That really sux!!! I am glad to hear your partner has processed everything and come around. I hope that means you might really start trying now!!! Goodluck!
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That really sux!!! I am glad to hear your partner has processed everything and come around. I hope that means you might really start trying now!!! Goodluck!
Thanks everyone.
I'm completely gutted. I wanted to be pregnant so badly. The worst thing is I feel pregnant. I did a HPT this morning, and even though it was fainter than Saturdays, it was still there. I guess the mind is a powerful thing and I've tricked myself into having early pregnancy symptoms. Still no AF either.
DH doesn't really get why I'm so upset which makes it harder. I really felt like this was my last shot as he's been adamant he doesn't want any more kids. My son who is nearly 8 desperately wants a brother or a sister too.
Thanks for the vent ladies.
Honey you didn't trick yourself, we all saw the line too, it's almost impossible to get false positives, especially more than one :hug: it sounds like u had an early miscarriage :hug:
I think you are right Jaycee.... we all saw a pink line, it could be a chemical or early MC. Take Care xx
Thanks girls. I'll wait for the dreaded AF to arrive now!
so sorry that you went through all that hun.. big big :hug:'s
This.:
I didnt include it in my previous post because I didnt want to stress you out and it wasnt really relevent. But your experience sounds very similar to mine-
BFP on the Friday
Loads of symptoms
Started bleeding Mon (4 days after AF was due)
2 pee tests at the doctors were neg
Tues did a FRER which came up as a very faint positive.
I havent gone back for the bt results yet. But I already know the answer so Im not really feeling like I need to do it right away. Its just a formality now.
You didnt invent those symptoms. They were real. You were pregnant even if it was only for a short amount of time and it is more than ok to grieve your loss. Please dont bottle it up.
Loads of gentle hugs and love coming your way. We're all here to listen if you need to talk.
Thank you Calluna xo
I feel like I'm going crazy. The AF pains have gone away, nothing is happening down there. My boobs are still so sore, I'm still nauseous etc. Why do I still feel pregnant? Its so cruel! I just hope AF would hurry up and show up so I can be done with all of this :(
:hug:
I'm sorry to be obsessing and annoying you all with every little thing, and I'm sorry if this is TMI, but I just went to the loo and had this huge amount of clear jelly like stuff when I wiped. It had a very slight browny/red tinge to it. I've never had this before. Just wondering if anyone knew what it was?
I had small amounts of jelly like stuff. Just thought it was some wierd thing my body was doing. No idea what it is though, sorry. Mm, maybe I'll Google it...
With my first pregnancy, I was getting negative HPT's even 4 days after AF was due. Blood test came back with a HCG level of only 21 - technically it's NOT POSITIVE if it's under 25. My doc told me I was pregnant. I miscarried 2 weeks later.
There was a line. I really think something was going on.
I'm so SO sorry you had to go through this **hugs**
Thank you xo
Still no AF or cramping. Still have sore boobs. I have no idea what's going on!
Do you think I should test again?
All I can find about the jelly like stuff is that perhaps it was the plug forming.
How are you doing today?
How late is AF?
Three weeks late now!
I would go back to the GP and ask for another blood test and an ultrasound to see whats going on. If its going to be a long wait ask them if they can squeeze you in. They usually keep a couple of appointments free for emergencies.
Im sorry its been such a drawn out process. Limbo sucks :(
Yes definitely test again. There are 2 types of blood tests a Dr can order. 1 will only give a positive result if it's above 25 so your level could be above 5 (not pregnant is less then 5) but under 25 and the results would be negative. Not wanting to scare you but an ectopic pregnancy can have very slow rising Hc. I'm sorry you still don't have any answers
I've made another doctors appointment for Thursday and ill ask for more blood tests and a scan.
They did both types of blood test, however when I called for the results, they didn't give me my hcg levels. Will check that when I go back.
I've tested again. Just a very faint line.
:hug: Thinking of you.
Hi ladies,
Still no AF. Have been to the doctor this afternoon. He told me my HCG level last week in my blood test was 2. I've had more blood tests and I'm going for a scan on Monday. He thinks it might be polycystic ovaries.
:( :hug:
have you had a pap smear in the very recent past? my friend had a very similar thing happen, she was getting positive preg tests, neg blood tests and she the had a pap smear and they found pre-cancerous cells. I don't want to alarm you in any way, but I have never heard of false positive tests before except in my friends case.:
fingers crossed they find the reason why all this is happening :( :hug: :comfort: :hug:
Maybe, if nothing else, this is making your DH rethink his stance on no more children. When it all settles down, you should sit down with him and explain just how much this has made you realise you want another baby. If that's how you feel. :hug: So sorry your hopes were dashed so quickly. That sucks.:
Quick update - I've got all my results back. It seems I'm perfectly healthy. Everything on the scan and blood tests was normal. The doctor seems to think I have sleep ovaries and am not ovulating. Still doesn't explain the BFPs, but after going through all this, I think DH may have changed his mind about more children!
False positives are extremely rare. I would think its unlikely if you got more than one. Especially from different batches.
The doctor at the hospital tried to tell me I was never pregnant. 2 positives from 2 different batches 4 days apart is very very unlikely imo. Not to mentiom all my symptoms.
Dont let them invalidate your experience if it doesnt suit you. (It really hurt me to be told my miracle never existed.) If you believe in your heart you were pregnant then you were. Pregnancy is so much more than physical. It is hopes, dreams, promises, love. No disbelieving doctor can take that away from you.
Of course if you think they may be right, then that is fine too. Whatever you believe is what matters.
I hope you can have a talk with your DH and come to an agreement. :hug: