: for you.
Sending you lots of :hug::comfort:
xxx

Today is another bad day. I still cant believe I have had two angels in a row. How is that fair? Yet so many people would die to have what I have and I am so grateful that I got to have my first 2 pgs without care or worry of m/c.

Yas, my bleeding is still off and on, just spotting really and Im not in any pain. My OB is on leave today and tomorrow so he booked it for Friday. Its at the same hospital that I brought my two gorgeous boys home from :(

DG- I know there is nothing i can say that will help....have you had any tests done? Are you requesting any testing on the baby?
Don't ever feel like you can't grieve for the bubs you have lost because you have 2 children- a wise friend said to me that you shouldn't be expected to find comfort for the death of a child in the survival of it's sibling/s.

Yeah, it doesn't sound like it's going to happen on it's own, and i think (just my opinion) that it's best to have a D&C, it's easier emotionally (if anything can be called easy with the horrible circumstances) and your body should settle down and get back to normal pretty quickly.
Its horrible that it's the same hospital :cry: Im thinking of you
Sending you lots of :hug::comfort:
xxx

Yas, My OB said he only does testing after a third m/c, but I will ask him again. He said the reason is most likely cromosomal problems because we had already seen a heartbeat. Thankyou so much for being so caring.

DG- No need to thank me, im just so sorry you have to go through this. I would insist on testing, especially since you will be having a D&C darl- i had that done last time. I was told that she had chromosonal issues blah blah, but insisted on the testing anyway and what do you know? NOTHING wrong with her.
The doctors said 3 m/c to me too after my 2nd, and i went along with that and ended up having another m/c.
I'm not trying to scare you but i'd just insist on it because it's 2 in a row.
I hope your resting and eating lots of choclate and getting big :hug:
I'll keep checking up on you throughout the day hun.
xxxx

Thanks. I am so scared of a 3rd m/c too. Yes I will insist on testing. It must have been so difficult for you to be told she was perfectly healthy. Makes you feel like your body betrayed you. Thats how I feel and I dont even know why I m/c'd. Did they tell you she was a girl from the testing? Im not sure if I want to know the sex, yet at the same time it would be good to know for my piece of mind.

i am so very sorry for your loss :(

sending you lots of love & strength xxx

DG- Yep, they did tell me, but i already knew, the pg was just so different to my sons. It is good to know DG, because then you can name them if you want to....and i don't know, it just helps i think, it helped me anyway.
I had so many tests done, all came back normal, the only thing i had was low progesterone, which is very well the cause of my m/c. My levels this time seem fine though, and im on hormone treatment (progesterone pessaries) so i'll let you know how that goes.
In a way our body does betray us when we m/c, and it's bloody hard and painful. Im glad your insisting on testing, i regret that i didn't. I get that some ppl have 1 m/c, i get that it could have had defects or whatever.....but when you have more than 1 in a row....i just think somethings not right.
Hun, there's a thread which has list of tests for recurrent m/c in the Recurrent m/c late loss forum.....I would do a link but i don't know how:p
xx :hug::hug::hug:

so sorry to hear of your loss, take it easy and all the time in the world
xoxox

Oh DG :( :( I'm so very sorry for such a huge loss. Your tiny little baby. :( I really am sad for you :comfort: I've been following your journey and was so happy to see your ticker only a week ago.....and then to read this today, just makes me very sad for you - sorry hun xxx

*hugs* I know your pain, and I send you courage to get through it. I'm so sorry

:( So, so sorry...:(