HUGE hugs hun :hug::hug::hug: The person at the dr's didn't need to be rude
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HUGE hugs hun :hug::hug::hug: The person at the dr's didn't need to be rude
Em- so sorry you have to go through this. Be kind to yourself!!
so sorry em
i had a lot of problems when i was 6 weeks pregnant they said that it had attached to high near my tubes and they didnt know if they could allow it to go on,had so many scans and 'the big' doctors were sent my scans to review and they said it was ok to continue
it was the worst wait and i know what ur going through in a way
i hope it all turns out ok for u, pls keep me updated
More :hug: for you xo
Oh Em hunny.
I am so very sorry this is happening to you, especially today.
:hug: :comfort: :grouphug:
Thinking of you. :hug:
Em, I'm so sorry to hear...sending you heaps of hugs and thoughts at this time. :hug: :comfort: :grouphug:
oh em... I'm so sorry. :hug::comfort:
If there is anything I can do, please let me know
:hug: so sorry you didnt get better news :(
Thinking of you & please be kind to yourself.....
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Will be thinking of you hun :comfort: no one deserves to go through what you are going through xxoo
Em i'm SO very sorry your having to go through this :hug:
Thinking of you and please be kind to yourself (i know easier said than done).
Many of us on BB have been where you are so just know that you have alot of support here :hug:
I'm so, so sorry to hear. Getting that news about the ultrasound is horrible, I can really relate to what you are going through, its hard and its so unfair.
Em, do contact me if you want to chat, not sure if you know (life has been a bit hazy for the past month) but I had a natural MC in January, would be happy to talk you though it if it helps.
Agh, I hate how it seems so final - I spent a bit of time on the misdiagonised miscarriages website. That was why I was determined not to have a D&C and go natural.
Hope you are ok.
thanks so much everyone, the support means so much!
At the moment still no more bleeding or spotting, it's just so hard. All I can do is sit around all day as i'm to afraid to go out in case something happens why i'm out. Plus I dont feel like doing anything. I haven't even had a shower yet or breakfast- I just don't feel like doing anything. But I will go force myself to have a shower I suppose.
MIL came to visit me for my b'day yesterday- i hid in my room and DH just told her I was sleeping. But I just couldn't handle seeing her right now. DH was great, and at one stage had to tell her to shut up, because apparently she was listing off people who she knows that have had miscarriages- DH didn't want to hear it (HE still thinks its going to be a miracle), anyways she left after that.
Thinking of you xxxx
I am so sorry you are going through this. The waiting is definitely the worst part. The no more spotting is a good sign though, when I miscarried the bleeding kept going and just got worse and worse. I am hoping and praying for you that this has a happy ending and your scan next week give you some good news :pray:
BIG BIG BIG HUGS coming your way em..
I just can't imagin what your going through, but look after yourself and have that relaxing shower!!
I am praying and all fingers crossed for you! You WILL get to hold your beautiful bub in ur arms whether it's this year or another, don't give up fighting and keep talking to all thoes around you cos we are all here for a shoulder to cry on 24-7!!
Xxx
How are you doing today luv? When do you get some more definitive answers? Hope you come back to our Belly Belly thread soon. Feel like I am missing a partner-in-crime in there with both of us having come from the same TTC thread previously. Anyway, sending you all my positive thoughts and I hope that you get some good news. xx
fuzzy: started spotting again, but then stopped. This is seriously getting me down.
Em, I've been thinking of you. I'm so sorry, I wish there was something I could do.
Are there any more tests that can be done at the doctors?
Take care xx
Just wanted to stop by too and let you know I'm thinking of you honey xo
Sorry sweetheart - that sounded like the beginning of one of my losses (the ultrasound result and dating is scarily similar to your results):
I wish you all the best though and miracles do happen :hug: xxx
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So glad your DH is such a rock xoxox thinking of you both
Thanks, somehow i'm thinking there will be no miracles this time- started spotting again. Gosh it's so frustrating.
Dh is trying to cheer me up and wants me to be hapy, but how can I at a time like this? I feel like i'm letting him down also. I feel like such a failure...
Em, I don't think you're a failure. You're an amazing woman!
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Em I can really understand your feelings because the not knowing is the killer. Did the Dr offer a blood test to check if your levels are going up or down? When I had spotting, once the pregnancy was confirmed by an US, my Dr didn't bother with bloods and just sent me to check that the baby was growing with an US. But the other time they did BT's every 2 days to check that my levels were rising. The other thing I did........which might be ridiculous but it did help my sanity was that I took HPT's to see what the lines were doing........
I am so thinking of you and sending you virtual hugs.
more squishy cyber :hug: your way em...
Don't feel like ur letting ur DH down, he just wants you to feel better, but you just keep doing what feels right for you, ok?
HUGE HUGS, please don't feel like you are a failure, there is something not quite right and its not because of you..it's so hard and your DH hates seeing you feel this way and wants to make you happy...getting some answers is what you need, and the only way you can go forward...the waitng is the hardest part.
:hug: :hug: :hug: Still thinking of you hun xxoo
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:hug: sorry em. here any time you need x
hope everything is going ok
You are not a failure Em... As BD said above, something's just not quite right - it's not YOU though babe.
Your DH is a good man, who just wants to see you smile that beautiful smile of yours. He just wants to make you happy and look after you.
I hope you find some answers soon, are you able to call your doctor again maybe to see if there is anything he can do?
Look after yourself :comfort:
thanks everyone...still in limbo, and still spotting (TMI) but no red blood just brown. I haven't got any cramping or anything.
I must have had a stressful nights sleep cos DH told me I was yelling out "where's my baby" i just cried when he told me. The Dr won't do anything until next week. so just more waiting!
oh em :hug:
You know that if its brown then its old blood.. So Im praying that your baby is sticking..
I think you need to see a different doctor.. I also think you should demand blood tests..
Em as hard as it is.. You really need to try and relax. If you can relax it will help your baby.. Have a cool bath and think positive thoughts hunni..
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I cant even imagine what youre going through, but I just wanted to give you a :hug:.
Brown blood is old blood, so hopefully youre out of trouble. I dont know if it will help you, but many of us have had bleeding in early pg and gone on to have beautiful healthy babies. If you need answers now then go and see a Obstetrician, he will give you an u/s on the spot and it may help to calm you down. Please dont think its your fault because it isnt.
I wish you all the best.
You and your bubba are still in my thoughts babe :hug:
DHs like to 'fix' things and make us feel better, we love them because of that, but it is your time to feel sad and you DO NOT have to cheer up/smile/put up a front. you are going through a major time in your life. Maybe just tell him that you need to feel sad right now, but that you love him dearly and his cuddles are wonderful...i think they feel at a loss at what to say or do ITMS.
huge hugs for you babe :hug:
My Dad is coming to visit me tomorrow, Mum wanted to also but couldn't because of work. It's over a 4hr drive so it's nice knowing that Dad loves me that much and wants to support me by coming to visit. Will be nice too cause Dh is working tomorrow- so at least I'm not home alone.
I said something to Dh tonight can't remember what exactly but he replied 'it hurts me too' It was just what I needed to hear because Dh is not an overly emotional person so to say that was very big. And I needed to hear it because I kept thinking why am I the only one upset by this? I guess he just has other ways to deal with it.
Hey hun,
i just wanted to say that i am thinking of you and your DH, its so heartbreaking :(
if i can do anything please let me know.
its so sweet that your dad is coming to be with you, having support and to feel loved when your going through something like this is just what you need.
we are here for you and your hubby hun
thinking of you xxx
em....
Thinking of you and your DH :comfort:
I really hope you get some answers soon !
What a wonderful Dad you have :hug:
xoxo
em, I am sorry I have not posted til now; hearing that you are going through this makes me so sad :cry: I have been praying for you every night honey :hug: I am hoping with every fibre of my being that your bubba is fine...lots of :heartbeat: xox
Just checking in to see how you are doing. I'm glad the spotting is only brown and am still crossing everything for you for good news next week. Your dad is so sweet to come out and be with you.