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Hi ladies - just wanted to tell you that you are not the only ones who get pg like symptoms and turn out not to be pg. I've been like that since my m/c in March. With me thought I find I get them in week 3 of my cycle so I guess they are O signs and then they start to disappear as the 4th week progresses. Our bodies are capable of very strange things.
Hi Renstar,
i have spent the last two dasy comforting others that have had AF arrive too so that in turn has helped me.
How about you? My AF goes for about 6 days so a couple more to go and i can start planning the next month. But like you i have some distractions for the next couple of weeks. We are moving house. Everything always happens at once doesn't it. All or nothing. I will be ovulating, and moving house at the same time. We have allowed ourselves a week to to it though and don't have that much stuff really. I dread packnign to come home eventually. Daniel, hubby, was a bit homesick today. It has just started hailing. God my brain is scatty today!!!
Take care sweet.
Jodie, Hippy Mum
Hi everyone,
Back on line after week away. My lovely MIL has dial up internet and I have no patience with that I'm afraid so I haven't postered in a while.
AF came just like you all. Looks like the ovulation prediction kit was incorrect? i had a positive for ovulation but i must of ovulated 2 days later. Having said that, we still did it around the actual time so bad luck again I guess. I have decided to have an ultrasound anyway seeing as it was a completely different cycle to usual. last year I thought I was pregnant because I had a very different cycle and 10 days of heavy AF - possible miscarriage so I booked in for an ultrasound and they found a cyst on one of my ovaries. If you don't have good ovaries I figure you are really up the creek hence the ultrasound this time for peace of mind. Once AF arrived I got NO more period like pain. She has been very good to me so after two sad days I am fine now - this is also great and unusual.
Renstar and Jodie, I feel for you both, so sorry it wasn't your time either. I am going to write some more in my TTc journal. Might catch up with you in there? Moving and weddings - sounds like you are both busy - it is good to have something else to think about isn't it? On our short holiday up to Bris my sister, best friend and SIL are all pregnant - it was very hard not to think about it.....
Mich
Hi Michellew,
Sooo sorry AF arrived for you... good luck with the U/S... hopefully that will give you some answers..? I hope you get a BFP very soon... you sound like you so desperately want a baby you poor thing... i believe it will happen if thats what you truly want...
I'm not too disappointed because we weren't actually TTC just yet anyway... we were still using condoms thats why i thought if i was pregnant then i must be terribly fertile!!! (although even using condoms ppl fall pregnant hey??)So we are TTC August... i'm very excited and looking forward to it but i understand like some, it may take me a while to conceive. i have always been healthy and touch wood, never had problems "down there" so as far as i know I have healthy fertility...i s'pose you never really know unless you start trying hey? As women, growing up, we always presume we will just have babies because thats what women do right? We just have babies? Who ever thought it would be so hard for some ppl to be able to have something that is their birth right? I believe EVERY woman should be able to conceive, it's not fair that some can and some can't.... I pray that you will have a BFP when you least expect it Michelle :) You deserve it matey... I will be thinking of you... let us know how the scans go?!
HippyMum - sorry i forgot to reply to you!! My AF lasts 4-5 days since coming off BCP's so i'm happy! They used to be 6 days before BCP's and whilst on them (i think?!) I'm just about finished AF and looking forward to "O" time this month. another 12 days i think... we arent TTC until Aug/Sept. GOOD LUCK MOVING HOUSE!!!!!! It's a big job isnt it!!! I hope you get some time to DTD in between lifting those boxes!!!!!!
Sorry to hear. Theres always next month. Good luck:)
Hi Babi Gurl, A belated Congratulations on your BFP. Great news and Thanks for the luck for next month.
Mich, i will chech out your journal and say there, but just quickly, a scan sounds like a good idea to make sure all is good. If there is a cyst, what then? I am so sorry babe for AF arriving, next month, next month. see you in your journal.
Restar, Don't worry i don't feel forgotten, it is full on to stay up with it all, i spend a few hours a day sometimes looking at the threads. As for moving house, i have found a positive, we get to Christen the rooms in the new flat!! hee hee, could be fun. Although, there are only 3 rooms, might have to get creative!!
Ha hee ee!
You are so right with what you say and so kind to recognise it. Seeing the stories you see on this website, you will be much better off than not, for when you start trying. I hope to god that you have no troubles. It would make me so happy to hear that you fall straight away. YEs, you need to be prepared but pleanty of people don't have problems so don't worry yourself and cross that bridge when you come to it. If by chance you do have issues, we will equally be here for you no matter what!
Take care and speak soon.
Love hippy mum
Thanks Hippy Mum :) Enjoy the new house... ;) hehehehhe
Renstar,
only 1 in 6 couples have trouble conceiving so think positively. there is no reason from the sounds of it for you to have any problems. I wouldnt wish what I am going through on anyone (I'm sure you'd agree Hippy Mum). Every time AF comes I am reminded of my miracle DD and appreciate having her all the more!
Hugs,
Mich
Hey MichelleW,
Nah, I'm not worried at all :) My mum fell pregnant straight away with me and my 2 sisters and so did my sister she had no probs either so i should not have any probs at all ... (fingers crossed)... i'm saying to myself okay... it may take 1-6mths... anything after 6mths for me i'll start worrying.... I really want 3 or 4 babies so I have to start soon!!! ;) I'll be right hehe
Babydust to you!!!!