what happens now?

Good to get some food into you Em - everything is worse on an empty stomach. Glad to hear your DH is going to be with you - you'll need him. Take it easy over the weekend and be gentle with yourself.

KitFaeire - lol - the banana pancakes!!!

Alice x

The Dr said the hospital would contact me about tomorrow- because I don't even know where to go and what time they want me there, when they want me to start fasting etc. So am a bit annoyed at the moment I like to know in plenty of time so I can prepare myself, rather then rocking up on the day lost and late and them somehow them not even knowing I was coming or something. Sorry just had to get that off my chest, if they were to contact me when would they do it? I don't want to have to call them because I hate feeling stupid and them making me feel stupid.

Maybe ring the day surgery ppl specifically? I dont know when they'd call, they might think your Dr has fully informed you. I had to do a 1 hr appt the day before the D&C, they went through med history, height, weight, walked me round and told me what was gonna be happening etc. Unless your already in their system I'd imagine there'd be a lot of info they'd need to get. And it sucks to feel lost and confused when your already lost and confused. I think you should call and find out, if someone gives you attitude, give it right back.

Thanks KitFaerie, I got Dh to ring for me cos I wasn't in the mood to deal with it right now- So he rang, and yep they have no idea about me, but they rang back told me to have an early light breakfast and ring back at 8.30. and that i'm likely to be at the end of there list for the day.

Em, sorry you have to deal with inadequate communication from the hospital.
Thinking of you :hug:

Em.. So sorry for the mix up.. I just wanted to let you know I will be thinking of you tomorrow.. :hug:

Thinking of you today chook :hug: :hug:

my thoughts and prayers are with you Em xx

I've been thinking of you today em.

Thinking of you Em..... Xx

Thinking of you xoxo

Just letting you all know had the D&C and went well, had bleeding that night but only really spotting since, is that normal?

Other then that still trying to deal with the emotional side of things.

Thanks for all your support and advice, has really helped me alot.

Hi Em,

It's good to hear that the D&C went as well as it could of possibly been xx

Sending many many cuddles :hug:

I'm glad it went well, I had spotting for about 6 days, then went jogging which apparently is a bad idea cos I loosened the lining again and spotted for another 7 days. The emotional side sucks, go as gently as you can and so whatever works for you.

I'm glad it went well Em. I had a bit of bleeding when I first got up out of the hospital bed but once I got home, I only had a little bit of spotting for a couple of days, then a bit of brownish discharge - sorry if tmi but that has freaked a few people out!! Rest up, take it easy and be kind to yourself. I hope you have a speedy recovery and get back on the ttc journey again soon. Best of luck.

Kel xx

kellym: that's pretty much what i've had, except last night when I got up to go to the toilet there were a few clots, so i'm hoping that's still ok.

Thinking of you Em xo

:hug:

xoxo

Rest up as much as you can Em and give yourself time with the emotional side of things. It will be very up and down and that's normal. It may also take quite a few weeks before you get your AF and that's normal too. So sorry you've been through this.

Alice x