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Airline - I'm so so sorry to hear that. You must be devastated, and I wish I could say something to make it better for you, but there isn't anything is there. I hope you will keep in touch and we will see you around in the New Year. I hope that you and DH have some good support around you, it's such a dark space.
xxx
*sorry to crash
Airline - so sorry for your loss :hug: I've been hanging out for good news for and so sorry you've been crushed again. Completely understand your need to step back - take care of yourselves. Hope to see you back here again one day with a sticky baby. :hug:
Airline honey I'm so so sorry. May you and DH find the comfort you need during this time. My thoughts and prayers are with you :hug:
love Lise xx
OH AIRLINE i'm so so sad to hear your news. give you dh a huge hug and get one back from him. It's been so lovely gettting to know you. wishing you all the best for 2010 and i hope time heals that pain a little bit lovely. oxoxo
Airline, I am so sorry to hear of your sad news, no words can make you feel any better. Wishing you all the very best for a great 2010.
:hug: :hug: Thinking of you :pray:
Airline I am so sorry.:comfort:
*Sorry for crashing also*
Airline - I am so so sorry to hear your news :hug:. My thoughts are with you and DH at this very difficult time.... I wish I could say something to make things better but I know words cannot ease your pain :hug:. :pray:'ing that it will not be long before you are back on this thread oxxoox
Smithy love your pics. The belly cast look amazing!
grub wow, your bub will be here by Monday. Thats so exciting.
Kyra congrats on seeing your baby. Must be the most amazing experience.
airline i am so sorry to hear your news. Bug cyber hugs being sent your way:hug:
Hi Lani and Grub, any movement?
Hi everyone.This is my first time posting in this section of the forum.I am currently 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant after approx 5.5 years trying.Problem is im really down as im so stressed it will all go wrong.I had a 5 week mc after round 1 of ivf in 2006 which caused my depression to go crazy and after 3 years tried ivf one more time,resulting in my current pregnancy.I have had some light brown discharge whiich my ivf clinic says is normal and dont really have many symptoms except weeing heaps and very very tired.My breasts hurt slightly.Some days they hurt,then other days they dont.My initial beta was 400 and prog great,second test the numbers were great also,but i didnt ask as i google everything and didnt want to become paranoid.I am a nervous wreck!! I shoould be nauseous,with very sore breasts but just feel so emotional.I have a 12 year old son so its not my first baby but feel like im going NUTS! Dont have my scan until 7 weeks.Am even doing urine pregnancy tests to check that im still pregnant.Can anyone calm my nerves?
Welcome Wantbaby#2. Try and relax. I am due tomorrow and I did not show any pregnancy signs til about 7 or 8 weeks. After my first scan. I was like you beside myself that something wasn't right but no I am only days away (hopefully) from meeting my bub.
Wishing you all the very best, stay calm and remain positive.
No progress for me with regards to labour, I am looking for any sign. I am becoming impatient.
Grub How are you going?
Hope everyone else is taking care :bellyrubs: to all xoxox
Hiya Wantbaby. I am in the same boat - I feel like I'm treading water until it "really" happens. Here's my three suggestions to keep you busy
1. Swimming. Distracting, good for the body, good for the baby.
2. Knitting or sewing. I love the idea that I've invested my pregnant time in something for the baby. It's abysmally bad, but hey...
3. Ordering a stack load of DVDs and become a film buff. I'm also plannning on working through the biggest pile of unread books you've ever seen in your life.
If they don't work, you can pop round and walk my hound if you like :lol:
Good luck with everything x
heya wantbaby#2
I know its a hard time to get through... You always think getting pregnant is the hard part but when you do fineally get tehre the worries just get worse :hugs:
swimming is a great idea.. I did it alot during those first testing weeks, and when you get out you feel so fit and ready to take on the world that you find yourself feeling positive about the baby for a change!
I think the main thing here is, you've had a mc before.. So in a way I suppose your mind is makeing you think the worst not only because your frightened at how long its taken you to get this far, and loseing everything youve been hopeing for, but also because youve been through it before, you half expect it to happen just as unexpectedly and inexplicably as before, because you never really got any answers and its easy to think, well its happened once for no reason, so it will happen again. It could be your subconcious trying to deal with the expectation as well..
I went through all the emotions your describing.. Another thing (other then not feeling pregnant enough) I felt was that I wouldnt bond with this baby out of pure defense for dealing with loseing it.. You have to remember not everyone gets Horrifically sick or absolutely tender sore boobs etc etc.. With my first succesfull preg I didnt even notcice I was pregnant until I was four months along! I had no symptoms, no ms, nothing.. If id not noticed much longer it would have been a kick that told me!
Everytime you have bad thoughts about the baby, try to think about the reasonable arguments why nothing is wrong.. like..
-=- Im not bleeding heavy and im not in a whole heap of pain
-=- Its normal not to feel pregnant in the first few weeks
-=- Its my turn this time around, and the worst isnt going to happen this time.
-=- Im only *insert amount of weeks here :p* away form the "safe zone"
-=- theres no reason that this baby simply CANT be perfectly healthy
I found counting down each week to week 12 really helped.. the closer you get, each week, have a little self celebration at your babys achievments at getting through the next week :) even if its just mentioning it to your dh, hearing yourself say out loud to him *only ** weeks to go b4 we're safe! really can help (at least it did with me) And try to remind yourself each week that nothing so far has gone wrong, enjoy every minute you are having with the baby :)
Im sure everything is ok hun! I think distracting yourself is also a great idea, surround yourself with friends, have a bbq or go out to dinner or the movies even.. things like that
Hope this helped.. We will all be here too if you need to vent
AFM packing wildly atm haha.. but the comp isnt shoved in a box yet so I decided to say hello to my loverlys b4 it does happen :p
HI!
lol talk soon <3 Ky
hi want baby! welcome to the forum love. do try not to stress too much. i know that doesn't help and the fear you have is very well founded. it's always so difficult particularly with pregnancy as it just swings from one worry to the next. But do try to live in the moment and enjoy it, whatever the outcome. Better off to spend the next few weeks happy and upbeat about your achievement than stressing yourself out.
Lani and LM - i'm still here too! and in an increasingly bad mood about that little fact. not sure what is happening and given up trying to guess at all the twinges and strange stretchings etc that are going on. The next friend or family member who sends me a mssage that says "had the kid yet?'' or tells me "all first babies come late" or "oh, spend the time sleeping cos you won't get to ever ever ever again" WILL get their head through the wall, then i'll kick their butt to make sure the job was done correctly.
I"m in a rotten mood and everyone is a bloody expert or lecturing me on what i should be doing. it's not a pleasant mix. Anyhoo, at this stage i feel crap and like this baby is never coming out. So am just trying to think in small blocks of time... 3 days till i see the doc again and hopefully we'll know more.
OVER IT!!!!
lani, i hope you are a lot more pleasant a person than me atm.
sorry for the rant girls. ox
:hug: I'm so sorry Airline.. I hope that come February we will see you back in here with some awsome results.. Until then we will all be thinking of you and your DH...
Welcome Wantbaby#2... Congratulations...
Thankyou girls for your support.Well after 2 weeks of stress i have finally broken down crying over the phone to my mum,revealing all my anxiety and worry.I feel a little better now,having let it all out.Will aim to take each day as it comes.Will promise myself and my baby,that i will try and be positive. ((Hugs)) Alicia.
Grub I am exactly the same as u if everyone doesn't stop calling I am turning my phone off and ignoring everyone. I am frustrated and want to meet this baby.
I am actually really on edge tonight and feel extremely weird.
Take care hopefully not too much longer sending u lots of positive labour vibes xoxo
lani-=- you might be feling weird cuz ur about to go into labour!
Fingers crossed, any moment now hun :pray: