Ummm look at what has happened

YAY Michelle!! Congratulations on your BFP, I'm so stoked for you :)
Can't wait to keep up with your pregnnacy journal.
Wishing you a fantastic H&H pregnancy

Nic

great news Mooshie. I had been quietly watching your TTC journey and it is great to see a happy ending.

Congratulations Michelle!

OMG Moosh!! Thats fantastic news :dance: I'm so so happy for you guys. All the best for a H&H pregnancy - i'll be keeping an eye out for your preg journal :D

OMG Mooshie I practically fell off my seat when I saw you posting this!!!


Woohoo it is fantastic news and I'm thrilled for you and your family. Wishing you all the best for a H&H pregnancy - humungous congratulations my dear!!!!!

Congratulations. I am so happy to hear that your expecting.

Wishing you all the best. xo

oh thank you so much girls you don't know how much this means to me. i am posting here to say i won't be around for a few days, i have a lot of decisions to make. unfortunately my dh hasn't taken to the news well at all. it is absolutely confused the hell out of me, we were actively ttc since july 05 taking temps, opk's and bd all the right times etc etc. then when a few months back, we both well probably be me moreso decided that i had accepted things and that i would get on with enjoying what we have, i guess my dh thought that means that it would be impossible for me to every fall pregnant. he says he supports me either way, wtf does he mean. he says financially and emotionally it has come at the wrong time and if it had of happended 6 - 12 mths ago he would be happy, however if i decide to continue with this pregnancy and why the hell wouldn't i think anything different not to then that we will have to sell our house and financially we could not bring up another child.

i cannot believe the way he has been with me the past 24hrs i am guttered, there is alot more to it, my husband is an alcoholic, who of course believes he isn't and he apparently doesn't have a problem, but really most of our financial woes do come about from him spending approx $100 pw on alchol. things got pretty heated last night and he actually slapped me across the face 3 times. it is not pretty here at all.

i have been to see my gp and have been in touch with the royal womans pregnancy counselling service and am also waiting on a call back from the domestic violence people.

so either way i am going along with this alone, i have been through so much in the last 10yrs and i don't know why things like this are happening to me. my dh says our marriage is through (we have been married for 14 yrs), he said some pretty cruel and nasty things along with alot of childing things. i wish to god right now that i never met the bastard he has not only emotionally abused me over the years but it looks like now he thinks he can raise his hand.

ladies keep me in your thoughts please and send strong messages to this little bub (who i have a strong feeling is a little boy) i am getting help and i have alot of support around me, i will be taking a break for a few weeks from here and will come back soon.

thanks again your wishes have brightened up my day

Dammit Mooshie - after all this.
All my prayers and love are yours right now. Whenever you need support, we are here to boost your strength. You just hang in there hun, this bub is a definite blessing and maybe it was enough to get the moron out of your way so you can feel safe and raise your children in happiness and not fear. Whatever you feel is best, is always right.
:pray: :hug:

Oh mooshie. I am so sorry honey. No woman EVER deserves to be treated like that. Goodluck honey I personally think you are right to leave him if he is going to treat you like this. This child deserves love and a gentle environment to grow up in and I know you will do your best. We support you honey and we are here to do whatever we can to help you sweety!

Awww Michelle :hug: You poor poor chook. I can't believe he's being like this now after everything that's happening, it's just not right :( I hope everything works out well for you guys & if not, we're all here for you if you need a (cyber) shoulder to cry on.

Thinking of you Michelle. It's an awful situation for you to be in. I hope that with all the help and support around you that you can get through this horrible time and out the other side into a nicer place with your precious children.
Take care :hugs:
Julie x

Oh Michelle... :hugs:
I am so glad to hear you have made some contact with support agencies. This type of behaviour isn't okay and you should not be subjected to it. I hope you can find some clarity through all of this and make the decisions that are right for you and your son. Know you have lots of support in here. Please keep us posted with how you are. You will be in my thoughts... :hug:

congratulations and all the best!

Oh my goodness :happyforyou:
What fantastic news! I am so over-the-moon for you Michelle. It seems like so long ago that we were TTC together - I am thrilled for you that you have finally had your previous BFP. All the best for a wonderful pregnancy :hug:

ETA: I'm not sure how I missed your second post Michelle. That's terrible to hear that your DH isn't really accepting of this this little miracle of yours. I'm worried about you, I hope that things don't escalate between you and your DH and you can get the help you need from the services you have contacted. Stay safe love ... and stay safe for your little one.

Congratulations Michelle hope you have a happy and healthy pregnancy

Oh michelle... I am just shocked! I'm so very sorry that he has reacted and treated you this way.
Sending lots of hugs your way
thinking of you....

Nic

Michelle hon, I was so so pleased to hear that that elusive BFP is finally yours. I am so sorry that things are so rotten with you and your DH. I really hope things sort themselves out. Hugs to you.

Mooshie - great news about the BFP not so good news about DH!
Hope everything sorts itself out & that you come to some decisions in the next few weeks that you are happy with. All the best on your journey & what will be will be! Take care.

Oh Moosh i'm so sorry that you and the kids have to go through this. My thoughts are with you and i hope you manage to get it all sorted very soon, so glad you have contacted the agencies for help. We're here if you need to chat, take care :hug:

YAY congrats that is awesome news! Just fantastic. Am so happy for you about your pregnancy. I am glad you are getting help and support, my thoughts are with you and hopeful things will sort themselves out for you soon.

Congrats Mooshie
As for the trouble your DH is causing...... you can do with out it. Take it from someone who knows. Keep your chin up and don't back down. Take your precious children and be safe.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Michelle, sending you big hugs. I'm so happy for your pregnancy but upset to hear your latest news. You're a brave and strong woman - and I'm so glad you've made contact with those supports. :hugs:

OMG Michelle, hun I am so sorry that this has happened. How dare he raise his hand to you. I'm glad that you have contacted some services about this and I hope that you can work things out either with DH or on your own. I'm so sad for you because you were so happy and excited, and so you should be. Do not let your husband get away with any of this, he must be held accountable, alcoholism or not. If you worry that he might hurt you again you must get out of there, show him that his behaviour will not be tolerated one bit and if he wants you to come back then he can bloody well sort himself out.

Huge :hug: to you hun, we're all here for you.

Michelle, I've got tears in my eyes for you! Congratulations on your pregnancy.

You know what I do for a living. If you feel like you need some advice or want to chat about ANYTHING, please PM me and I'm happy to chat.

Good on you for getting referrals to the DV support services, they're wonderful. Also the Women's Legal Service might be able to help you out in the interim.

Best wishes. Thinking of you. Remain strong for yourself and your children. YOU are worth EVERYTHING and deserve only the best.

OH no Moshie :hug:

I hope you can work it out, and the support agencies are able to help you.

Ohhh Michelle - I can't believe I missed this post! My head has seriously not been with me this past week!

I am so happy to read about your announcement, but saddened by your DH reaction.. Huge Hugs, and just know we are all here for you in anyway possible

Michelle,
Congrats on your pregnancy... funny how things work out.

I just hope all ends well and you are all happy and stress free!!
Good luck and know that we are here for oyu.

Tanya

well i just want to once again thank everybody in the bb community for their happiness and concern for me.

it looks like my life has taken another turn for the worst. i have started bleeding today, i am absolutely guttered, i am 5wks and 1 day. i have rung the counsellor i spoke to yesterday and i am to go in to the royal womans hospital tommorrow morning for an ultrasound. but in my heart i know that this baby is leaving me, he will not become part of our lives but instead he has chosen to be with his big sister in heaven. i am absolutely guttered, my dh doesn't know i am bleeding yet, i will tell him tonight. i keep thinking maybe it is just a break through bleed but it seems to be to heavy for that. i guess is it any wonder the amount of stress i have been in the last few days certainly could not have helped.

i feel so empty, so useless and so like i just don't belong anywhere. where to from here, i guess it is a sign for me to stop wanting another child so badly and to continue on with this ****ty life i am living, oh i don't know anymore what to do i am so over it. feels like i am on the outside looking at someone else's life. what in the world have i done to deserve the pain and heartache i have had to endure over the last 10 years. my first ever pregnancy ended at 11wks (blighted ovum) 2nd pregnancy resulted in a beautiful daughter, whom was cruelly taken away at the age of 3 as a result of a brain tumour, i am thankful for my georgous 2 children who are with me my son (7) and my daughter 2 1/2) and now this my probably in all honesty my last chance at having another child - gone, ripped away from me.

it hurts like hell.

once again thank you to all the bb community, over the last few days you have given me strength to fight this with my dh, and also to get support over my grief and also to just offer the kind and wonderful words of encouragement.

thank you

oh Michelle....I am so sorry to be reading this. I truly hope that god will keep your baby safely in your womb.

Best of luck with the scan tomorrow but do remember it may be still too early to see anything. :hugs:

oh Michelle I am so deeply sorry, I am praying for you that this is just a break through bleed, I wish I knew what to say to you sweetheart, please know I am thinking of you.

Congratulations !!! Wishing you a H&H pregnancy!!!

Oh Michelle, I am so sorry hun to hear more bad news from you. But don't give up yet, there is hope that your little one will be ok. Lots of girls have had bleeding and then gone on to have that child. I don't belive it is a sign at all, sometimes bad things just happen, even to good people. You don't have to keep on living a $hitty life at all. You are in charge of your life hun, go out and do what's right for you and your children and if that means leaving your husband then so be it. Take charge of the rest of your life and don't give in to the $hit. Great big bear cuddles for you.