I think you look gorgeous Skye.
I think people forget how big most full term pregnant bellies are, and when you look at the size of a newborn of course they are going to be big! and on you, there is no where to hide it.
You're gorgeous hun.
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I think you look gorgeous Skye.
I think people forget how big most full term pregnant bellies are, and when you look at the size of a newborn of course they are going to be big! and on you, there is no where to hide it.
You're gorgeous hun.
You look awesome! What a beautiful belly! People are just jealous because the rest of you is so tiny :) poo poo to big mouth idiots!!
You most certainly are not that big. You look absolutely gorgeous, my treasure! :hug: Pffft people suck sometimes and apparently every pregnant women becomes the property of everyone and the target for dumb comments :(
I dont know why people feel the need to comment on pregnant bellies all the time.
I think your body grows however it needs to to support your baby and as long as its healthy who cares whether its big, round, small, low or high. Everybody just feels the need to say something.
I am currently 23 weeks (with no 3) and dont really look pregnant at all. Have been the same with all three and had the same comments each time. What I find upsetting is people saying "are you sure there's really a baby in there", "is it growing normally", "are you sure you're pregnant" and "you dont look pregnant at all, just a little overweight!" and the best one "dont stress about you stomach not growing your butt sure has!" - definitely made me fell a lot better NOT!
Baby is normal size and growing fine and I am sure when it needs more space to move my belly will pop out. It did with the other two and despite still be told I was having a small baby No 1 was 8.5 pounds!
Whatever size or shape your belly is is okay and people just need to keep their comments to themselves - we still have feelings and are not public property just because we are pregnant!
My bumps have always been bigger than that at 34 weeks IMO i think thats quite an average sized bump not too big not too small - mines bigger than that now :p Only 6 more weeks of listening to people, i find with people especially family and friends nothing is quite the way it should be you'll either be too big or too small, not be doing something quite right etc .... personally i think your bump looks beautiful hunni and i cant wait to hear a BA in the near future :D
Im in the same boat! People are very insensitive.
Your photo is STUNNING! Im bigger than that already, plus add GD to it... Im gonna be huge!
Skybie
I think your bump is so beautiful.... I am already getting asked "how much longer" and when I say I'm only 1/2 way I get the pity in peoples eyes because yes I am huge - but aren't i supposed to be with twins - and people commenting about being pregnant over summer and the heat. Yep I'm aware I'll be pregnant in the hottest months of the year.
If you want a comparison, check out the pic in my sig. It was taken last night at 20 weeks....
People think that is big???? I think you look totally 'normal'. I too am all 'belly' and I think I looked just the same as you a few weeks ago! I must admit, I seem to either get the 'wow, you look huge' or the 'wow, you look good for x number of weeks'. I try not to let it bother me.
I think you look great for the weeks you are i get the oposite everyone thinks i am tiny and i am having a mouse not a baby every single person that has made a comment on my pregnancy has mentioned gee you arent very big and you are hiding it well so i supose we all get some type of comments.
well see, the problem is you have no bum!!!
lol, you are all belly!!
and what a gorgeous belly it is :)
(not "too" big...)
bub is using the space they need to grow..... i think it looks fine :)
if only.... lol:
i just wish i could turn around to strangers and say that skirt makes ur ass look fat so then theyd feel how i do after their stupid comments
Your bump is beautiful! I get the 'are you having twins' comments, which are slightly irritating.
I would say I have the same sized bump as you do, and I didn't think I was excessively large either! Sometimes people just blurt out the first thing they think, and being as slim and trim as you are, I guess it just makes your bump more prominent.
Try not to let it bother you, being pregnant is beautiful and I think you look great. I like to wear skin-tight singlets and flaunt my bump....... just my way of sticking it to the man. LOL
Wow Skybie, you look great.
I'm already getting those comments & i'm only 12w but i look like i'm about 20w along at least.
WOW you look AMAZING!!!!!!!! And just PERFECT for 35 weeks, I wish I looked all baby instead of baby and butt lol You are not huge anyway, honestly you look perfect. I remember posting at some stage in my pg when I didn't even feel huge, I just felt like a normal size pregnant woman and certainly wasn't over sized or anything... anyway I posted saying how annoyed i was at some stupid comments from people about my size. I think that it is one of those unconscious things that some people say, kinda like when someone asks how you are you tend to say good without thinking... Some people just think the right thing to say is "oh your big" I have no idea why but some of the things coming out of some peoples mouths were just really inappropriate :rolleyes: