hun i had ms (severe nausea) until the day DD was born - we went ot hell and back to get her, and when i wasn't enjoying my pregnancy, i felt like crap even more than the MS did - BUT, a friend asked me why i should ignore feeling *****, just because i'd been to hell and back to fall pregnant? and she's right. you shouldn't have to pretend like this part of being pg doesnt suck just because you fought to fall pregnant. it sucks! really it does! and you're allowed to be unhappy with it. doesn't mean you don't want to be PREGNANT, just means you don't want to feel crap - and who'd blame you for that?