very upset...but is there any hope?

:hug: em hun, I am so sorry to hear this. Thinking of you sweetie

thanks everyone for all your hugs and support.

Just rang Dr's clincic, the lady was so rude- like have a bit of tact and niceness it aint that hard! I got of the phone crying and feeling sick to my stomach- it's not like I need to be treated rudely at this time. Anyway I asked if the Dr has seen my ultrasound report yet- she checked and said I will have to get the dr to ring you for this one. So now I wait until I get the cal I guess.
I tried to stay in bed, hoping to stay there all day to waste my birthday away but nope i just toss and turn. so figured I'd just get up and pace the house.

I just don't get it, the spotting has stopped...my goodness I want to give every other person who has ever had to go thru this a big hug because it's bloody tough!

fingers crossed, I hope the news is positive xo

Love to you xxx There's no reason for staff to be rude and insensitive, and you'd think that working in a dr's office they're be ESPECIALLY nice ... and then they're not.

:comfort: em I'm so sorry. I hope you have good family to lean on for support. Take care of yourself :hug:

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Em I'm so sorry you're going through this. I have no advice, I really don't know a thing about this stuff. I just wanted you to know I'm thinking and :pray: for you. :hug:
It must be hard, but try to have a great day today.

Em, I am sorry you are going through this :( I wish there was something I could do. I know we haven't met but if you need someone please pm me.


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Tanya

I'm so sorry you have to endure this :( Hopefully the dr will call back with some positive news. And you could always get a second opinion just to be sure.

big hugs for you, rest up, try to relax (i know its hard). Sending positive vibes your way.

Em, :hug: I am so sorry you're having to go through this
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Em.....I'll be thinking of you today

Just remember, although I know it must be tough that today is still a happy day as it's the day you arrived in this world!

Em - Happy Birthday babe.........I know today is such a tough day for you, I have been there myself, the waiting is an absolute KILLER. Try and keep busy and do not be afraid to ring them back if you haven't heard from the Dr in what you consider is a reasonable timeframe.

The Dr rang me back and thinks it will pass, he asked me what I wanted to do. I said i want to wait it out (because i'd prefer for it to pass naturally- plus don't want to go to the hospital to have a D&C where I used to work!). I also asked if I could have another U/s in a week- he said if nothing has happened between now and then I could. He has also given me some sick leave (of course! i'd be suprised if he didn't give me any!), and after that runs out i will probably resign- for reasons that its probably not a good place for me to be working in the near future and also because DH told me I have to.

I'm so glad I have BB because without it i'd feel so much more lost then I already am.

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Em,

Just wanted you to know that i'm thinking of you and sending you big hugs right now. I pop by now and then to check on how the former 6 month TTC girls are doing.

You and are in my thoughts. Hang in there babe!

:hug: Em, I am so sorry you are dealing with this, especially on your birthday.

What a difficult time for you and your DH.

em :hug:

You are right - it is bloody tough and i am so, so sorry that you are going through this.

Please take care and be kind to yourself. We are all here for you !

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xoxo

Oh and it's your birthday too!
So sorry :hug:
Take care of yourself