best wishes to any and all women w complications
The bleeding you describe is frightning and no woman would be able to help stressing about it. I am also pregnant at 13 wks. with bleeding. However, Imagine the fright of bleeding so much that you fill up a toilet and a bath passing clots the size of your hand with 2 inch thickness, thinking you just had to of miscarried. Disbelief, an ultra sound shows the baby just fine, heartbeat and all..but....the placenta looks "funny". I lost a baby late Sept 07. He was 23wks old. They never could explain my bleeding then either. He was born alive and lived for 3 hrs on his own. They refused to transfer me or him, saying it would be useless. Had no neonatal unit. He died not because there was some defect in him, but because his lungs failed. I am amazed everyday of the technology and astounding scientific research but yet have wishy washy answers as to why a woman is bleeding. It is much more common that it used to be. Makes you wonder why, maybe the environment, smoking, diseases..who knows. but you would think you could get a good diagnosis or atleast a cause of death. Back to my current pregnancy, my bleeding episodes all the same, happened 3 times. Then suddenly when I turned 12 wks, it stopped. Havent had any so far, but I do have constant period like cramping. Ultra sound comes this coming wednesday. Since Drs know nothing, I have been forced to educate myself and do a bunch of researching as to why I bled so bad and why other women do to. My findings seem to be that most likely there are placenta problems and uterus issues. Heres the thing. I believe that is why it is so hit and miss with bleeding in women, and it varies. ALot of women bleed and go on successfully, I think that is probably because the placenta can heal itself given oppurtunity. Rest is important. NO lifting,)not even groceries. no walking for long periods of time. This is crucial in order to allow the healing to take place. I do realize that bleeding also happens for other reasons too. But from my findings placenta previa and abruption are the most likely ,which makes sense since blood vessels are involved. I am praying on this baby, because I would not be able to handle holding another baby dying in my arms. I thought sharing my story would help some women. Also, forgot to mention. My bleeding would only onset after sex, but I do not believe sex is what caused it because it was like my uterus was already full of blood and clots and the motion of sex just "released" it out. flushing me , if you will. Then after the blood and clots passed, I actually felt alot better , great really. My dr has me refrained from sexual activity and she too stated that she does not believe that sex is causing the problem but I must refrain to not jiggle or cause any movement that could be harmful, which also points the finger at "tearing away " the placenta. For some reason they dont want to tell you that. LIabilty on Drs has become so absurd they cannot even speak to us anymore. However, sexual activity may be the cause of bleeding in some women and usually causes no threat BUT can put you at higher risk for an incompetent cervix where when the baby would get heavy enough and the cervix just cannot handle it causing a premature birth. Abortions are also another cause for an incompetent cervix, and being that statistics show that on average every woman has had 3 abortions in her lifetime, I would say that this subject needs to be discussed and the light shined on knowledge needed for prevention. I have had 2 in my life , 1 I am happy about the other I hate myself for. But none the less, the damage they cause is real and may be another reason that women are having so many more complications and no one brings up this taboo subject.And or are ashamed , embarrassed to tell the Doc that they have had prior abortions. Abortion effects the uterus and the cervix. I am not posting this information to point fingers or scare anyone. I just am a big believer in getting it "out there" because I know somebody somewhere needs this information.
spotting before 16 day IVF blood test
I am currently undergoing my first IVF cycle and am not due for my pregnancy test until mon 11th feb but today experienced bright red 'wipes' and mild cramps. Just wondering if anyone has had this and if it sounds like an inplantation bleed?:cry::(:(