I am so disappointed

I am hoping everythign works out perfect for you!

I am hoping that you are well too.

I too have been searching your username and checking if there are any updates lol


...is that a little scary???

.....I promise I'm normal!

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I too have been searching your username and checking if there are any updates lol


...is that a little scary???

.....I promise I'm normal!

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:redface: I do that too. If I remember rightly I did that to you Jas. Good Luck Stacey, I cant wait to see your BA!!

Allboys is a special lady hard to forget! I've also been waiting to see the birth announcement of a special little bundle of joy born into the family.... I've been thinking over the last 2 weeks or more 'surely she's had the bub by now'! I hope you are well honey :stork-girl:

Oh you ladies are wonderful :lol: I feel so important and loved.

Well as you can see I am STILL waiting. I am a week over today and have an appointment with OB at hospital to get an induction date. Something I really didnt want but I am exhausted. I think the whole emotional side of this pregnancy has well and truely caught up with me and I am done.

I have had two S&S done and although soft and very slowly dialating (1cm) I havent had anything significant.

As for the gender thing although I am trying so hard to be positive and still call her a girl I do have those mild panic attack days of what if it is a boy??? Its a really horrible feeling to have and I try to distract myself but it is always there.
Maybe thats why I havent gone into labour yet, Im still protecting myself.

So thats where we are at, thank you so much for your thoughts and kindness, I really appreciate knowing that you are thinking of me and sending me all these pink vibes :clap:

Fingers crossed my BA will be posted very very very soon :crossfingers::crossfingers::crossfingers:

Stacey

Good luck Stacey!

Thanks for the update! Protecting yourself could very well be the reason you haven't gone into labour! Stranger things have happend ;) Can't wait ot read that BA, take care xo

can't wait to see your BA Stacey, and see what you name your little miss

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To be honest, when I first started reading your post - I was getting a bit peed-off to say the least (4 m/c & ttc # 2 for 16 months), but then I read further about you being told it was a girl, selling all your boy items etc... and I feel really quite sad & somewhat disappointed for you. I think Trillian's suggestion to go to the Gender Dis thread would be a good idea. I hope you can find some peace.

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Me too - and then I remembered how I felt when they told me that baby #6 was a boy, after five girls, and how I nearly fell off the ultrasound table. Gender disappointment had always been one of my big OHNOYOUDIDN'T! issues, but now I know what I'd have felt like if later on they'd said they'd made a mistake and it was another girl. I know I'd have got over it and loved the baby just the same, but yeah, you've got this picture in your mind of the baby you were having, you had hopes and dreams attached to that, and you have to let those go now, and there will be hurt involved in that.

I hope that the hurt isn't too bad, and that you are able to enjoy the rest of your pregnancy. I hope you get some time to buy some special little things for your wee little boy.

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Sorry ladies, I forgot about this thread. I updated the G/D one but not this one.

I had another 3D scan done and the ladies were so wonderful. They knew the situation and really did try to give me the 100% I needed but unfortunately a leg was in the way.
In 2D they were still adamant it was a girl. There was absolutely nothing there for the two of them to see that made them think it could have been a boy. Apparently at that stage (I was nearly 36wks) it is VERY obvious if its a boy.
In 3D we got glimpses and again nothing there and a very clear shot of the bum with nothing hanging out the back which is usually the case.
So although not certain I am still hoping its a girl.
The ladies did say they are not in the job to give you false hope if they are not sure they would rather just say but in this case they would be incrediably shocked and astounded if it turned out to be a boy.
They have never gotten it wrong as far as they know and certainly dont want me to be the one to break that record.
So while that doubt is there I am trying to think pink. I have neutralised the bedding and my hospital bag has neutral clothes with a few pink outfits in there too.
As much as I really want to fully believe I still have that protection mode in place. So thats where I am today, crossing everything I can and hoping like hell. Hopefully for not too much longer

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Oh gosh, and here is your update!

Happy labour vibes for you, and I know that when your little one arrives, be it pink or blue, you will love it with all your heart.

Good luck!!

Sorry you've had to go through so much.

I know how most of us love or would love to have girl in their lives. I have a girl and a boy and am pregnant with number 3 and I would love to have another girl :)

Hope you have a wonderful labour and babymoon!

ive got my fingers crossed for you....wanting to know for sure must be realy adding to the desire to get baby out!!! sending you big pink fluffy labour vibes!!!!
looking forward to reading you BA in the next week!!!
xx hugs to you

Good Luck!! Cant wait to see the BA ;)
Still sending tonnes of pink vibes but we all know you will love your baby no matter what. Hoping for a girl for you :crossfingers:

Pink Pink Pink Vibes for you.
When I had my 20wk scan with DD they were not sure she was defintely a girl. After the birth they put her on my chest and I had a quick look before telling DH it was a girl. The text went out to his friends 'oh S..t it's a girl, oh S...t she has red hair' :lol: That's all they got from him as he was stunned.

You will be just fine too if you have a lovely little boy, I can feel it!

Hope to hear a similar story from you when your baby finally arrives!

sending you lots of pink vibes and some for a wonderful birthing experince too. Best of wishes xxx

PINK PINK PINK!

in case anyone has missed the BA allboys is no longer allboys

congrats sweetie :)

omg!! Congratulations!! :)

That is so amazing! Enjoy your little princess. May she bring you many many years of joy. She will certainly be looked after with so many older brothers. Good for her!

What wonderful news!!! :hooray:
Congrats on your little princess!