SO ~ :(

Oh Nae :( I'm so sad for you. What a cruel world we live in at times. I can't imagine how painful it must be for you. Sending you lots of cyber hugs and light, love and hope xxx

I'm so sorry Nae :hug: so very sorry

Oh no, my heart literally sank when I saw this :hug: I'm so sorry.

So sorry honey.

So sorry hun :( :hug:

I'm so sorry Nae :comfort:

So sorry to hear your sad news. Life is just plain cruel sometimes :(

:hug: Oh Nae, I am so sorry :(

So sorry to hear this. :comfort:xx

I wish it weren't true :( If you need a change of scenery, or some company, I'm around over the weekend (and going to Kongwak market if you need retail therapy), just me and the small girl. You getting much solace from pony therapy?

:hug: :comfort: I'm so sorry to hear xoxoxox

Nae :hug: So sorry for your loss

FYI - I know a good GP in the city who will run all the tests you want. She once told me making a woman wait until she's lost 3 babies is sadistic (I agree). Anyone who says otherwise needs their head read.

So sorry to hear this sad news. Not fair.

It isn't fair at all Nae. I'm so so sorry.

so so very sorry nae
sending super squishy hugs ur way

Aww Nae, I'm so sorry :hug:.

Oh Nae :(

I am so so sorry hun, life can be so cruel, lots of love and hugs :hug: :comfort:

oh nae, my heart breaks for you hun.

big squishy hugs!

:hug: Im so sorry:hug:

So sorry :hug:

Really not fair! I'm so very sorry hun :hug:

My cousin lost a baby late last year, and now I don't know if she'd lost some before (she didn't say and I'd like to think she'd have felt comfortable enough to tell me that sort of thing), but she had tests to find out why she lost that one, and was satisfied with the answer (a virus going round her DS's creche at the time affected the foetus). I suspect that she got her tests because she's a researcher in the medical field and exerted some 'pull' with her PhD tag, if there's supposed to be some sort of 'qualifying' criteria for these tests. And if that's the case, then that stinks (good for her, unfair for everyone else).

:hug: Sorry, NaeNae xx

:hug: :hug: I'm so very sorry for the loss of your gorgeous angel.

oh nae i am so very sorry :(

I'm so sorry Nae :hug:

I have had one mc (in October) and my ob (private) did all the mc tests on me and the foetus even though it was my first and I have had a successful pregnancy. Turns out I might be coeliac ( gluten intolerant) which has strong links to mc and may have been triggered by my previous pregnancy/birth. I hope you can get some answers and don't have to go through this heartbreak again.

hun im very sorry,thinking of you and big hugs

Oh Sweets, I'm so sorry, it's just not right that this happens.......... Sending you all my love & support. x

I'm so sorry Nae. :hug:

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Thank everyone, its odd, if I hadn't retested at the beginning of the week I would never had know I was UTD. The oddest part about it the last time I was miscarrying was when Vic had those horrid bushfires ..... this time there are floods ..... I just hope after yesterdays major outburst, DH wants to get cracking again straight away, hopefully we will have the same luck of conceiving straight away like we did when we fell in with DD.

:hug: hun, wishing you all the best should you both agree to TTC ASAP, we are all here for you.

:hug: I hope you can get some answers hun, life is so unfair sometimes

That sux mate... I'm really sorry :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

how are u travelling gorgeous?

im so sorry this has happened to you again.

Life can be so cruel sometimes.:hug::hug:

Nae its a strange world and Im still sad you have had to go through this again, was it very early hun how many weeks were you if you dont mind me asking! I wish they would do some checks for you to find out! it could be something really simple that may be baby asprin or pogesterone would sort out for you! have you ever tried MACA it helped me get pregnant this time round it just was not happening other wise.

Im sorry sorry for you honey. Like can be so cruel some times *hugs* xxx

I'm so sorry :( :hug:

Oh, Nae, heartbreaking, my love. That is truly unfair.

Hope you are coping OK.

Hey Everyone,

if you take it from my last period I would have been 7 weeks so yep really early, The bleed didn't happen around AF time which is a new thing as my other 2 m/c the bleed occured when I was due for AF.
TBH I have been really angry the last few days, woken up angry, been a real turd to DH and DD ...... but today I have woken up in a better place. Still in a LOT of pain and cannot take good pain killers coz I am still BF DD and the bleeding is still very heavy but my headspace is much better.

I guess I knew it would happen deep down, the timing was way off in terms of DTD and O, ok so enough to fall preggers but not for a sticky one. I had thought that because I was still BF that had some part to play, maybe it did, who knows but IF it was time for me to be a mum again then it would have stuck right?!

We are going to make an effort to try for a boy, if I get another girl, well too bad really .... but we are not going to wait as someone once sid the best time to TTC is straight after a MC because the lining on the uterus is really thin so makes inplantation better? I don't know if thats true or not but I am convinced thats how we got DD.

Anyway I am waffling,

Yes in a better headspace today, cool and rational, physically still in a lot of pain and feeling blah but definately in a better headspace :grouphug:

Thanks so much everyone, I don't think I could get through these things without you all x x