Re: How important is an obstetrician?
I had an ob for my first as we wanted to private and I had the phi so we made the most of it. For us it was money well spent dd was born by emergency c sect 6 weeks early, breech with dislocated hips and hip dysplasia so we had acess to a great pead and after care when she was home. With dd2 she almost came at 35 weeks but with the support of my ob we got to 37 and I had a vbac. He was also able to find me help with spd when my physio wouldn't treat me at 22 weeks.
So we are with him again for no 3 given that I have pre term laboursr I wouldn't to go through the public system.
My thoughts are that it's hard to know when you may run into problems first time was a dream run until my waters broke at 34 weeks, if you have doubts use an ob.
Re: How important is an obstetrician?
Wow thankyou so much for your responses ladies, I guess I will need my Ob afterall as I'm going private, wasn't aware that was a necessity in private. Also good to know he is reasonably priced, I had no idea.
OB not necessary unless high risk
For a normal, low risk pregnancy? Not important at all.
Its important to remember that OBs are ultimately surgeons by trade. They are the experts in surgical birth (aka c-sections). And thank goodness we have them for TRUE emergencies (albeit much rarer than the statistics would have us imagine).
However, they are widely criticised by birth advocates for their tendency to favour and 'groom' women with otherwise normal pregnancies for intevention that leads to c-section (ie artificial induction, stretch & sweep). Something else to consider is that they also get paid more for c-sections.....
If you anticipate and desire a normal birth, than I'd personally recommend going with those who specialise in normal birth - midwives. They will be the ones cleaning up your sick and helping you to the toilet if you end up with a c-section anyway!! OBs get the credit and all the $$ but the midwives are the angels who stay by your side before and after, helping you to establish breastfeeding and check your stiches etc. If something does appear during pregnancy that will put you in a high risk category than the midwife will refer you to an OB.
I also just believe that birth should be free. It is a natural process and a part of life. The way i see it - why should i pay some guy in a white coat 3 grand 'in case' I need him - when i am so desperately hoping that everything goes well and he will be left twiddling his thumbs? I'm the one doing the hard work - if anyone gets paid it will be me, thankyou!! ;)
Whatever you decide - make sure you read the book listed in my sig!!
(PS - you can get your own room in public hospitals too - or even better - look into Birth Centres - there is a thread on them here somewhere).